Originally posted by: bubblezz
Hey guys!😊
As you know that after marriage a whole lot of things start to change. Including love. Before marriage love exists so much but after marriage what happens? Why does our love suddenly start to seem less? Does our love die off? What exactly happens?😕
What do u guys think?😊
😭😭 If love dies after marriage, I donot want to get married!😆
Seriously though I donot think love dies. In some instances it does die and people separate or move on. However, I would like to think that in most cases this does not happen as I still see lot of happily married couples in spite of having been married for a long time.
I believe that initially we are in love with someone. After a few years that changes from being in love to loving someone. So there is a transformation of sort but it is still for the better, is it not?
As to what changes after marriage........... I think the main reason is too much togetherness and responsibilities and pressures of daily life, home, children, not to mention umpteen responsibilities. I think this takes a toll on spouses. I have been told the only way to rekindle the love part is to take regular holidays away from home, be it even once a couple of years. This brings the couples together when they are away from home and daily responsibilities. Also some couples make time for each other even if its going out for dinner once a week. This is important to reconnect.
Would be nice to hear from married people how they deal with this.😊
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