What's your take on men crying. Getting too soft? - Page 8

Originally posted by: sneha0601

Someday, we sit down and you explain to me what you mean by NEW history right dear? History is something that's gone dear, you cannot change it into new history!!!! 😕😕

Its not easy for people to understand that you build the future and learn from history.

You see the past is like a river. The future is like a stream. The present is a lake. Everything flows into the ocean. When you understand the flow of water, you see the beauty in rain and rainbows. So people must not build a dam on the water. They have to let it grow and flow and only then will it be an ocean of understanding. 😉😊😃

Personally i wear my heart on my sleeves but i would NEVER cry in a public place, its too embarassing and the after-effects are worse when everyone is trying to comfort you and they keep asking if your okay which only makes you cry more. So i like to keep my emotions to myself and try not to let other people be affected by it, i would cry alone in my room or in my bed, very rarely would i cry infront of someone or in a public place.

If someone close to me cried ,like my dad who rarely cries, then it would affect me and it would hurt me too..however if my dad was the sort of person who cried all the time over little things, then his tears would become less valuable, less precious to me, since i would be too used to it. So it depends on how often you cry and where you cry...crying itself is like any other human feeling and at the end of the day they are human too.

Xoxo

Originally posted by: the_Naked_face

Personally i wear my heart on my sleeves but i would NEVER cry in a public place, its too embarassing and the after-effects are worse when everyone is trying to comfort you and they keep asking if your okay which only makes you cry more. So i like to keep my emotions to myself and try not to let other people be affected by it, i would cry alone in my room or in my bed, very rarely would i cry infront of someone or in a public place.

If someone close to me cried ,like my dad who rarely cries, then it would affect me and it would hurt me too..however if my dad was the sort of person who cried all the time over little things, then his tears would become less valuable, less precious to me, since i would be too used to it. So it depends on how often you cry and where you cry...crying itself is like any other human feeling and at the end of the day they are human too.

Xoxo

Originally posted by: the_Naked_face

Personally i wear my heart on my sleeves but i would NEVER cry in a public place, its too embarassing and the after-effects are worse when everyone is trying to comfort you and they keep asking if your okay which only makes you cry more. So i like to keep my emotions to myself and try not to let other people be affected by it, i would cry alone in my room or in my bed, very rarely would i cry infront of someone or in a public place.

If someone close to me cried ,like my dad who rarely cries, then it would affect me and it would hurt me too..however if my dad was the sort of person who cried all the time over little things, then his tears would become less valuable, less precious to me, since i would be too used to it. So it depends on how often you cry and where you cry...crying itself is like any other human feeling and at the end of the day they are human too.

Xoxo

Originally posted by: Believe

If we understand the history then we know that...life is far bigger than birth and death...birth and death is not end of life...may be many death and birth happen in one life...if you wanna change something...atleast believe some revolutionary matters in life.....nothing wrong to try to be a history maker ...😊

Who said that life is just from Birth to Death here? Did I imply that? Did RTH? 😕 Assuming again are we?

You haven't even taken our point in the first instance to contradict it, and started on another thing that is not even related from where I am watching!! Who said not to believe in Revolutionary matters? I dare to believe that someday we'll go further than GMOs or Robots... I do believe in discovering life somewhere else than Earth... I do believe in discovering new stones, new elements, new liquids and new metals that can revolutionize the world...

What I don't believe in: is YOUR theory that men pretend being/are superior than woman!!!!!!

If you don't understand that bit, I guess I better not waste my time, precious or not...

Originally posted by: sneha0601

Who said that life is just from Birth to Death here? Did I imply that? Did RTH? 😕 Assuming again are we?

You haven't even taken our point in the first instance to contradict it, and started on another thing that is not even related from where I am watching!! Who said not to believe in Revolutionary matters? I dare to believe that someday we'll go further than GMOs or Robots... I do believe in discovering life somewhere else than Earth... I do believe in discovering new stones, new elements, new liquids and new metals that can revolutionize the world...

What I don't believe in: is YOUR theory that men pretend being/are superior than woman!!!!!!

If you don't understand that bit, I guess I better not waste my time, precious or not...

Originally posted by: mahikhan

@Bolded so true...the first time i had ever seen a man crying in my entire life was my GRAND FATHER who cried on my uncles untime demise i had always pictured my GF as a perfect strong person but that day i had seen tears in his eyes i still cann't forget that day if someone close to you dies n you lose courage its natural for men n women to cry tht time ppl usually dont give a damn to what people say emotion or feelings has no gender it belongs to humanbeings.😊

Originally posted by: Summer3

Emotion is a powerful tool. A child's innocent smile can touch the hardest hearts too.

Our past relations and our memories can make us emo, especially when we think that we will not see the person again. But if you believe that death is only temporary and there is a chance of seeing the dead person again you will not feel so bad ( but when parents pass away a few tear drops should be shed for them, if not, at least do some prayers for them to have a safe journey).

Originally posted by: mahikhan

Summer bhai few people dont even give a damn to a kid's innocent smile nothing can melt their heart!

Well my uncle got killed in gujrat conflict so it was natural for my Nana to cry n still they can do nothing.....