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Posted: 12 years ago
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How long does it take to know someone well !!? Is it is really possible to know anyone fully!?!😊

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Posted: 12 years ago
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It depends on communication and observation. You may have known a person all your life and you don't know him enough, you may have known a person for a year and no one knows him better than you. It depends on your bonding with that person.
There are certain people you have known all your life-parents, childhood friends, relatives-those are the people who know you the most, because they have been their with you through all the stages of your life. Then there are people who might not have been for long, but they know you because they understand you (close friends and your partner).
But I don't think anyone can know you completely. They might know the most or they might know you well, but the only person who knows you fully is you. And it is a good thing.. there are certain things you want to share with people, but there are certain thoughts that you want to keep to yourself... 😛
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Heart

the only person who knows you fully is you. And it is a good thing..

This too is debatable :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Angie_

This too is debatable :)

Why?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Outwardly everybody tries to behave at their best and exhibit their assets. So yes, the closest you can get to really know them is by allowing your knowledge of them to expand slowly. Sometimes a particular trait of someone instantly strikes us, but the fact is there's just plenty of stuff going on inside everybody. You cannot know someone fully, not really.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It takes a whole lifetime, and sometimes even longer, to get to know yourself. What makes you think you can know someone else just as well? I don't think it's possible. Life is a journey, and in that journey you make commitments to get to know yourself and to learn more about others. If you await your destination in hopes that you will have fully understood someone by the time you get there, you will spend your whole lifetime waiting.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dr3viL.



I think it is possible to know another person in their entirety, provided you put the time and effort into studying them, treat them like a subject and dedicate a few hours a day to stalking and making notes, and the other waking hours talking to them, compare your notes and study them again. And at the end of the day I believe people are predictable, and can easily type casted, otherwise ill find them a group.. say bi-polar?

but i guess the easiest way would be to shower trust, love, respect and patience unto a person and let them blossom like a flower before your eyes! .. and if you spot some thorns.. run baby run!



If that's the case, you'll be doing a whole lot of running throughout your lifetime! Because even the most beautiful of roses come with thorns.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

It takes a whole lifetime, and sometimes even longer, to get to know yourself. What makes you think you can know someone else just as well? I don't think it's possible. Life is a journey, and in that journey you make commitments to get to know yourself and to learn more about others. If you await your destination in hopes that you will have fully understood someone by the time you get there, you will spend your whole lifetime waiting.

"Raahein jo chuni hain meri thee raza
Rehti hoon kyon phir khudh se hi khafaa
" There , your siggy says it all ! 😆
How are you doing WA !
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Angie_

"Raahein jo chuni hain meri thee raza
Rehti hoon kyon phir khudh se hi khafaa
" There , your siggy says it all ! 😆
How are you doing WA !



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Hey, Angie! 🤗 Just left a message for you in the chat thread earlier. :) I'm doing well! How are you? Good to see you back!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*



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Hey, Angie! 🤗 Just left a message for you in the chat thread earlier. :) I'm doing well! How are you? Good to see you back!!

Just been there . I m doing fine. 🤗 Feels nice to be back .

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