Debater of the week #13:Nishu786

Originally posted by: LeadNitrate

Your name: Nis or Nishu

The first letter of your name and surname( if you don't answer above question):

The reason behind your ID: My close friends call me Nishu,and 786 is lucky number.

How did you first join IF: My friend used to watch this show "Perfect bride", she told me about this forum. So i thought to check it out. And,Rest is history 😳😆.

How often do you login: For 2 mins everyday (Atleast)

Your experience in IF so far: Experience is mixed,but mostly good. Got opportunity to interact with some really intelligent & chill out ppl. Few of them became really good friends. One thing is sure,i will never regret joining India-forums.

A nice moment of your life on IF: I used to give spoiler in bigg boss 5,one month after the show ended,i got married with my gf. Most of my friends were really happy for me & got some really nice compliments.

Your worst nightmare on IF: Nobody in forum can give me night mare 😛.

[FONT=Verdana] Few friends on IF who share the same wavelength: Aah,if only you have asked this question few weeks back. I'd have said name of my best buddy here,but now i can't,bcoz that person is not friend anymore & if i take his/her name,he/she may get angry. Anyway i will tell few names Nanu,Cherie,Tuni,Sara,Boredsoul, Autumn., Gunia, Nadz & Gypsy.

What other forums you visit other than DM: Bigg Boss, JDJ & Bollywood

Why are you attracted towards DM: I am mostly silent visitor of DM. But i like to read posts by RTH,K.Universe & others. It's interesting to read their take on things. DM is easily best section in IF after Bigg boss(DMians don't kill me) 😆

Does the level of Debate here meet your expectation? If yes, do you want to give input to make it better? If no, same question Oh Ya,Most members here are damn good in Debating. I am in no position to give them any input,they are in different league altogether. But i will like to see this section little more active.

Your favorite past-time: Playing guitar, Swimming , Cooking , Long drive with Neha.

Are you a couch potato or busy Bee: Little bit of both.

What are the activities you do, if you are busy bee I am S/W Developer,so you will mostly find me sitting infront of lappy doing my project work or checking official mails.

What do you usually do, sitting on couch? just browse IF or others as well Whatsapping, Skyping or browsing IF or watching tv

favorite qoute if any Some journeys are meant to be travelled for lessons and not destinations.

Virtual or real: Real anyday...but i like my virtual life too,only bcoz i have some really good friends here.

Describe your journey from Silent reader to random poster to full fledged DM member.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Describe your journey from Silent reader to random poster to full fledged DM member.

Originally posted by: charminggenie

Awww Congrats on the good news, Nishu! And thank you for all the great spoilers you gave during BB forum! Damn your are friends with Boredsoul, cannot give you a hard time! So enjoy these fun randoms for now:- Thanks Genie 😊,I need to give treat to boredsoul now 😆,btw her b'day is near,right?

• What event do you remember most fondly from high school? - More than any event, Any time spent with my two good friends,Rajeev & Siya were most memorable moments... 😛


• Who was your favorite elementary school teacher and why? - R.K.Sharma Sir. I was average in maths till class 8th. But he really showed confidence on me & made me work thrice hard. In school,he was always hard on me. After i completed by B.Tech from IIT-D,i went to meet him,but he was no more. I will always have this regret that i didn't got chance to meet him when he was taking his last breath.


• What's a favorite family memory that has stuck with you into your adult life? Why? Family trip to Milan. Me & my younger sis got lost in street after having dinner in a local restaurant. My parents were really worried,i was 8 yrs old & my sis was 7 yrs old that time. She was not leaving my hand & crying...& i had no clue where to find my parents. One local guy saw us & took us to nearby Questura. After sitting there for 12 hrs ,me & my sis reunited with my parents.
• Well can't say if it was fav memory,but i will never forget this event.


• How do you use the information that you learned in your favorite class in your life today? What if i say my fav class was Sports 😆. On a serious note,Maths class by Sharma sir was my favourite in School. More than any useful information,the confidence he showed on me was the life changing moment for me (Career wise). Bcoz sometimes all you need is someone who believes in you more than you do,so you can have the courage of believing in yourself a little more.


