parental pressure vs child ability

since the parent children fever is going on DM after marriage topic i guess this post fits here 😆 😆 😆 you guys on DM are right on track, first marriage, then becoming parents and kids etc. good going 😉

parental pressure supresses childs natural ability. do you agree or not? please give reasons

Originally posted by: raunaq

since the parent children fever is going on DM after marriage topic i guess this post fits here 😆 😆 😆 you guys on DM are right on track, first marriage, then becoming parents and kids etc. good going 😉

parental pressure supresses childs natural ability. do you agree or not? please give reasons

adequate pressure enhances it. (woh agar na ho, to mere bhai jaise lazy log tapori aur nikamme ban jaate! thnx to that, he is doing better than his very shmart😎 sister, May God bless )

too much pressure suppresses it however.
why do you think GREAT parenthood is a challenge? 😳

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

adequate pressure enhances it. too much pressure suppresses it however.

agree with both of your points. i am not against great parenthood 😳 but i am talking about strict parents whose kids only sweat all day long to please their parents. i was reading one of the posts, dont remember which one was it, where SJB mentioned how she had a student whose dad slammed him against the board just becoz he didnt do well or something similar. i am specifically talking about such type of parents

Originally posted by: raunaq

agree with both of your points. i am not against great parenthood 😳 but i am talking about strict parents whose kids only sweat all day long to please their parents. i was reading one of the posts, dont remember which one was it, where SJB mentioned how she had a student whose dad slammed him against the board just becoz he didnt do well or something similar. i am specifically talking about such type of parents

Oh.. those??? Those should be beaten up in front of other kids till their bottoms get red 😡 and then some jail time.

Originally posted by: raunaq

since the parent children fever is going on DM after marriage topic i guess this post fits here 😆 😆 😆 you guys on DM are right on track, first marriage, then becoming parents and kids etc. good going 😉

😆 😆 😆 😆 yeah, kind of training to the yet to be married guys and girls... so that they are somewhat prepared for the future and have all pros and cons when needed them the most...... 😛 jk.... 😊

Originally posted by: raunaq

parental pressure supresses childs natural ability. do you agree or not? please give reasons

Yes, excessive pressure supresses the child natural ability to think on its own. If parents are pressuring the child in each and every situation to do the thing their way then child is unable to develop his/her thinking ability. The child instead of excelling may lose interest in the field or subject he/she is force to take as that subject or field is not to his/her liking. Too much pressurizing tactics may also lead the child to be a recluse and one day might also rebel and go in the wrong direction.

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

Oh.. those??? Those should be beaten up in front of other kids

😆 such kind of parents 😡 they need some parental training classes 😆 😆 😆

Originally posted by: sweta01

😆<FONT face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" color=#cc0000 size=2>yeah,kind oftraining to the yet to be married guys and girls... so that they aresomewhat prepared for the future and have all pros and cons when needed them the most...... <FONT face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size=2>😛jk.... 😊

<FONT face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size=2>Yes, excessive pressure supresses the child natural ability to think onits own. If parents are pressuring the child in each and every situation to do the thingtheir way then child is unable to develop his/her thinking ability.The child instead of excellingmay lose interestin the field or subject he/she is force to take as that subject or field is not to his/her liking. Too much pressurizing tactics may also lead the child to be a recluse and one day might also rebel and go in the wrong direction.

i agree with you 😛

Originally posted by: raunaq

parental pressure supresses childs natural ability. do you agree or not? please give reasons

Definitely parental pressure suppresse child's ability!! 😭 I cannot write much on this😭 as my parent is putting presurre on me to stop posting in IF and take rest,this is suppressing my ability to spamm the posts😃

Wishes,

Myth

Originally posted by: mythili_Kiran

Definitely parental pressure suppresse child's ability!! 😭 I cannot write much on this😭 as my parent is putting presurre on me to stop posting in IF and take rest,this is suppressing my ability to spamm the posts😃

Wishes,

Myth

Oh dear. Take rest. But tell your parents that you are 25 and a lecturer so you can think for yourself too.

I think Rauanqwa was talking about kids as in growing ones not grown up kids.

Originally posted by: raunaq

parental pressure supresses childs natural ability. do you agree or not? please give reasons

There are times when parental pressure does good but slamming a child against a door for not performing well or slapping left and right would only bring negative effects.

Pressure of finishing things on time and discouraging procrastination is good.