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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hey guys!😊

As you know that after marriage a whole lot of things start to change. Including love. Before marriage love exists so much but after marriage what happens? Why does our love suddenly start to seem less? Does our love die off? What exactly happens?😕

What do u guys think?😊

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Posted: 18 years ago
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the love cant die off...its just too much time together ...b4 mariage they want to be together after marriage they want space..
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Posted: 18 years ago
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love never dies..




it only kills.. 😆😆😆 okay, just kidding..
Love doesn't die. IMHO, if it died, it never was for real.
It changes forms, perhaps loses / gains intensity, but always stays.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

love never dies..




it only kills.. 😆😆😆 okay, just kidding..
Love doesn't die. IMHO, if it died, it never was for real.
It changes forms, perhaps loses / gains intensity, but always stays.

😆..rightt love never dies!😃

I think sometimes certain circumstances cause the person to react in different ways after marriage perhaps.😊

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: bubblezz

Hey guys!😊

As you know that after marriage a whole lot of things start to change. Including love. Before marriage love exists so much but after marriage what happens? Why does our love suddenly start to seem less? Does our love die off? What exactly happens?😕

What do u guys think?😊

😭😭 If love dies after marriage, I donot want to get married!😆

Seriously though I donot think love dies. In some instances it does die and people separate or move on. However, I would like to think that in most cases this does not happen as I still see lot of happily married couples in spite of having been married for a long time.

I believe that initially we are in love with someone. After a few years that changes from being in love to loving someone. So there is a transformation of sort but it is still for the better, is it not?

As to what changes after marriage........... I think the main reason is too much togetherness and responsibilities and pressures of daily life, home, children, not to mention umpteen responsibilities. I think this takes a toll on spouses. I have been told the only way to rekindle the love part is to take regular holidays away from home, be it even once a couple of years. This brings the couples together when they are away from home and daily responsibilities. Also some couples make time for each other even if its going out for dinner once a week. This is important to reconnect.

Would be nice to hear from married people how they deal with this.😊

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Guardian_Angle, once again great response... r u reading my mind 😃 ...

BTW - I don't think love ever dies it grows every day, not more expressive but love blends in with normal living reason some feel love dies. Love is eternal thats what I believe in never dies even after death:(
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Oh yet another topic on eternal love..

of course it dies and if it is Made in India as in Alisha Chinoy's song of the same name it gets re-incarnated too.😊 That is why love 2nd or 3rd time around is just as intense..😊

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Before marriage Infatuation is there and it wears off after marriage. But real love grows even stronger each day you pass with your loved one. It never dies IMO it just goes into the next phase.

Now if love dies than it was never real to begin with.

Sometime people confuse infatuation with love 😳
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: raj5000

Guardian_Angle, once again great response... r u reading my mind 😃 ...

BTW - I don't think love ever dies it grows every day, not more expressive but love blends in with normal living reason some feel love dies. Love is eternal thats what I believe in never dies even after death:(

👏👏I am glad you think of it that way Anshu. Your topics are of interest to me as I start thinking too.😆 Few years back I saw the movie Ghost. In it Patrick Swayze says that love never dies........ we take it with us when we depart. I have never forgotten those words. You should listen to the Enchanted Melody from the movie..... its really haunting. My two cents.....😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: GUARDIAN ANGEL

👏👏I am glad you think of it that way Anshu. Your topics are of interest to me as I start thinking too.😆 Few years back I saw the movie Ghost. In it Patrick Swayze says that love never dies........ we take it with us when we depart. I have never forgotten those words. You should listen to the Enchanted Melody from the movie..... its really haunting. My two cents.....😆

GA "Ghost" excellent movie dear. 👏

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