• What sport do you most enjoy watching? Cricket,Soccer & MotoGP


• What was the most memorable event that you experienced in college? I proposed a 2nd yr girl in her class,teacher was also there,that was my first day in college. Well my seniors asked me to do that & you can't say No to seniors in IIT 😳😆. Later on i dated her for sometime too 😆.


• What's rocking your world this month? Wifey is pregnant,Her due date is on Nov last week,So i am making sure she is happy & trying to fulfil all her demands 😛.


• What's the craziest thing you've ever done in your life? Will update soon...


• What's your favorite activity to do locally and why? Walking on the beach & there is one spot, little far from Bay bridge,i go there sometimes in night with wifey & we both enjoy view of bay bridge in night.


• Can you share three things about you that you think no one here knows? Hmm,will update soon...


• What's your most significant current challenge On personal front- I want to be a better father,& at the same time i want to be a better hubby( Well there is always scope of improvement,one have to always work hard on keeping wife happy & content 😆)
• On professional front - There is still lot to achieve,so i have set few goals for myself,& now working to achieve it.

Ok confession time, name all the saas bahu serials you have watched? "Perfect Bride" 😳

Goodluck, will be back for more! Sure 😊

Originally posted by: tuntunituntuni

hi nishu dada😃i thought of putting sum questions relating ur absolute personal lyf😉 You can ask me anything,afterall you are my sis 🤗

oh btw me so happy tht iam one of ur best budd here😳biggg huggg🤗

so here me go:-

|| wat was tht first thing of ur wife( my boudi:P )attracted u most?and wen u came to knw tht without her u would be incomplete😳? First of all,she is one of the most beautiful woman i have ever seen,but i was mostly smitten with her eyes & smile. To be honest,we never had a single dreaded "DTR" (Define the Relationship) during our courtship. Everything about our relationship felt like the most natural thing in the world. The truth is that knowing you have found the right woman to marry is not rocket science or anything like that. The decision to marry Neha was the easiest decision i have ever made in my life & it will always be the the best decision of my life. I have little bit of anger issue at times,even fought many times with my close friends in real life & virtual over silly things. Even fought with parents sometimes on little things,but from my first date with Neha,i never fought with her or got angry on her. I simply can't. When i see her face or talk to her,doesn't matter how much angry i m or pissed off on my colleagues or friends,my mood automatically restore to default setting ❤️. When i watch her sleeping in night,the innocence & beauty in her face remind me daily that she was the one,she is the one & she will always be the only one for me. I think it's instinctive,that you know when you are comfortable with somebody. She bring out the best in me & may be i do same for her.

|| Tell us that turning point of ur lyf which actually turned out ur lyf completely Marrying Neha was the turning point of my life. I was a big time spoiled guy,i used to run away from any sort of responsibility. I was really immature,well i m still little bit 😆. But She changed me completely,She never asked me to change,but i felt like doing so for her,for us.

|| wen u will be father,wat values u wants to teach ur children? will u skip the traditional values/education tht u got frm parents?will u go for 'watever they likes? way? Mixture of both,at early stage of his/her life,i will like him to give moral values that i got from my parents. And,ofcourse they can do what they think is right. You have to show faith on them,otherwise they will never be able to trust their instinct. For that i will try to have a good friendly relation with them,not like a typical father-child relation.

|| Love of ur life is with u,bt wat will u do if sumone deliberately wants to do harm/defame u nd ur luv? will u leave him/her in their condition or will try to take revenge or will try to make thm understand in a gud way?😉 If someone defame me,then it doesn't matter to me as long as my loved ones trust me or believe in me,but if someone defame her,i will kill that person without even giving them any chance to say their side of story.

sum one liner😉

Family---- Family is everything.

Love---- Aah, Love is not a feeling,it's a behaviour. It's the way your partner treats you everyday,every single day. Not just when their life is going well or when they are happy.

Hate---- Let a happy emotion control your life, it may let you down. Let a hurt control your life, it will never let you down.

Freedom--- means getting a chance to do what we never thought we would ever do.

Friendship----_is a beautiful bond between two person. You can be vulnerable to them,but you trust them enough to know that they have your back.

Most importantly,friendship means being there for your friend,even when you are really mad at him/her & even when it's inconvenient.

Virtual life😆--- From personal experience,i can say,never take it too seriously ever.

thts it for now..may be will ask u another set of Q sum other time;) Anytime sis