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Ms. Bholi Bhali thumbnail
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: greatmaratha




Thanks for bringing the topic back on track, after it took a round of teer and nishane baazi.. Last thing I want is Raj to read out the rules on spamming....

Well, are all of us really insecure? Maybe.. Maybe not... Maybe circumstances make us so, for a brief period... Maybe circumstances cant break us and we remain strong as well. I do not believe that everyone is insecure in some way or other..

Is openness truly a cover for hiding something? Openness I think, is an open invitation to all to come and see and read and partake, without fear of anything. Why would someone want to be open, and then use that to hide something... but that again takes us back to the issue on are all insecure?? do people really need that kind of security... Do locks help people feel secure? Does a strong lock on a safe make you sleep easier at night, when all you have is a padlock on the door? The locker is small and easily uprootable, how does a fancy security system help you if they can uproot the entire locker itself...

And with that thought when we go back to the issue, can you really hide something in a open room?




well see, these are all momentary satisfactions. if we lock our safe, we wont have 100% fearless sleep. but its better then a sleepless night. jaab tak a thief will pick up the safe or try to break it. u can at least wake up.

Yes we are brave. there are many who are too brave. but believe it or not, there is always a week point, a point about which they are worried for, they are insecure about. be it family or their own problems.

God has made us in a way that we have a weak point always, so we ask Him for it. and remember Him.

I know ppl, I have been with ppl, who are totally open, and say what they mean and what is in their mind. they are the best spokesman anyone can have. they have full command of themselves. but in their private lives, there is always something going on, which they dont want to show to others or dont share it with others. be it their family problems, problems with their partners. or even an abusive childhood. there is always something they are insecure about.

that is why we say that humans are not perfect. coz a perfect image doesn't have a flaw or a set back or regret or a bad memory.


Edited by Ms. Bholi Bhali - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
#22
Back to topic 😛 ..


Reason for having high end locks..coz there are many
insecure people.they cant differenciate what is
important in life. they place small lock for home.
coz they feel money and other valuables are more
important then relation.

they simply forget that coz of these things
relationswill break and even friendships too..

Some install high lock simply to make others feel that
they have much and more things..
but they dont have any thing except false words.
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Posted: 18 years ago
#23
Because small things are sometimes more precious than the big things! 😃
greatmaratha thumbnail
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Posted: 18 years ago
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........... and there are mental locks, which allow such people to lock away these thoughts, so securely, that many wont even know of its existence.

But their mind is open, where they allow all to come and take a peek...

Dont you think such persons run a risk of allowing a stranger to look for that hidden compartment..

If indeed human is fallible, then everyone knows to look for a chink in the armour to exploit.... then why lock? Will the lock keep out the unwanted?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: guess_gallery

Back to topic 😛 .. Thanks.


Reason for having high end locks..coz there are many
insecure people.they cant differenciate what is
important in life. they place small lock for home.
coz they feel money and other valuables are more
important then relation.

they simply forget that coz of these things
relationswill break and even friendships too..

Some install high lock simply to make others feel that
they have much and more things..
but they dont have any thing except false words.



How does protecting ones materialistic possessions or thoughts break relationships or friendships?

No doubt there are a breed of people who would want to keep the most expensive products to show off their fiscal worth, but does that mean they dont have anything but "false words"... seems to be some fallacy in that line of thought.

193980 thumbnail
Posted: 18 years ago
#26

BTW which one would you prefer

Or

TallyHo thumbnail
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Posted: 18 years ago
#27

there are small locks....

and Big Locks...

small one easy to maintain... but big locks lock more gazes...

However anyone can have a bad hair day anytime!

😃😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Maya_M

BTW which one would you prefer

Or

where is the Mind-lock!!!?😉

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Posted: 18 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: Maya_M

BTW which one would you prefer

Or



😭😭😭 What will you give me for my answer 😉
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Posted: 18 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: greatmaratha



How does protecting ones materialistic possessions or thoughts break relationships or friendships? Some times protecting causes them pain if some one ask some share no matter if he is his own brother.

and if heavy locking means i gives a indirect message that inside there is lots.

No doubt there are a breed of people who would want to keep the most expensive products to show off their fiscal worth, but does that mean they dont have anything but "false words"... seems to be some fallacy in that line of thought.

false words are for those who have heavy lockers but nothing inside..and tell false words ..that he/She is having much much more.

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