Mistis thoughts 16th august 2011

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misti73

@misti73

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Posted: 14 years ago

RP looks at Barkha and says...Ya Devi Sarvabhuteshu Shakti Rupena Samashthitha, Namastasyai, Namestasyai, Namestasyai, Namo Namah
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okkk...😳..the old man did not say that but the way he was looking at Barkha with reverence in his eyes when he asked Barkha whether she will marry Dev...this mantra came into my brain and so I had to write it down 😳, I thought he will start chanting the Durga mantra and then fall on Single Rawal Female's feet and ask for salvation and drag Dev for the sacrifice and then give him up for his own salvation... oh for those who don't know sanskrit, the holy saying means "To the Divine Goddess who resides in all existence in the form of energy, We bow to her, we bow to her, continually we bow to her "...Oh before I forget Single Rawal Female is Barkha😃 because for the past few days she has been reminding me of the character of the room mate in the movie Single White Female'...but I am sticking to Single Rawal Female 😳...So following the dharma of Single White Female, this one also nods and says oh yes...and Dev glares at her and walks off. Padma tries to intervene and the old man says oh you don't know I have got the one that I have been waiting for all my life but since I cannot marry her...well I have to protect my image you see, so Dev will marry her.....okkk he did not say that.😳.anyway he says at the end of conversation Barkha is perfect now all shut up...and Barkha says that she has a widowed mother who will be coming to stand to attention in front of RP...so RP is busy protecting his image and also Rohan...because the truth will mean that Rohan is bad,..that will raise question on the family and Padma...and that RP will not let happen...because he likes Padma to sit on his lap and suck on a lollipop and make scared expression from time to time...😳...and then daima can also comes and says to Padma...nale baba darte nahi, hum hain na...apko kuch nahi hoga...hum sabse larenge par apko kuch nahi hone denge...hearing this the old man beams in pleasure......and then sings...

Lala lala lori

Padma hai sabse dari

Padma ko aur na darana

Kuki phir who karegi koi tamasha.🥱

..okkk...again nothing of this sort happened but today I am in a mood to write all this.😳

Now temple and Radhika is sitting and talking to Kanha that she has accepted Dev as her husband for the last twelve years and that she could not put sindoor of his name on her forehead and now she will never be able to do so...so chunnu munnu it is only restricted to shindoor is it?..wonder why you did not give her the word ardhangini...or patni or wife...Bolo bolo...tell tell...😳...anyway so Radhika still believes in her marriage and her faith in kanha is also intact...she is only doing this for Dev...ahh fill in the blanks time folks...everyone pick up your pens and pencils and tick which ever answer you want to tick...choices are Dev/society /both...don't expect chunnu munnu to give you answers because they are very busy you see...busy chopping scenes of the leads...wait wait chunnu munnu I will come to this chopping part later...😳..be patient...anyway she puts her head on the feet of kanha and the sindoor is transferred from there to Radhikas forehead and she does not realize it...she then feels that Dev is there and Dev gets up from the car and walks into the temple...Radhika is now scared and she decides to leave (this girl knows that she cannot hide herself from Dev and is sacred of facing him)...as Radhika is going out Dev is coming in and they cross each other and stop...stand back to back...and then Dev turns and says that you won't even talk to me...sees the sindoor on her forehead and smiles...when Radhika says what is left to talk...he smiles and says well your sindoor on your forehead is telling some other story...Radhika continues that came from Kanha's feet...Radhika is now distressed but Dev is smiling because he knows that Radhika applies sindoor to Kanhas feet taking his name because she cannot do it openly...so that means although she is saying that he should marry someone else but inside she considers him to be her husband...and will not give that up...maybe she is doing this because she thinks that since he does not accept the child marriage it is ok for him to marry...then Dev tells Radhika that this is also Kanhas sign to you that you are not understanding and then a gleam comes into his eyes and he says that or you don't want to understand...actually to me she does not want to understand because of fear of what Dev will loose...Radhika continues that you try to understand...uffo Dev drag her away..thats me telling Dev by the way😳...ah Dev does drag her away...he actually looses his patience...controls his temper...hold of her hand...and Radhika is left stunned looking at her hand...and then says come on we have to go and understand loads of things together...and then comes to the tree on which both had tied the duppata after their child marriage...Radhika comes to a standstill because she has guessed why Dev has brought her here...she slowly enters the grounds with the shlokas of Sukhadukhani (girls part and only the first three vows) being played in the background...I think only the first three are chanted...if I am wrong then do point it out to me...I am only giving the translations...

Round 1:

Vow: The vow is that all the moments of joy and struggle would be shared equally by the bride, and where ever and whatever be the condition of the husband the bride would be always there by his side and be just like one of his.

Round 2:

Vow: I take responsibility for safeguarding all the family members right from the smallest kid to the eldest senior. The acceptance of family is obvious here.

Round 3:

Vow: My devotion to you my beloved will be unperturbed and I will decorate your life with my sweet language.

So in one way reminding Radhika of her role in Dev's life and also in his family...also hinting at audience what might happen. ...Radhika is remembering what had happened there 12 years back...and while the shlokas were being chanted she came and stands behind Dev... then Dev says that this is the same place both of them tied the chunri of Mansa devi (flashback with little radhika and golu bholu) and then he turns around and challenges her by saying that to him it has no value (chal jutha kahi ka..then why did you bring her here to remind her of it)...but for you it had because we came here after the pheres (and they show both the kiddies fighting and running around the fire)..

