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Posted: 14 years ago
You know what....the family members often don't want to let the person die. I've seen in my family....someone was desperate to die, but the living relatives can't force themselves to take that decision and tell the doctor 'finish him/her off'. It's just impossible. It's so difficult for someone to say 'pls go ahead and grant my mother an easy death'. No....they would want to prolong her life with the hope that s//he might survive. Even if it is 35 years of suffering....there'll be someone later on coming and telling 'you asked the doctors to kill your own mother' or 'you wanted to get his/her money, so you asked the doctors to end his/her life' or something like that which will remain a scar forever.
I am definitely for granting someone an easy death...I even do it to cockroaches...I see them struggling when I spray insecticide on them. I gather my courage take a broom and kill them in one shot so that they don't have to suffer the pain. But when it's a human life, it's just impossible to take such a tough decision.
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Posted: 14 years ago
I agree !!! One can never take such a decision !! I've seen it !! Any family member would never go for it but if some has ... then it's really something to think that up to what level they have seen their loved one suffer !!! They might not let them to death by their own hands but still when such things exceed a level of control they too are forced to plead for it !!! Just look at this woman Aruna !! The amount of suffering she's going through !!! Imagine what it must be for her to see her family members suffer every day seeing her go through this.

Taking a human's life is delicate rather in our country a controversial topic. It needs to be catered to !! And the people discussing are the money fed Politicians in the parliament !! For them what matters is that under who's govt. has this happened !! Who Arune is... what is she facing ...... why she has pleaded to die is nothing of their business !!! I'm sure of the outcome !! but still there's a faint hope of a milestone decision !!

I still remember when I took the decision of putting my dog to rest !! That was such a tough decision !!! Human life is a more intricate matter !!

37 years of trauma,torture,pain,survival on injections and being forcibly fed upon etc. !! Nothing can be worse than this torture !! I'm 100 % in support of Euthanasia atleast in Aruna's case !!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
hmm......marriage discussion going on......😛.......!!

BtW....tomorrow is 8th March....Women's Day.....any plans........??😊
Edited by aditi. - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
no one is getting married its all abt marriage ceremony in different styles
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Posted: 14 years ago
Bhavana I too had to take the decision of putting not one but three doge to sleep. Believe me I felt like a killer each time very well knowing that I was doing for their own good and the dogs welcomed the decision.
Human life has so many complications attached to it. Especially in the modern era. No solution that is easy can be brought in quickly or slowly. All I can tell you is remember the epics of this country. In that the old people give up their worldly life to the youngsters and leave to the forests regardless of their state. Once upon a time in this country this was practised. No I don't want to sound like a vintage model, but this was one of the solutions that was wide spread then.
Here again the solution is not easy. neither is it now. Pain is something very tough to bear. Everyone around is helpless due to it.
All I can say is we have to tread the tough path to get a workable solution.
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Posted: 14 years ago
Who can understand better than me Mallika !! I too had to put 2 of my dogs to rest !!! It's very tough !!! I still feel guilty but I had no option !!! 'Tender' had a stomach twist !!! That was incurable !!! If animal pain makes us feel like this then imagine the pain Aruna's family has been going through and in turn the pain she goes through seeing them suffer because of her !!!

Human life is a god's gift but it wasn't meant to be a torturous journey one is being forced to travel on !!! I don't know why .... I'm totally in support of Euthanasia in Aruna's case !!! 37 years is too much ... not more !!
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Posted: 14 years ago
CID Rank is down on IF Forum😲, Kismat take over it...CID IS on 58😔..Why is it soo?😕
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Posted: 14 years ago
Yes. Bhavana pain is something unimaginable. I can understand your stand. One dog had a spinal chord broken in an accident, two had liver failure. After taking the decisions, doing all that twas to be done, we were talking at home if people had the same choice things would be so different.
Human life and complications are not far behind at all. Solutions not easy to find at all that can be dignified and respectful.
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: neeme

CID Rank is down on IF Forum😲, Kismat take over it...CID IS on 58😔..Why is it soo?😕


which is this Kismat?
When all of us are so active on this forum, how come the ranking has gone down?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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