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Manonidz

@Manonidz

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Posted: 9 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: --starstruck--

I see it in a different way, I see it as the issue being an extremely important one for Suhasini Manohar and maybe even Appa but as for Swadarsh they have just realized their love for each other and when one is in love they dont really look at class factor

Its not about what Swa and Adarsh believe in, but if they are looking for support from their respective families, they got to explore the potential roadblocks. They can easily get married like Abhay did. Being in love tend to block your vision from the harsh realities in front. Knowing that there are major trust issues in both the sides since both Suh and Appa rejected them, expecting a peaceful solution at this stage was illogical. Perhaps they could have waited for some time or may be some other way. I feel they failed to measure the gravity of the situation. Their actions in the past have caused enough damage, so it can't be that easy.

Anyway, lets c how thing go from here on.

Edited by Manonidz - 9 years ago

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 9 years ago

#52

@star Suha got from Ahuja, she got from Bundelas but she needs to get from Jaya's parents. I want that scene.

Because in Ahuja case whatever it is Simmi is having life with her husband, Bundelas Vanshika can have another match she can move ahead in her life if she keeps this disappointment away. Atleast she didn't end up marrying a man who doesn't love her.

But Jaya 4 years of her life she has lived with a man who doesn't love her. Her marriage is not consummated and who made the so called match which she believes to be match made in heaven. Suhas.

She should get it. Left right centre from Jaya's parents that too publicly for destroying their daughter's life. Then Suhas will see the light of the day.

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Soapoperasrfun

@Soapoperasrfun

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Posted: 9 years ago

#53

@Manonidz, Let me present another point of view to your comment 😆.

We often complicate situations without exploring the easiest and simplest path available right in front of us. Adarsh and Swadheenta did not make that mistake. When they had openly proclaimed their love for one another, they thought that the first possibility to explore was to check if the parents will understand their POV's.

Suhasini's problem with Ahuja is that he is classless and uneducated and rogue etc. Adarsh knows that Swadheenta's appa is not any one of those things. And Swadheenta is educated, intelligent and smart. Unlike Simmi, Suhasini knows Swadheenta and has appreciated her in the past.

Now, after exploring the most direct possibility and it failing in their face, they will think of other options 😉

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Soapoperasrfun

@Soapoperasrfun

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Posted: 9 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: shruthiravi
@star Suha got from Ahuja, she got from Bundelas but she needs to get from Jaya's parents. I want that scene.
Because in Ahuja case whatever it is Simmi is having life with her husband, Bundelas Vanshika can have another match she can move ahead in her life if she keeps this disappointment away. Atleast she didn't end up marrying a man who doesn't love her.
But Jaya 4 years of her life she has lived with a man who doesn't love her. Her marriage is not consummated and who made the so called match which she believes to be match made in heaven. Suhas.
She should get it. Left right centre from Jaya's parents that too publicly for destroying their daughter's life. Then Suhas will see the light of the day.

After insulting Mr. Ramakrishnan, I hope she gets it from Swa's parents too... why leave them behind.

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Manonidz

@Manonidz

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Posted: 9 years ago

#55

Originally posted by: Soapoperasrfun
@Manonidz, Let me present another point of view to your comment 😆.
We often complicate situations without exploring the easiest and simplest path available right in front of us. Adarsh and Swadheenta did not make that mistake. When they had openly proclaimed their love for one another, they thought that the first possibility to explore was to check if the parents will understand their POV's.

Suhasini's problem with Ahuja is that he is classless and uneducated and rogue etc. Adarsh knows that Swadheenta's appa is not any one of those things. And Swadheenta is educated, intelligent and smart. Unlike Simmi, Suhasini knows Swadheenta and has appreciated her in the past.

Now, after exploring the most direct possibility and it failing in their face, they will think of other options 😉

Oh man ...how could I miss this point ...expecting maturity from these two 😆 ..one has been a full time stalker and another is engagement breaker 🤣hopeless lovers they are !

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Srividya

@moonwearer

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Posted: 9 years ago

#56

I understand the reasons prompting us to wish Suhasini getting bashed but my point of view is...Ahuja realised that there is no point in nurturing ill will and malice towards the Sinhas for what was happening between him and Suhasini. Others were respectful and he insists Simmi should mend her ways.

If and when the Jaya Jaydev matter surfaces it will be a moment for Suhasini to reflect on her conversation with Freedom where she speaks of love and the proper match stuff. It should not become a matter of public analysis as it has thus far been a matter known only to the couple and now to the brothers and Ahuja.If in time love can bloom between the couple it should. The thaw has already set in.

I am a tambrahm like Ramakrishnan and i can tell you come what may he will not resort to devious way og getting back at Suhasini. When he is willing to swallow his pain and comply with the request of the guy he considered as his prospective SIL , he may go ballistic at Freedom but my bet is he will not persist in ill will to the Sinhas. The Tamil movies portray a different class of society not the one to which Guruji belongs.

