this is probably...

.. the only forum on which so much mud-slinging left n right is going on!!! i am just so shocked to see how ppl can react to things that have link to their lives!

Originally posted by: sexisalman

Thankyou! I heard u missed me..i came back just for..with my pink font 😳

no, i DONT missu, i just pity someone lik u!

You'll be surprised DF. I've seen it happen quite a lot =

No, DF, I have seen even worse ones in SRGMP forum when there was a time it was without any mods. Then the regular members had to take things in their hand but they too had issues with admin access, so none of the troublemakers could be banned. Thank God finally Raj came in as the mod and with the assistance of the viewbies, he cleaned it up there. So many MIDs kept multiplying - so unbelievable!! Now it's a clean forum and we hope the chaos wont return with the show again. It's real tough for the mods with so many threads and posts. So hats off to them!

Oh yes AK Di I remember that time....SRGMP was so bad at that time.It used to be a war on forum every day.I think these kind of things happen mostly on reality show forums.

Originally posted by: devashree_h

Oh yes AK Di I remember that time....SRGMP was so bad at that time.It used to be a war on forum every day.I think these kind of things happen mostly on reality show forums.

Yes true, these things happen on reality show forums - I also notice that. In the forums for serials and all, they have stories, discussions on the characters and the actors, etc - no vicious fights and bashing. In reality shows, there's always my favorite versus your favorite, and all the bashing will flow with it. But towards the end of SRGMP C09, with the clean up and Raj being vigilent, we didnt have fights there even with different choices for each member. We teased each other in a fun way, but the SOH for members in SRGMP forum is also very good - maybe that they are more matured folks than many 12-16 year olds.

Originally posted by: akanna

Yes true, these things happen on reality show forums - I also notice that. In the forums for serials and all, they have stories, discussions on the characters and the actors, etc - no vicious fights and bashing. In reality shows, there's always my favorite versus your favorite, and all the bashing will flow with it. But towards the end of SRGMP C09, with the clean up and Raj being vigilent, we didnt have fights there even with different choices for each member. We teased each other in a fun way, but the SOH for members in SRGMP forum is also very good - maybe that they are more matured folks than many 12-16 year olds.

actually akanna there are few members here who have a different fan base than mine but are very cordial to the others and actually discuss the discussions. idk why some members take a disagreement as a personal attack. so what if we don't like their favorites isn't it vice versa too, but one canot force the others to like someone or agree to what they think is right. I think if all learn to accept that and have a healthy discussion reality shows forums can be a very interesting place...

Originally posted by: desicrowd

actually akanna there are few members here who have a different fan base than mine but are very cordial to the others and actually discuss the discussions. idk why some members take a disagreement as a personal attack. so what if we don't like their favorites isn't it vice versa too, but one canot force the others to like someone or agree to what they think is right. I think if all learn to accept that and have a healthy discussion reality shows forums can be a very interesting place...

You are so right, DC. It all comes to the maturity level of the members in general. Just because you like someone and not someone else, there is no need to bash the other contestant even if he or she appears to be a big threat for your favorite, because none of them are related to us and their win or defeat is not going to change anything in our life. But when people act as if the contestant is his or her sibling or a relative and starts to bash other contestants and judges, it gets nasty. The irony is that, by doing so, the choices that others have made are not going to change even the least bit. So that understanding was there in the mind of members in SRGMP forum and hence we didnt fight with each other there - even good buddies ended up having different choices, and it was really funny when some members tried to be on both sides in order to be neutral..!! 😆

Ok, lets close this topic. I just wanted to make a point and I think we have met the requirements.

Originally posted by: DesiIFer

Ok, lets close this topic. I just wanted to make a point and I think we have met the requirements.

i agree. because if the topic isn't closed, it'll be much too tempting to quote every single one of these righteous MATURE people (humare akannaji and desicrowdjii) and give an apt reply to each and every line, and of course, quote their own words from other posts (akannaji se sikha naa.. learned from the best you seee😉) and then show them how very MATURE they have been compared to the petty little 12-16 year old that pollute the forum with their "immaturity." i wonder how much time i have to waste on these people though, because no matter how much i try to prove my point, words falling to deaf PRIDEFUL ears aren't going to make a difference, now are they 😛