Adarsh bahu takes the step -Freedom turned Suhas world upside down

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shruthiravi

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Posted: 9 years ago

I am like epi after epi whistling now 😆😆😆. I knew the blow will come from Jaya. But Jaya will do this well didnt expect. I expected her to cry on phone to her parents, tell them the truth . But lady applause to her.

She takes the best decision because if she consults her parents they will say " beti adjust karo" maybe.

She puts the divorce notice and decides to walk out. I loved the dialogue she said to Suhas. I dont know where I am going, but what is in your hands is divorce papers.

Prim, proper Jaya. After sending the notice she knew she cant stay there. Packing her bags and coming down.

Jaidev needed it. After all the insults he has heaped on Jaya for his indecision, the reality of their relation has to open in front of everyone like this.

Suhas is hit, hit hardly as precap proves. Her son rejected her choice for 4 years. She was wrong in understanding her son.

Adarsh only broke the engagement. But her elder son has kept a woman in tears for 4 years. A woman who till that date has shown no pain. What an end to Suhas pride and that too neatly done , without any melodrama.

So CVs take a bow. Elder bahu has crossed the dahleez or threshold of being the ideal after taking enough. Before freedom entered the threshold or dahleez of Sinha household this is what that has happened, ab aage aage kya hone wala hai. 😆😆

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Soapoperasrfun

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Posted: 9 years ago

As always, great analysis Shruthi.

Everything in life has a threshold. You force someone to cross the limit, then things will break, things will change. What was interesting was the fact that Jaya had put up with all of Jaidev's taunts till so long. But the moment he insinuated that she had meant to create another failed relationship in his house, she decided it was time to leave.

Needless to say, I was a little upset about this. For 2 reasons mainly-

1. Adarsh and Swadheenta somehow because responsible for Jaya - Jaidev's separation. It was the jibe he took at her because of SwaDarsh that she left. It may have been the last straw, but I wish it hadn't been.

2. It was more like Jaya punished herself if you come to think of it. Maybe she had put up with all the insults so far because she knew she was not wrong, and that Jaidev will realize his mistake at some point. But this time around, she really felt that she was in the wrong, and that is why decided to let go?

Seriously, this woman is made of a different mould. Cannot wait to see some Justice coming her way.

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spdp

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Posted: 9 years ago

Lovely post once again!
And with you, every episode is turning out great. What a delightful watch on tv after really long time.

Suhasini has created a Huge Dahleez of Ego+Social nonsense for her own. Manohar is equal partner in this. Jaydev stayed within, Abhay Jumped out & back in. But Adarsh is completely moving it- pushing it further.

She was at her Sly, sarcastic, meanest when talking with Appa. 'rude' is not a word here. It was much more. She was looking for reason for her broken Deal with Adarsh. Appa rightly stood his ground & walked away after telling them the truth. Which Suhasini is knowingly ignoring.

Jaya's Resolve was commendable! it was about time. Yes she erred bigtime, by not consulting Adarsh before involving seniors. May be we can blame it on Vanshika- She might have given Jaya false information 11 saal & all!
But Jaidev 'manhoosing' her for everything - Not acceptable! He is equally responsible for this mess- he didn't speak up when needed to. And there is a limit.

Loved SwaDarsh Scene as well. It was heartening to see Adarsh feeling it for Appa & that gave strength to Swadheenta. Who in turn gave strength to Adarsh - to deal with this mess - adha adha again.
(in any other show- guy will go sorry & that's it & girl will keep feeling bad for her parents & for guy not speaking up enough. But here again- CV's did great). Loved Adarsh's Thank You!

Swadheenta;s Adha Adha deal is true winner than Suhasini's first come first serve one.

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Garima04

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Posted: 9 years ago

Well written post. Really like the points you have highlighted about Jaya. They do make sense.
Thanks for sharing 😊

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Srividya

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Posted: 9 years ago

Shruthi, Anjana, SpDp loved all the posts.

People have break points and each is broken by something different of different intensity.

Ahuja Sahab was broken to see the photos deepen the rift and position of his daughter.

Adarsh's resolve to comply with the Proposal on hand was blown the moment Simmi's story and Freedom's non romantic 2 minute convo at his engagement. Sinhas still think they have a chance and are hatching their plan.

Appa was goaded by Jeevan to give Adarsh a fair chance which the Sinhas by their manner of taking their son's ZIDD forward was blasted to nothing.

Jaidev's words that another marriage that can be lived or broken is in the anvil prompted Jaya to say ENOUGH NO MORE. It broke her heart as she sincerely tries to make amends and with time maybe would have ...The soft spoken Jaya telling MAMA its a divorce notice...

Freedom urging Adarsh to forget about parents and think about us...What does it bode for us...They are in love and not married as yet ...but the way they take responsibility for each other's hurt...the way they are ready to stand up for the other is a building up of their relationship, their understanding, their trust. This in the case of Jaya and Jai has not happened in 5 years and the constant blaming everything squarely on Jaya while Jaideep is the one responsible for the marriage hell he has created for them both.

Abhay has taken responsibility for sparing Simmi the heartbreak his mother is about to cause by rejecting the match. He faces the consequence of the wrath and tries to give Simmi the love he can by his babying her all the time.Chottu he may be but far more mature as a husband that Jai and his parents. He believes in doing good rather than speaking good.

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sushfiza

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Posted: 9 years ago

Its a eyeopening fr suhas n her so calld pride

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sp108

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Soapoperasrfun
As always, great analysis Shruthi.
Everything in life has a threshold. You force someone to cross the limit, then things will break, things will change. What was interesting was the fact that Jaya had put up with all of Jaidev's taunts till so long. But the moment he insinuated that she had meant to create another failed relationship in his house, she decided it was time to leave.

Needless to say, I was a little upset about this. For 2 reasons mainly-
1. Adarsh and Swadheenta somehow because responsible for Jaya - Jaidev's separation. It was the jibe he took at her because of SwaDarsh that she left. It may have been the last straw, but I wish it hadn't been.
2. It was more like Jaya punished herself if you come to think of it. Maybe she had put up with all the insults so far because she knew she was not wrong, and that Jaidev will realize his mistake at some point. But this time around, she really felt that she was in the wrong, and that is why decided to let go?

Seriously, this woman is made of a different mould. Cannot wait to see some Justice coming her way.

I agree with you. Jaya took the drastic step out of guilt - guilt of creating a mess in the family by bringing in Vanshika's marriage proposal. I wish it had not been so. Jaya deserves to get out of this marriage with her head held high - because she is not at all at fault.

And Jaidev is a wretched creature. If Jaya had not walked out, he wouldn't even have let the family know about the problems in his marital life and continued to mentally harass Jaya.

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Sadie

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Posted: 9 years ago

Seriously Shruthi I'm loving the epis too. Jaya took my heart away yesterday, she dropped such a bomb. Wow.

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pomegranate

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Posted: 9 years ago

there is something so childlike about jaya, She looked like a small child sitting on the bed after Jaidev humiliates her and Hunar Hale displays the vulnerability in her so perfectly. I'm so happy that she finally stood up for herself, there is nothing more terrible than being humiliated for four years in a marriage she has given her all to.

Suhasini is the worst, I don't even have words to describe. she knows that it was adarsh who relentlessly pursued swadheenta but very conveniently chose to ignore it. this is vindictive streak in her is less than appealing, and I have no patience to tolerate her anymor. especially after the latest promo

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