'New Year Greetings and a Humble Request' (Important Note pg

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hello everyone...😃

This thread is being opened after observing since a long time how hurtfully some fans bash other actors; for example, fans of Daya sir unhappy with the D-S pair abuse not only Shreya but even Purvi (for what reason, I simply can't understand?😕). And this said bashing generally takes place not directly but indirectly whether through sarcastic posts in some caps thread, written update thread, episode discussion thread, appreciation threads of the concerned person, or if this does not help then by writing stories in which their targeted character is insulted and humiliated and bashed.

Is this behaviour good??😲

If we really want a good healthy forum and great interaction between members, shouldn't we at least respect the fact that our non-favourite characters also have their own fans and will feel bad if we bash them?

There are certain very senior and respected members of our forum, who knowingly or hopefully otherwise, have made some CID characters look very dumb and downright disrespectful in their stories, portraying them in a very hurtful and humiliating manner. And I have seen comments on the stories desiring for the said characters to be killed or hung to death. While all of us are fans of the stories, we are not a fan of such intentional disrespect. How will you feel if someone writes stories portraying duo or trio in such a manner? I don't want to take names or post links, but the concerned people know who they are.

In some recent interviews of actors other than our Famous Five, the comments section was filled with comments like "Can we please have interviews of the REAL CID aka trio, Dinesh sir and Narendra sir?" Some others always ask FW to give them the REAL CID by kicking out everyone except Famous Five. According to many people, only Famous Five are the REAL CID. I love Famous Five as much as everyone, but I just want to ask, it is nice to disrespect in this way the contributions of the other actors who also put in so much efforts in the shooting? Taking an example, Purvi performed such difficult stunts in Sammohan Se Hatya and CID Ki Kidnapping, yet did a single person praise her? And how many comments do we get blaming her hairstyle or dress or something? We know many actors visit this forum in their free time, how do you think they will feel if they see such comments?

Please do not label them "extras" or unwanted garbage... see how much Vineet was bashed after he entered but now that he's left, so many miss him. We only realize the true worth of someone when they are gone.

I want to mention that it's the writer who creates the stories, dialogue writer who Hands dialogues, directors who ask actors to work accordingly, costume department which provides the dress, make-up people who apply makeup and Hairdressers who gives hairstyles...And etc etc..

And yet some fans bash the actors personally because of mistakes from those departments. Why is it so?

Give actors time to develop. Please appreciate or at least respect everyone. We all love our Famous Five but CID is also a show of other characters, they are also very much a part of the REAL CID. And agreed CID is a Male Dominated Platform, but please appreciate female cops too. And it is not good to constantly compare them with the Golden Era team, Tasha or anyone else. Every character is an individual and should be good in their own way, not a clone of anyone else.

Sorry if anybody was offended by this post. New Year means new beginning so let us leave all these bad things and start a fresh new year 2014 with good things in mind. So with this post wishing everybody in this Beautiful Forum a very Happy New Year 2014.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Srishti.

Well said di!
Even right now when i am typing this two people are making fun of her in Daya sir's FC.
I just want to know what she has done????
If u cant appreciate her at least respect her as a human being. Respect our feelings.
I dont want u to praise her every now and then but at least dont bash her
If u dislike her please dont discourage her fans to do the same and instead of publicly bashing i suggest you keep your feelings to yourself.
We Purvi fans never said anything but the limits are crossed.
Sorry if i sounded rude or offended anyone. Hope u undersrand how it feels.
Thank you!

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Oh Yes Dear... Its realy Hurtlful...😭😭

I know for quite a long time we are observing such comments about Purvi as well as others...
hope this STOPS completely By New Year..
I can See 28 Views to my Post but No replies till now... Lets Hope they are planning to change😃



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Absolutely agreed Padma. This has been going on for far too long and hasn't been checked. We have to stop this parasite from invading our systems. Making fun is one thing and being downright insulting and hurtful is another. Personal attacks must stop!! It is our ardent request. Such stories and convos are degrading for us to read and sometimes uncalled for and despicable.😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Padma and Srishti I can understand how frustrated you are. I myself have always been against some of the officers, but it's mainly those who have never been given a proper standing or who replace the better officers. To name two: Nik and Pankaj. I won't ever miss them if they were to leave I can tell you that.

