Subtle Influences of Things in our Life! - Page 3

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Posted: 14 years ago
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"You don't have to be a "person of influence" to be influential...In fact, the most influential people in my life are probably not even aware of the things they've taught me."--Scott adam

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: blue-ice



Alcohol ka influence subtle nahi hota hai Summerji😆...DUI karke seedhe ander ho sakte hain😆


Ah some prefer wines n other vodka.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: a little faith

hey sweet heart,

True, we are have always been influenced whether by people, society, the environment or even graffiti written upon walls AND in truth as we grow older we decide how much of that affects us OR infects us BUT if I may ask upon a tangent, is not the more pertinent question how do we influence others around us AND our own culpability in that respect?

Interesting debate, I am glad that you saved one moment of my day for such sincere contemplation. God bless you.

With much love, Sabah


So nicely said Sabah! It was my honor to get such wonderful, expressive views from you! You are most welcome for the invite!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Believe

"You don't have to be a "person of influence" to be influential...In fact, the most influential people in my life are probably not even aware of the things they've taught me."--Scott adam


Thanks for sharing your view!
What Scott has said is really true! For that matter I changed the topic of the Debate!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hello there , was surfing through IF and came upon this section and this topic caught my attention.
It is interesting how Life changes course with or without the influence of people on us. I agree, it is our priorities, interests that let us be or not be influenced but to what degree it is allowed depends on our personalities.
sorry am new to this seciton , and din see the intro thread hence directly posted here.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: kavyasam

hello there , was surfing through IF and came upon this section and this topic caught my attention.

It is interesting how Life changes course with or without the influence of people on us. I agree, it is our priorities, interests that let us be or not be influenced but to what degree it is allowed depends on our personalities.
sorry am new to this seciton , and din see the intro thread hence directly posted here.


It's completely fine... You are right with your point!😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Letting others influence you is not necessarily a bad thing. What matters most is that you let the right people influence you. We all could learn something from each other and from those around us - we just have to make sure we're learning the right things. And all of this comes with experience. Influence does not have to equate with pressure; it can also mean allowing someone to lead you in the right direction, to learn something from them, or even simply allowing yourself to understand things from their perspective. All those fall under "being influenced". What is even more important is how you influence others - that you have a lot more control over. What do you want people to take away from you or a conversation they have with you?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hello I am technically not new to this forum but since I have decided to be active, SO I am officially new. :)
I am Ananya and I have an opinion on this particular topic.


Well, You asked whether the influence of other people in our life is good or bad? If you ask me, it can be seen either ways. If a person is intelligent, knows what you don't and he/she is willing to share the knowledge with you too.. making you shift from your original behavior a bit.. Then is this influence actually not GOOD? ( Suppose I am a silly blabber. An honest friend of mine subtly hints me through his/her actions and I change myself accordingly.. IS it not good for my own? )
Also, Over influence of people is totally bad. When you start imitating someone, in my opinion, it gets on your nerves ( the other party) and
it is ultimately your own bad as you lose your own individual identity.. Blind influence is bad but if the influence over you is turning you into something better.. for your own self AND others.. I see no harm why a person shouldn't influence you.

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