Why Radhika undertaking this Penace is neccessary?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Preach what you practice:


Mahatma Gandhi used to conduct daily evening prayers.
Lot of people used to attend these prayer meeting.There was a simple Lady from nearby village who decided to attend the prayer meet conducted by Mahatma Gandhi .
She decided to take along her small son for the meet so the son can meet the great mahatma.

Both the Lady & her son attended the prayer meet . After the meet a thought came to lady's mind.
The son was eating too much of sugar. He was fond of eating sugar. He was not listening to any body & it was not good for his health.

The lady thought if Gandhi ji speaks to her son about not eating too much of sugar, he will definitely listen to mahatma Gandhi.
The lady took her son to Mahatma & Narrated the problem. Mahatma Gandhi Listened attentively But did not say anything to her son. On the way back home the lady thought may be it was too small a problem for great leader so he did not pay any attention to it.
Some months passed by & the lady completely forgot the incident.
The lady again thought of visiting the prayer meet conducted by Great Gandhi & took her son along with her.
Both mother & son attended the prayer meet & were happy to see The great Leader again.
After the meet suddenly Mahatma Gandhi asked the lady to bring her son to him.
The lady took her son to mahatma. The great leader affectionately touched the head of the son & asked ? Do you eat too much of sugar. The son replied in affirmation.
Gandhi told the son not to eat too much of sugar as this was not good for the health.
The lady was surprised That great leader remembered there first meeting & took so much care of talking to her son.
The lady was perplexed too that when first time she asked mahatma he did not pay any attention.

She asked the great leader, sir when I first met you & ask to reprimand my son , you did not pay any attention & today you from your own came & told my son not to eat too much of sugar.

The great leader replied. Quote " when you came first time , I myself was in habit of eating too much of sugar. How could I preach when I myself was eating too much of sugar. In last couple of months I tried & reduced my intake of sugar substantially. I thought now I am in a position to tell the young boy about not eating too much of sugar. ''

This was Gandhi the great Leader who never preached the things which he himself never do.

Relation to CB: While I love Radhika, and feel that she has undergone so much troubles already in life, I feel it is neccessary for her to accept this "Dand" that Mahant has given her.................Before you get mad at me, let me explain................
Radhika is not just wife, daughter, and bahu...........She is RajPurohitan, the one who holds the position, where she is called to provide justice to people................I agree, she had to hid the truth because of honor of family, yet the mistake has been made..............how, can she sit on the chair of RP and declare some kind of punishment to someone, when she herself has not been cleared.........................When you make a mistake and ready to do penance with pure heart, even God helps you...............She will rise in eyes of everyone and will be true RP in every sense........
Truly she will be the RP, who preaches what she practises...............................
Now, your turn...........................

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PutijaChalhov thumbnail
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Agree with u Anu I already posted in ur other thread that she requires to go through this dand not for herself but for samaj and that she remains unquestionable in front of them and be able to carry forward her RP status.On a personal level she and DEv have suffered a lot for telling lies.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I fully agree....... The other reasoning is, just in case, Amma or Vishaka comes to her looking for help, she is in a better position (meaning the strongest position) to say "No" if she thinks so.
Whereas she was always hesitating to say "no" to her family even though in her mind, soul & heart she knew that she was supporting wrong people.... So, this will totally stop...
She will only follow sathya/dharma/vachan
It will be just like how Dev did for shastri ji before. Dev did not even think twice when Shastri ji took those Murthis from the temple and did sthaapana some where.... n his punishment was to leave Vrindavan.....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I also am a great fan of the character Radhika, for the simple reason it is the story of an orphan and the insecurities that go along with this and the atrocities she had to face during different walks of life and the fact that she feels she is alone( sagi nahin hoon--the dialogue with Dev) makes me love her more.
The mistake committed by her was not willfully done, but definitely she was a party to it for having kept it a secret. She needs to go through this to come asa pure atma and there will be no fingers pointed at her in furture.
Once she emerges successful, she is likely to become more decisive that on a future date when the embezzlement of the trust funds by chachoo comes to light she along with her husband will be able to confer the right punishment.
Definitely Radhika doing this isa must.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think it will be good for RAds own growth.
I remember when I was in 7th class I made a mistake, nothing big but did not listen to my dad's instructions etc... and my dad came to know about it. I knew my mistake and that he knows about it. My dad just looked at me and did not say anything. It still hurts me, I can remember his disappointed face and I can't forget that situation...
Where as many other times as a kid I made mistakes, got some punishment now no track of those mistakes.
Rad needs to feel that she made a mistake and got punishment to feel relaxed. Sometimes punishment works better than forgiveness...
Well on the other hand she got so much pain from the mistake itself. This mistake was a sacrify more than just trying to hide the facts.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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It wasn;t her fault and it is radhika who wants to save her sasuraal and i think it is good for her because then everyone will belive her and they will consider her as their choti bahu
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Thanks Anu, very nice post.
I agree that this dand is necessary for Radhika to become RPtain in the full sense.
1. Radhika fullfilled her marriage vows publicly with Dev in the hospital and completely became his wife with all PF and SF members as witness. Kanha gave her society's approval which lacked in the first marriage due to her face (and the truth) being hidden.
2. Radhika fullfilled all duties, vrats, vows, and rituals as part of her bahu dharam both before and after her second marriage to Dev and completely became CB in the true sense.
3. Radhika fullfilled her SR with Dev and completely connected with him, mind, body, and soul. They are now one in every sense of the word.
4. Now all that is left is for Radhika to officially become RPtain and be declared worthy enough to hold the postion. Through both RP pujas she was already declared RPtain but now with this dand and the clearing of any doubt in the Mahant's and Dharam Saba's minds, Radhika will completely become RPtain.
CVs love going in circles and slowly all the circles will be completed.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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anu really a wonderful post,,,and i also agree that rad did take a right decision and accepted he punishment and i was happy that she wasnot forced but she herself choose to take that,,and this will make her even more great and good and she will rise in the eyes of her family and show everyone that she deserves to be a RP....and every family member and even the mahant will be proud of her,,,and that may help her in her future,,,
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sandeepa108

Thanks Anu, very nice post.

I agree that this dand is necessary for Radhika to become RPtain in the full sense.
1. Radhika fullfilled her marriage vows publicly with Dev in the hospital and completely became his wife with all PF and SF members as witness. Kanha gave her society's approval which lacked in the first marriage due to her face (and the truth) being hidden.
2. Radhika fullfilled all duties, vrats, vows, and rituals as part of her bahu dharam both before and after her second marriage to Dev and completely became CB in the true sense.
3. Radhika fullfilled her SR with Dev and completely connected with him, mind, body, and soul. They are now one in every sense of the word.
4. Now all that is left is for Radhika to officially become RPtain and be declared worthy enough to hold the postion. Through both RP pujas she was already declared RPtain but now with this dand and the clearing of any doubt in the Mahant's and Dharam Saba's minds, Radhika will completely become RPtain.
CVs love going in circles and slowly all the circles will be completed.




wow!! well said....i totaly agree......bt i luved ur point "3" alot....😆 😳
Edited by Tilashini - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Beautiful post Anu - Agree with all of you. Radhika needs to go through the punishment to clear her status.
Besides that Radhika - as a character is very pure & to clear the guilt sense in her mind she needs to go through this test. She accepted it gracefully & she will come out of it victorius.

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