Don't be close to my friend, REALLY..why?

Simple scenario

A is best friend to B, A is okay friend's to C. A introduces B to C. Suddenly B and C develops rocking friendship and ignores A.

1. Should A feel bad about it ?

2. Should B consider A befoire getting close to C?

3. Should C make sure A is not hurt for any advances n friendship with B?

4. A,B, C, or say D,E,F shouldn't care of what each other does personally and be happy and continue thier individual friendships?

5. Would you like your best friend to be more closer to an acquaintance, you introduced to your best friend?

Personly I dont feel anything....cos friendship with each person is different to me,I believe in my friends......kidar bi gaya thoo waapas hamare paass hi aayegaa...cos DOSTI hi ek rishta hai jo "NOT FOR SALE" hai... 😃😉

Dosti agar buri hey tho use hone mat dooo...............

Hogayi thooo use khoone mat dhoo....

Agar dost hey subse pyaar usee sone mat doo😃

Have had just such an experience, very "Single White Female" if you know the movie.

In that scenario, I wasnt upset by my close friend becoming really good friends with my good friend - just a little surprised by the speed.....

But when I experienced real problems with my close friend, (and eventually broke up) she continued in her intensity with my good friend, and it was difficult for me to speak badly of close frind when good friend thought she was terrific!


However, time soon proved that the close friend started doing the same with friends introduced by my good friend, especially the boys.

Eventually the close friend and my good friend also had problems and the relationship strained and broke.

Close friend was actually very needy, and a user as it turned out - not really close at all!

Me and good friend continue to be good friends!!! 😆

Moral of the story - there is no jealousy or resentment in true friendship...only acceptance of what you are and being loved for exactly that. The more "friends" that discover this, the better!

>>>thanks for keeping up with this shaggy dog story!!>>

😡 M 😡

Originally posted by: raj5000

Simple scenario

A is best friend to B, A is okay friend's to C. A introduces B to C. Suddenly B and C develops rocking friendship and ignores A.

1. Should A feel bad about it ?

2. Should B consider A befoire getting close to C?

3. Should C make sure A is not hurt for any advances n friendship with B?

4. A,B, C, or say D,E,F shouldn't care of what each other does personally and be happy and continue thier individual friendships?

5. Would you like your best friend to be more closer to an acquaintance, you introduced to your best friend?

don't really see the problem here unless, as rth posted, the friendship is between opposite genders and feelings other than mere "friendship" are involved.

if it's just friendship, then I do not mind at all the other two getting close as long as they don't discuss me behind my back😆

Originally posted by: raj5000

Simple scenario

A is best friend to B, A is okay friend's to C. A introduces B to C. Suddenly B and C develops rocking friendship and ignores A.

1. Should A feel bad about it ?

2. Should B consider A befoire getting close to C?

3. Should C make sure A is not hurt for any advances n friendship with B?

4. A,B, C, or say D,E,F shouldn't care of what each other does personally and be happy and continue thier individual friendships?

5. Would you like your best friend to be more closer to an acquaintance, you introduced to your best friend?

RTH has already given a good explaination.

I don't think if it is a plain friendship , it should matter. there are some people with whome you have instint click , kind of situation and one can't help it.. Yes some people are very possessive ,but they should realize this human factor as well .

for eg. I remember a couple of days back , one patient came and I suppose to examin him etc. I rarely find people , with whom I start talking immediately and very comfortably , but with him just for a short interaction , we were talking like anything . Even though there was no friendship there, it was kind of very easy to talk with him , and I am sure it happens with everyone and also , you may find easy to talk with one person but someone else wouldn't feel comfortable with the same person ...