Srishti as for the discussion in the FC...really you shouldn't bring that here. What is discussed in a FC should stay in the FC. That's why there is a separate forum for it. And as for their discussion on Purvi I know that they mean no harm and it can be taken in different ways by everyone.

Now I read that you're both quite sad at the way Purvi is treated on the forum here. As far as I can tell most people here respect her. Just check the EDTs from this weekend's episodes. I read at least 4 different people saying how sad they were at the way Purvi was sidelined in the show. I don't see how that leads you to feel that you are offended.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: KS_Shreya

Padma and Srishti I can understand how frustrated you are. I myself have always been against some of the officers, but it's mainly those who have never been given a proper standing or who replace the better officers. To name two: Nik and Pankaj. I won't ever miss them if they were to leave I can tell you that.


Srishti as for the discussion in the FC...really you shouldn't bring that here. What is discussed in a FC should stay in the FC. That's why there is a separate forum for it. And as for their discussion on Purvi I know that they mean no harm and it can be taken in different ways by everyone.

Now I read that you're both quite sad at the way Purvi is treated on the forum here. As far as I can tell most people here respect her. Just check the EDTs from this weekend's episodes. I read at least 4 different people saying how sad they were at the way Purvi was sidelined in the show. I don't see how that leads you to feel that you are offended.


Agreed dI.. I was not pointing to FC ... Yes agreed their it can be taken differently But their should be some limit..And their were many threads and posts on this forum itself which was highlighted here😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Padma could you give some examples of such threads? I don't remember seeing any threads where any officer is bashed so badly. 😕
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Shreya Di: It was some Episode Discussion Threads,Some Caps Threads,Some Creative Corners,Some Story Threads.. Sorry Di.. I dont wish to start a fight.. I just meant this post to those Who say so things... I can PM u though
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Posted: 11 years ago
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^ Sure, PM me. It's just that I've never really seen this.

But as for your request...for me the CID team nowadays is represented by the Five + Sachin + Purvi. I have never liked and never will like Tarika, Shreya, Nik, or Pankaj. Pankaj is funny so I don't mind him, but Tarika, Shreya, and Nik I do have a problem with and I guess I've made it vocal several times.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: KS_Shreya

^ Sure, PM me. It's just that I've never really seen this.


But as for your request...for me the CID team nowadays is represented by the Five + Sachin + Purvi. I have never liked and never will like Tarika, Shreya, Nik, or Pankaj. Pankaj is funny so I don't mind him, but Tarika, Shreya, and Nik I do have a problem with and I guess I've made it vocal several times.


Yes Sure Di... I Too Have my Favorites But Never Have bashed anyone.. though i am not a fan of Shreya I never said anything bad to her when she was shown... And ya for me Pankaj is funny character.. I like him.. No problems.. Sachin is also good..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Disclaimer: this post is not to hurt anyone, all are my close friends here and I respect every person.
Padmpriya first of all I really can't recall any post where any officer is truly humiliated and bashed.. There may be some fun posts..but can those really be termed as abusive, derogatory posts?? All know it is afterall reel life. Nobody here disrespect any actor as human being. There will always be difference in favourites. Srishti, Swagatam dadabhai nobody in this forum disrespect Ansha mam. I am too a fan of Ansha mam. And when is her hairstyle, make up blamed? One can obviously dislike anything and put up one's view here..isn't? I don't think there are any posts that cross limits..and if it is so then how could such posts be ignored by viewbie/dt members?
And as Shreya di said any fc is not part of this forum.
If one includes only famous five in one's real CID doesn't mean that one wants new officer to be kicked out of CID or hates the actors. It is fact that now CID team is over crowded.
I totally agree with Shreya di and am extremely sorry to say that I can't agree with your point..
Its my personal view and Padmpriya, Srishti, Swagatam dadabhai I ask forgiveness if any of my words hurts you.

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