Man suffer double standard

Why we give First rank to a mother in a child's life, dad is also Equally make all Efforts for child , We ignore his Efforts and give more importance to mother , when mother bear child in her Womb father look after her , take care of her , ,father arrange food for mother so she can give her child her blood and flesh ,that blood and flesh she gives her child that is made by those food which father is earning for mother , indirectly he is too giving his blood and sweat for his child by doing hard work for a mother's comfort and her needs , Then why people Counts only mother Sacrifice , when father also equally fulfils his duty.

Why people don't count his hard work , Isn't it Double standard ?We say mother Nourish a life inside her But we ignore this fact that father is nourishing mother and keeping her healthy so she can nourish that life who is growing inside her ?

Discuss 😊

Takes less than a second to shoot some sperm and make a baby. When the father actually carries pounds of flesh in his belly and then pushes it out through stretching the narrow passage of his vagina to the max - then we will talk. Looking after the mother is the least the father can do for all the agony he is putting the mother through. Even slavery for a life time won't compensate for nine months of suffering followed by hours of labor in return for one second of sperm squirting.

That being said, yes there are some biases against men and paternity. Women do suffer biases as well. There shouldn't be gender discrimination in parenting. There are both men and women who are great parents and both men and women who are terrible parents. The love and worth of parents should be judged by their actual actions in raising a child. However, comparing a man's efforts to actual gestation and labor is just beyond ridiculous and absurd.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Takes less than a second to shoot some sperm and make a baby. When the father actually carries pounds of flesh in his belly and then pushes it out through stretching the narrow passage of his vagina to the max - then we will talk. Looking after the mother is the least the father can do for all the agony he is putting the mother through. Even slavery for a life time won't compensate for nine months of suffering followed by hours of labor in return for one second of sperm squirting.

That being said, yes there are some biases against men and paternity. Women do suffer biases as well. There shouldn't be gender discrimination in parenting. There are both men and women who are great parents and both men and women who are terrible parents. The love and worth of parents should be judged by their actual actions in raising a child. However, comparing a man's efforts to actual gestation and labor is just beyond ridiculous and absurd.

My statements were hyperbolic. 😆 That being said man's fertile sperm is the cause of pregnancy. No wonder you have women in labor cussing and blaming their men for their misery. 😛

Also not all women want to experience motherhood or pregnancy. Many women do have children out of social pressure, religious beliefs or other reason. Not all women experience joy or bonding after delivery. Also only a fraction of men would choose gestation and labor if they had a choice and on the flip side only a fraction of women would give up the choice.

It is not men's fault they cannot give birth but in no way shape or form is supporting a woman equivalent to childbirth. Some physiological aspects aren't logically comparable. But we can discuss paternal affection and bonding in other terms.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

My statements were hyperbolic. 😆 That being said man's fertile sperm is the cause of pregnancy. No wonder you have women in labor cussing and blaming their men for their misery. 😛

They should not do it , After all they also have selfish motive in this , They want to be a mother and want to enjoy motherhood ...So why blaming Husbands 🤔

Also not all women want to experience motherhood or pregnancy. Many women do have children out of social pressure, religious beliefs or other reason. Not all women experience joy or bonding after delivery. Also only a fraction of men would choose gestation and labor if they had a choice and on the flip side only a fraction of women would give up the choice.

That mean mostly will not give up ,So you are agreeing on my point that most of the women like this blessing And want to Enjoy Motherhood 😳

It is not men's fault they cannot give birth but in no way shape or form is supporting a woman equivalent to childbirth. Some physiological aspects aren't logically comparable. But we can discuss paternal affection and bonding in other terms.

Hmm , you are just Saying it cant be Compared but not Giving any solid Reason ., I think it is Equal cause It is not Easy to handle a Cranky Mother and Take care of her and her need So she can give birth a Healthy child ...That food which she Eat , A father earn and give it to her , That's how it reaches to a child , So According to this fact Father should also have equal rights on kids , Even courts give more importance to Mom which is wrong , It should be Equal 😳