In keeping with the Gita A wise person is said to have four techniques to deal with issues.Both inwardly and outwardly: "Sama, Dana, Bheda and Danda. To deal with people and be wise, the first thing you use is Sama which means in a peaceful and understanding way.

Sama has been tried and seems to have failed lets see what happens next. Here Dana may not mean charity but i see it as a compromise you give in some and you gain some.

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Soapoperasrfun

@Soapoperasrfun

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Posted: 9 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: Manonidz

Oh man ...how could I miss this point ...expecting maturity from these two 😆 ..one has been a full time stalker and another is engagement breaker 🤣hopeless lovers they are !

😆 Ok. I accept defeat 🤣

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BenNevis

@BenNevis

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Posted: 9 years ago

#58

Originally posted by: moonwearer
Love prompts folks to do crazy things and thats precisely what our love birds are up to. They dreamy hop on hop off ride to point work spots and houses. So cute the duo are. She denied him a ride to the cafe he now offers a drive.
I see it as a mode to paint the stark contrast between the drives with HRH and the one with Freedom. Sharing dreams and aspirations. That the next visit to his house she would enter as his bride, All cute as also the Good Morning Sweetheart.

Jaya and Jaidev intervene.Adarsh speaks to his mom...Jeevan intervenes on behalf of Adarsh. Appa's attachment to Jeevan very clear he is the reason that Appa relents.

Ben Nevis If they are Brahmins then it is the bride to be's family that walks up to the grooms's family. All expenses are borne by them unlike other Tamil communities.
Appa did not even recall his students name where would the man plan the down fall as suggested by Suhasini. She has a scathing tongue was apparent already but that she would stoop to this level to hurt someone who is equally hurting seems mean. Adarsh's precap confrontation seems justified but Suhasini will read it as manipulation by Freedom. Unlike Simmi who has to fight her own battles, Adarsh will ensure his Sweetheart gets her rightful place. He may have erred till now, but will take on the world for them hereafter.

Moon,

Well said, Love prompts Lovers do crazy things. Khudh ka experience hai.

Going for long drives with Freind/ Lover/ Hubby to avoid tensions is a real thing for me too.

Im from Telugu states , so not aware of Tamil Culture and their customs and traditions. Thanks for letting me know of them little bit.

I agree , Suha being a lawyer is mastered the art of Manipulation very well. But the turth is Swa isnt at fault , only its Adarsh so far.

I wish to see both Appa and Suha must know what exactly happend with Swa and Adarsh , which they are still unaware, then only they stop blaming Swa and Adarsh.

I know in Indian society, the fingers always point at Girl even when the Boy is equally responsible.😡

I really loved the way CVs trying to portray these two leads into an awesome Love story , which havent seen on Indian telly.(though I dont watch much unless its worth to watch)

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Srividya

@moonwearer

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Posted: 9 years ago

#59

People find it hard to believe that a girl can stay focused when a debonair relentlessly pursues a girl. They expect her to swoon and fall. Adarsh had to literally sweat it out and convince Freedom to consider his love. She had to be coaxed by all and finally realization dawns as she sits in the Darga.

Suhasini thinks that just because Freedom comes from a different strata and upbringing she would have no qualms and fall flat for her son or in fact manipulate her son that he is willing to forsake his promise.

His ploy to buy time has worked against Adarsh as he didn't reject the proposal outright. Vanshika built a illusory castle and the background of HRH blinded all else for Manohar and Sinha. For them Happiness seems subservient to convenience.

When you invest too much in a relationship you expect much more in return and especially when you want to straighten a record about your parenting when things go awry, you are unable to accept reality. We forget the trigger and look for a scapegoat to blame it squarely on. Asad's immature approach had taken away the time and attention till things seemed too late and Freedom's entry is construed as manipulative.

As it is The Ramakrishnans think their daughter has brought them disgrace now with this pronouncement of the Sinhas their worst fears are brought to the fore.

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 9 years ago

#60

@moon I believe what goes around, comes around. Swa's parents will not do it. They don't look like that type.

But something will happen, happen in such a way that Suhas will have to bow down for Jaidev. She had bow down for Abhay fingers pointed at Simmi and Ahuja. She had bowed down for Adarsh fingers at Swa and her father.

When she bow down for Jaidev she will not have those fingers. Who will she find fault with. Jaya, the ideal bahu who had shown happiness even while her son had rejected her. Who had took every step to keep family together irrespective of her personal unhappiness. Who had never spoken anything ill of her son or the family despite living in a marriage where she is not loved. Who has only given, not taken.

Jaya is the trump card. If Swa gets her, well the battle lines will be drawn in a different way.

Edited by shruthiravi - 9 years ago