Anshu, I think we all do owe to give back to society. This world do exist because there are many selfless people who work for betterment of society. Now-a-days people are becoming more selfish and we do already see the imapct on society. There is a saying 'You need a village to raise your kids' so basically society does play a big role in eveyone's life. If we do not take care of it today we will pay for it tomorrow.
Jahan tak sawal hai sacrificing your personal commitments, so anshu it depends on personality. Most of the time the people do it as they can feel other people pain so it becomes obvious for them to sacrifice some of their personal commitments. I do agree that's not the right thing to do as they need to take care of themselves too. par aisa hota nahin ....
I do believe firmly that we owe to society & need to give back to it. We may not see the results of it today but they will always be there. I have another belief 'apne liye to jaanwar bhi jeeta hai to sirf apne liye jiye to kya jiye. jaanwar aur insan mein kuch to farak hona chahiye' The happiness you see doing things for the people, which are not your primary responsibility, gives oneself so much happiness one can't explain. This only can be felt by doing it....
If you take care of just yourself there is only one person to take care of your self, but if you take care of people then there are many people to think about you and yourself. You succeed as people want you to succeed.
You could do things in many manners not just as we define in US. We can help people just by guiding, may help monitary, may help by giving time or may be just by being there when they need us.....
These are just my POV. I do not mean to hurt anyone so I am in advance sorry if hurted anyone's sentiment by me saying anything above which I did.
Edited by manjujain - 18 years ago