Originally posted by: greatmaratha
Thanks for bringing the topic back on track, after it took a round of teer and nishane baazi.. Last thing I want is Raj to read out the rules on spamming....
Well, are all of us really insecure? Maybe.. Maybe not... Maybe circumstances make us so, for a brief period... Maybe circumstances cant break us and we remain strong as well. I do not believe that everyone is insecure in some way or other..
Is openness truly a cover for hiding something? Openness I think, is an open invitation to all to come and see and read and partake, without fear of anything. Why would someone want to be open, and then use that to hide something... but that again takes us back to the issue on are all insecure?? do people really need that kind of security... Do locks help people feel secure? Does a strong lock on a safe make you sleep easier at night, when all you have is a padlock on the door? The locker is small and easily uprootable, how does a fancy security system help you if they can uproot the entire locker itself...
And with that thought when we go back to the issue, can you really hide something in a open room?
well see, these are all momentary satisfactions. if we lock our safe, we wont have 100% fearless sleep. but its better then a sleepless night. jaab tak a thief will pick up the safe or try to break it. u can at least wake up.
Yes we are brave. there are many who are too brave. but believe it or not, there is always a week point, a point about which they are worried for, they are insecure about. be it family or their own problems.
God has made us in a way that we have a weak point always, so we ask Him for it. and remember Him.
I know ppl, I have been with ppl, who are totally open, and say what they mean and what is in their mind. they are the best spokesman anyone can have. they have full command of themselves. but in their private lives, there is always something going on, which they dont want to show to others or dont share it with others. be it their family problems, problems with their partners. or even an abusive childhood. there is always something they are insecure about.
that is why we say that humans are not perfect. coz a perfect image doesn't have a flaw or a set back or regret or a bad memory.

