po*n Addict Husbands

Originally posted by: ItIsMyLife

What can be done with husbands who are po*n addicts?
Will it be termed as the wife's insecurity if she feels jealous of her husband loving po*n stars?
Or is it normal to love po*n stars as loving film stars?
Should a man be prohibited to watch po*n after marriage?
A po*n addict man may not get sexual pleasure from his wife as the wife will not have the perfect body shape as po*n stars.
What if a po*n addict man wants his wife to get involved in anal sex even when the wife is uncomfortable?
Is watching po*n right?

The problem I think Men expecting regular women to act like po*n stars is similar to women expecting men to act like the sensitive hunks in romantic comedies...and the difference,mans sex has something of extroversion in it and womans sex has something of introversion...for eg. Kiss a woman and she closes her eyes, bcos she wants to feel the kiss in her interiority, she wants to absorb it... And man wants to see what is happening to the woman..But if someone obssesed or adicted with these things then its wrong...once in a blue moon its okie...I think so😊... Osama had po*n, Pepsi, Coke, TV, strange drugs, three+ women and more!.. Are you sure they killed Osama Bin Laden and not Charlie Sheen?

Originally posted by: ItIsMyLife

What can be done with husbands who are po*n addicts?
Will it be termed as the wife's insecurity if she feels jealous of her husband loving po*n stars?
Or is it normal to love po*n stars as loving film stars?
Should a man be prohibited to watch po*n after marriage?
A po*n addict man may not get sexual pleasure from his wife as the wife will not have the perfect body shape as po*n stars.
What if a po*n addict man wants his wife to get involved in anal sex even when the wife is uncomfortable?
Is watching po*n right?

Hubby should be sent to a sex clinic for treatment.

Originally posted by: ItIsMyLife

What can be done with husbands who are po*n addicts?
Will it be termed as the wife's insecurity if she feels jealous of her husband loving po*n stars?
Or is it normal to love po*n stars as loving film stars?
Should a man be prohibited to watch po*n after marriage?
A po*n addict man may not get sexual pleasure from his wife as the wife will not have the perfect body shape as po*n stars.
What if a po*n addict man wants his wife to get involved in anal sex even when the wife is uncomfortable?
Is watching po*n right?

What is right and what is normal regarding surfing po*n is too subjective to really be determined properly. As far as loving po*n is concerned, I doubt the people watching po*n actually love the stars as they do the fit bodies, the intense stuff etc

Prohibited? I don't think anyone should be restricted from doing what they want to do, unless they feel trapped and addicted and want to get out, then yes some steps must be taken to take them out of that addiction. And if it hurts the wife emotionally then the man as a husband should stop doing it.

Also, he can't force her to have anal sex, that's borderline rape in my opinion.

Any form of erotica is a bodily need, therefore it doesn't essentially have anything to do with one's relationship status. It isn't like only men watch po*n or that your spouse is cheating on you if they do. Watching po*n cannot be deemed wrong, y'know? But if a person is addicted to it, you know they've gone overboard and need to be fixed. 'Right or wrong' is hardly relevant in this case. I've never watched po*n but have by chance ended up reading surprisingly explicit fan fictions in IF itself. 'Guilty pleasure', heard of it? All things erotica are that.

1) If it is a diagnosed addiction, then they need help from an expert in mental health.

2) I would say so. po*n is just a fantasy. Just like women fantasize about Prince Charming or Edward Cullen.

3) Yes.

4) No, in moderation it is a healthy medium of sexual enjoyment. The couple can enjoy po*n together as well.

5) That is not true. Love, companionship, commitment, trust, emotional intimacy all enhance sexual pleasure. All humans have a mental image of the ideal bodied man or woman, not just those who view po*n. But the ideal body is not necessary for pleasure.

6) Both men and women should try and please their partners, but if something is too uncomfortable they should say no and respect it when the other says no. po*n is not a factor really, people get ideas from books, from talking to friends, personal fantasy or po*n. Sometimes it is something both partners agree to and enjoy. Sometimes it is left as just a fantasy.

7) There is no right or wrong, it is a matter of personal taste.

How about we ask "someone" about this? That aunty has way too much experience you know. No wonder, she feels actors in her husband and what else is left to those poor ones.. pawns ya.. Aisha di.. Agree wid me?😉😆

Now, do po*n addicted husband deserve treatment or a ONS/ EMA and perhaps another partner who can satisfy him? Talk about wives who leave their men hanging while fantasising over TV actors or other men. I had to cite an example here. No offence at all..!

Originally posted by: ItIsMyLife

What can be done with husbands who are po*n addicts?