Flirting is an ART ! - Page 7

Originally posted by: hindu4lyf

I'm with the topic titile-You either know how to do it really well or you're just too much in someone's face. I know some desi guys that when you're having a general convo with, they easily twist your words and become very flirty lol, in a veryy slyy way. ;) A few simple words all of a sudden mean something very dirty lol. =
😆true.

On the other hand I went to a 21st birthday party a few weeks ago and this guy just wouldn't leave me alone, very much in my face and it just makes you feel uncomfortable/akward/weird.

A lil flirting never did any harm but even those who have this 'ART' should know where to draw the line.

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

nah nothing happens....one has to make effort...gravitating towards someone like birds of a feather... is not typically "happens" scenario....😊

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

It amuses me how some desi guys manage to twist somethings. Even the phirangi's are not as talented in twisting some simple statements.

Haha by desi's I don't mean FOB's, I mean British born Indians (or just desi's in general). The FOB's tend to be the one's that are slightly more pushy and more annoying.🤢Can't comment on the phirangis though cos I've only really had experiences with desis.

Thats when you start talking about your last stint at rehab. 😆 I guess in desi communities one has to beware of starting rumors on one ownself, but rehab stories are great repellents.

Ah been there and the way the desi community start rumours. Oh wow, it's like a lil chat up line becomes the biggest thing ever as if that guy is planning on marrying you or something eesh!But I also think it's a tad bit shameless of the desi guys to approach girls at community function meetings and stuff where aunty's and uncles don't hesitate to spread a rumour. On the other hand some may argue that if not there then where..=S

The art lies in knowing when to stop. If you give the wrong message or cross the line, its no longer an art.

I suppose I gotta agree with you on that one but there are certain situations where even the master gets it wrong. I could give a few example but don't want to write out my whole life story here lol.😛

Originally posted by: angelic_devil

its kind of irritating when people still harrow u even if u have snubbed them. there r actually some people with very fragile ego who cannot take no for an answer.

Originally posted by: hindu4lyf

Originally posted by: hindu4lyf

I'm the kind of person who will never say a straight NO to anyone cos i feel really bad like even if they're nagging me. But if they start touching me or start messing about like that, then they really will get it! I agree though-some men have such an ego! and despite all the hints they refuse to stop flirting with you and trying to get your number or whatever.😡

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Now you have made me curious on your life stories. 😆

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

I have a birth defect, I can never say no; however, hard I try - so that kind of is very distressing. Thankfully, though I am a very uncoordinated klutzy nerdy type so most guys avoid my type. Which is good because I'd rather spend my time kicking some at Mario Kart.