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Posted: 16 years ago
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Even before sheh as moved in there... Her misfortune is following her, infact racing ahead of her to her 'sasural'. The family who 'forgave' a non-fit chhoti bahu like Vishakha a zillion times, will now question the 'fit' Radhika. Even before, this girl begins to 'free' herself from the schackles of jaat, paat, durbhagya... the question of 'varna sankar' is being raised in Vaishali's mind. Why couldn't this be a normal marriage, where the already existing problems be solved? Why couldn't this be a life where atleast Radhika's jaat, paat, and birth - a thing that has haunged her forever not be the issue? Why, does this poor girl always have to 'suffer' for things beyond her control and no one sees her qualities/personality? Why? Was, this the day for which Amma pleaded to Radhika to come out of the Ashram? Is this the way Kanha will bless his bhakta - one more time that she dreams of being happy, she has been forewarned of dukh's to come?
I read somewhere, honhaar birwaan ke chikne chikne paat... Can't someone see how Radhika's qualities rise above these petty issues - compared to the stark contrast vishakha, who had the varna, the kul, the jaati but no values?

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Posted: 16 years ago
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You are so right. What is the use of all these jaat, kul etc. when people do not have any ethics and integrity. Look at Mrinalini dressing up like a cabaret artist and moving with somebody else leaving her husband alone. Is there no body to question and even vishali being a MIL not bothering.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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exactly,

I am afraid to say this, maybe this question in vaishali's mind will stop Rad and Dev from coming together.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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They could have brought any problem - but I hate that they are bringing in the same card - kul. That to saying that the 'kid' will never be able to be Rajpurohit - its like negating the 'whole' reason to bring them together.
I mean, Radhika already is underconfident of her worthiness of Dev. thats like hitting her achilles heel. She needs everyone's love to first be Radhika... not same problems and demons to deal with now in the form of Vaishali
I wish this was overheard by MIRCHA team - why? Atleast then, they would 'promote' Rad-Dev milan instead of breaking it. So then we have only Amma to deal with!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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This was a great post and I too have passionate views on this topic being the mother of 2 boys adopted from India.

I think we are in a new day. I think that to get to that PR mansion, the one that she was kicked out of Rads has to once and for all conquer her self demons. I read the Vrath as a way of her finally exorcising her guilt over Vish. As she says "I have done all I can for my sister."

Now she and Dev have to conquer this. Like it or not this is a real societal issue. While having no merit these are issues that she will always face unless she and Dev can solve this.

Until the Vrath was done, Dev would be haunted by his first marriage. So now we need to put this to rest as well.

Don't worry our Rads will walk in as the real Choti Bahu of this family. To be its strength she has to first be her own strength as well
Edited by jpalagrawal - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I have a VERY SCARY THOUGHT in my mind. WHAT IF VAISHALI ASKS RADHIKA TO NOT HAVE ANY PHYSICAL RELATION WITH DEV, so HE DOES NOT HAVE KIDS WiTH HER? OH MY GOD.. This show is gone down for good now..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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hey i just wanted to know if this "varna sankar" issue really does exists or anybody folllows these days.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Arrrgh! Why does it always have to be one step forward, ten steps back with this show? I seriously wish Amma would drop dead! 😡
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Willbrooke...hmmm... ok how long is Dev going to let that last? 😛 Like 5 minutes into their wedding night? 😆


Originally posted by: Willbrooke

I have a VERY SCARY THOUGHT in my mind. WHAT IF VAISHALI ASKS RADHIKA TO NOT HAVE ANY PHYSICAL RELATION WITH DEV, so HE DOES NOT HAVE KIDS WiTH HER? OH MY GOD.. This show is gone down for good now..

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Actually Rads might make up some story about how she is following a special vrat and abstaining from physical relations because she promised Kanha...you never know. She's pretty good at lying.

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