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manisaini

@manisaini

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Posted: 13 years ago

hi,i just wanna know me and my boyfriend have same family name from mum and dad both sides .My family they nt saying any any thing about that coz .They dont have any problem with same family names .But his family said that its nt good and not possible to get marry with same family names .They think may our kides not will be born with some effects like may they not will be normel.I dont they said this is also docters thinking .I just wanna know how its true or not

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Angel-likeDevil

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Posted: 13 years ago

Oh, this would matter if you are someone from Andhra Pradesh 😆

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Neetz

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Posted: 13 years ago

Most people condemn it because having same family name can indicate a relation which can prevent the acceptability of the marriage, I think. I doubt it'll affect the kids 'coz I don't see a logic behind that but maybe it will if the doctors say so.

Whatever it is, I hope all ends well for you and your boyfriend (:

Edited by PurpleFairy - 13 years ago

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Blukitten

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Posted: 13 years ago

Why is tht a prob ? I have seen so many marriages with same family names kapoors,singh,sinha

Never thought tht could be a prob unless ur blood related.

I guess ur bf's family is just making execuse to call off ur wedding maybe they r not happy tht their son is not going for an arranged marriage like an obedint mama's boy.

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Muhammed Asif

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Posted: 13 years ago

if he is nt ur relative, thn no pbm

i thnk u hve to chnge their bliefs n tht.

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Cyberpsychooo

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Posted: 13 years ago

Nothing like this can happen...

There is a 11% possibility, that a normal jodi can get an illness... And just 3% more, when they are blood related... So 14%

these deseases happens, when there are marriages in families over and over again...

Coz in muslim families its allowed to marry wid blood relatives...

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Believe

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Posted: 13 years ago

Just shake the family tree...and watch the nuts fall !!

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Summer3

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Posted: 13 years ago

Checking the Family tree to see how far you are both removed would be useful. If too close then forget it. See how if there is any relationship between the Fathers and Grand Fathers.

If you are not planning any kids then it does not matter.

I know several royalties in some countries are often marrying their cousins and close relatives.

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DulceTentacion.

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Posted: 13 years ago

Same family name? EH? There is no absolute connection between Genetic disorders and same 'names', Unless what you are trying to say is getting married inside the family a problem? If that's the case then science does conclude that cohabiting inside the family (e.g. first cousins) increases the risk of genetic disorders.

Edited by DulceTentacion. - 13 years ago

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DulceTentacion.

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: Summer3
Checking the Family tree to see how far you are both removed would be useful. If too close then forget it. See how if there is any relationship between the Fathers and Grand Fathers.

If you are not planning any kids then it does not matter.

I know several royalties in some countries are often marrying their cousins and close relatives.

Ah okay i get the OP now😆

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