I cannot fail that easily after coming close adarsh

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Why did I feel with swa today. Maybe in life I also got the condition that I could study provided I will not fall in love.You know how difficult it is to close your emotions. I had never thought that closing up mattered as I was busy studying and getting a job.But I knew it mattered when certain situations came in life. What swa parents have done to swa is closing her emotions. Denying her a choice in the most important decision of her life. And I am happy adarsh is going to give her freedom. He is taking trouble so that she can choose the man she wants. Something I have loved in raj malhotra in ddlj 20 years back. A man proving himself to a girls father to give her the choice. Indian tv took 20 years to bring a raj malhotra.to understand a woman has a choice. To make a man respect the culture of a girls family
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Wow!
What an awesom post Shruthi, as usual.
But what has touched me really is the last line of your post"Respecting the Culture of the Girl's FAMILY"
Thats why Adarsh going to take up the Challenge to prove the Best, irrespective of his culture,Status,Designation, fame in the Society as an IAS officer.
Its showing One has to Accept everything that comes with Girl,when they love/got married.
Unfortunately its hard for people in reality
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Love! Yes Adarsh will give swadheenta freedom not only to choose whom she wants to marry but what she wants from life.. She is always so held back and in constant pressure It will be Adarsh who will set her free
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Great post and good points as usual.
I understand appa's no boyfriend rule but tying her down to jeevan is so bizarre. who puts that that kind of condition on their kids? swadheenta seems indifferent about her impending marriage to him. she does not know what love is, so it is not an option for her since jeevan was always there. so yes, she has closed off those emotions and now she does not not what she wants from life. I love how determined adarsh is, freedom will get freedom from her focused life.

Adarsh loves swadheenta and everything that comes with her, and he is willing to learn bharatnatyam for her. class conscious suhasini and CM ji conscious manohar will probably be embarrassed but it is an admirable trait in any man. scared but looking forward to sinha's reactions. also, loved the brother bond
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sruthi ...
very nice post

am liking this fighting wala adarsh ...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Great post 👏

👍🏼 right he is helping her to fulfil her promise "Marrying Best Student" and thats another things i liked in Adarsh ,
An IAS officer is going to learn Dance just to Give her Freedom ,he is taking trouble just to bcm "Best Student" ..


Whatever i learnt about Love from My Parents is
giving freedom in taking decision or taking decision keeping her wish in mind , walking with her the Path she chose to walk but make sure she is taking right decision (which isn't destructive) ..


And somewhere im watching same POV in Adarsh BR]

(Last few lines r not to hurt any1's feelings but still sorry .. )





BTW My parents r not Alien 😃 they r like normal Parents who Always wants To C their Daughter's Name At Top position of Result sheet 😛 So never got chance to think about anything else 😉
Or may be i didnt want to ..But whatever it is thankful to Almighty 😊 & My parents ❤️ 😊 .. .
And im not studious but i tried &still trying to bcm good..


😃 😆 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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our society has imposed bizzare conditions when winning a bride. The reason Siya's Ram stands out is the presentation of the Swayamvar in a new light...
Freedom asks Adarsh is it some king of Swayamvaar...her silence to significant questions he posed makes him realise that they both are Victims of circumstances.
They both need to be freed from the conditioning and willing compliance to unreasonable parental pressure. It is an interesting development looking at the expression on Mamu Mami and Asad's response. Suhasini when Mr Ramakrishnan slurps his coffee...the leave of extrordinary gentlemen and their knowing smiles...The significance of 12...Freedom's anxiety at the approaching Noon.
Jeevan's perplexity at the significance to him and what it means to Adarsh.
The covo between Jeevan and freedom...Freedom and Asad...Freedom and he that is madly in love with her.
Suhasini in her colored blouse looked very smart...but the reassurances to Bundelas...increasing nervousness quotient of what she'd do...
So let the best man in the serial win...proove the litmus test of love to the Sinhas and Ramakrishnan Haider and life who is a liveless boring Jeevan

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Posted: 9 years ago
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@shru actually i can connect it to reality to an extent.😊. south indian brahmin family are a bit like this only.. they are against love marraiges.😳.i too belong in that family😆.. but yes , giving freedom to make decision on choosing your life partner must be given coz ultimately its you who is going to spend your entire life , not them😊😛..and yes adhu is trying his level best to make him understand and i hope he becomes successfull😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@gayatri I will say we are better off. Yes big hue and cry is made when love marriage is announced, but I don't think still we stoop to the level of honor killings that is happening in north and many other parts in the name of love.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@gayatri I will say we are better off. Yes big hue and cry is made when love marriage is announced, but I don't think still we stoop to the level of honor killings that is happening in north and many other parts in the name of love.


@shru yushh i agree we are better off😆

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