Originally posted by: mishty_dhawan
hey members, so this is my first topic in this section.
welcome to DM...hope to see many more topics from you in future😊
As the name suggests i wud love to have a debate with u all that wht do u think is better what do u want-
one moment happiness or working hard the whole life for a greater achievement greater hapinness.....
since you set it up as a debate, I'll have to take side here...right. Okay, here I go:
for me, working hard the whole life for a greater achevemnet and greater happiness menas lot mor than just that one moment of happiness. Success may have many fathers when compared to failure...who has none.....okay baba, I admit I heard Shilpa Shetty say that in kwk and liked it a lot and was dying to use this somwhere....anywhere......😆but, I believe, that there are no shortcuts for success. One has to work hard consistently to achieve something in life. Even the joy of becoming a mother that we feel the moment we hold our baby for the first time in our arms has 9 months of nurturing behind it......and god knows how many months/years of....you know what😉😆
So, for me, the whole life of working hard will always be more important than a moment of happiness😊
one moment of true love or love for the whole life........
ahhhhhhh....this one is hard as at times, a moment of true love will overshadow the whole life of just love.....but we live in a realistic world and practicality, whether wanted or not, definitely shapes our thoughts. Even though, I still cherish those handful days of true love that left a lingring sweet memory for me to cherish my whole life, I would prefer the love that I get from my husband for the rest of my life....no doubts there.
Today, I watched "Hazaron Khwahishen Aisi" and your question reminds me of the protagonist Geeta who messed up her married life for those moments spent with her first and true love every now and then. Once you are committed, these moments, if with some one other than your spouse, should not hamper your love for life and that place should only belong to your spouse.
one moment hatred or enemy 4 a whole liftime....
here, I would say that I would like to go with just one moment of hatred as compared to a life full of it. I do forgive but never forget. Forgiving helps getting over the negativity and not forgetting helps with not getting hurt again.
or if we go to an extent u wud want life 4 just one moment or u want to live as life comes to u wht do u feel is better.....
as I said above, it depends what in life we are talking about. Based on that we can decide whether we want one moment of it or whole life of it.....keeping in mind that if we choose one moment of it....it won't be available to us for our whole life...or vice versa. I hope I am making sense here.
remember frnds this is not a discussion but a debate.. so i hope u will enjoy
As far as debate is concerned, were you expecting us to take only one side...like if we say love for whole life then we have to say hatred for whole life as well😕 If this is the case, then I am doomed because life is not black and white like this. There is a huge grey area in life which can't be ignored
n if u dont like the topic close it
i hope u all will like it.
Kumkum Bhagya