Dev continues challenging her that for him those pheres were also a coincidence but for her that was a holy connection and then that she thinks that this chunri of Mansa Dev which has been tied signifies maintaining this connection for 7 births and she has been believing that for 12years...so how can she break that?...on hearing this Radhika's expression changes and she has a stern look...Dev continues that now does she still want that he should marry someone else...and then tells her to look into his eyes...Radhika gulps...looks into his eyes and says that he has to marry someone else...Dev now looses his temper and says fine then break the bond that has been tied here...to prove it that she doesn't believe in it...Radhika is shocked and she is remembering golu bhole nicely putting sindoor on her forhoead...breaking this bond means breaking marriage to her...and Mangalm Bhagwan Vishnu in the background...showing that she will be challenging Gods dictate if she is doing this... Dev continues challenging her and says that break this bond and he will go from her life forever and will marry someone else...and Radhika remembers what has happened in childhood...she asking golu Bholu to help her tie this tightly so that it never opens...Radhika standing in shock and then Dev with an angry look says that if you have to break our bond then show me by breaking this bond..Radhika picks up the challenge and with a stern face (what to do with this girl)...walks to the tree...with a sad face slowly raises her hand...Dev is behind her watching her with an intent look...through the corner of her eyes she looks back to see whether Dev is there or not (she does not want to do it and now checking for Dev's reaction) ..then with a distressed look tries to open the dupatta again but then gives up...and Dev further tells her that she cannot do it (Dev don't say that, she will again get back to it...do recognize a stubborn mule when you see one because you are also the same)...and then Dev says nobody can open this bond..why are you doing this when God is even not giving you the right to do it (Dev...ok I know that you have proved your point..don't do this because she will get back to it)..but Devbabu is now on a roll and says that the sindoor on your forehead and this chunri proves that we are meant to be together...I knew it..Radhika is gulping...and she is again back to opening that dupatta.....Radhika is now using all her force...Devs was first watching her seriously and then by her actions he has a questioning look on his face...has he realized that for some reason she is hell bent on opening that duppatta...has he understood her desperation for opening the dupatta...then she hears a noise and looks up to realize that a branch will fall on Dev who is oblivious to everything and just watching Radhika...she rushes and pushes him to safety...so the branch fell on Dev and not Radhika...will it sink in her that breaking this bond will be injurious to his well being? And from their reaction to the branch breaking it looks as if Dev does not care about anything but his intention, I mean he was completely focused on her...so maybe when he decides on something all his attention in on what he wants...while Radhika while she was equally engrossed in opening the thread her attention picked up signs of danger on Dev and she rushed to save him...Dev just looks serenely at Radhika because he knows that he has proved his point to her...Radhika with tears streaming down his eyes...silently shakes her head to say no and with a distressed look runs away...and Dev turns to the tied duppata smiles and then snip snip...I mean editors scissors because the makers think that hearing Dev's reasons for saying yes to the marriage or his thoughts in this matter is not important...but it is very important to listen to a useless scene with badi bahu and company...oh yes if the audience gets to know why Dev is saying yes or not saying yes then that will mean the focus of the track will be on him..but if the audience does not get to know his POV then that means Barkha or Single Rawal female can be glorified at the expence of the leads and she can be shown bringing the leads together......ahh and the glorifying continues...I mean of Barkha when Virat refers to her as Pholan Dev,...virat what happened when Radhika was there? Oh yes chunnu munnu we have to forget about Radhika right...and then Barkhas mother comes who is a widow and on a sign from Barkha she says that her only condition is that Mansaram will be doing the kanya daan...this single Rawal female is becoming more and more psycho...now she is using her mother for something she thinks is right not caring what will happen to this lady...Chunnu munnu in order to glorify her you are making her making more and more psychotic...well Agra is nearby...oh by the way it's been week since we have seen Rohan? How is he? Is he alive or dead? Or are we meant to forget that too since it did not bring you high TRPs...no no I am just asking so that I can clear my confusion....anyway Radhika is walking back home and a man wants to give her suhag ka packet...she thinks to herself that although she is married to Dev babu she cannot openly call him as her husband but if she does not accept it then it will be an insult to gauri-shankar and she puts her hand out to accept it...but the Single Rawal female comes and snatches it (ahh quite similar to Rohan)...and then tell her oh so you have given me your dev babu and tells of the marriage...and that she wants mansaram to do her kanyadaan and Radhika is shocked...but showing that she is happy...

EDIT...I am wondering...Radhika has this fear that if she marries Dev then he will loose his position in society...and today the pandit was talking abot Dev's horoscope...so by any chance if it is written in Dev's horoscope that Dev is already married and him marrying again will be injurious to his health and might harm his life...then which fear will Radhika choose? Will she choose to take a chance on Devs prestige but marry or will she chose to take a chance on Devs life for her fear regarding Dev loosing his prestige in society?

I liked Radhika, Dev portion..the other parts skipped, not interested in Barkha glorifying nonsense. Avinash and Rubina were very good in their confrontation.

Edited by misti73 - 14 years ago

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Niharika

@Nihariikaa

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Posted: 14 years ago

Misti i liked RaDev's convo today,
Today there were signs that Dev is trying to start believing in the rituals they went through the childhood, i would like to see it this way, slow and steady. Though Dev openly didnt believe but good to see him pointing towards Radh's believes, I hope he too will slowly, very slowly realize about their childhood marriage. Today liked Dev's characterisation.
loved the dialogue Dev says " tumne hi tho kaha tha khulna nahi chahiye, joor se baandhana" Awww so lovely.😳
when Dev hears about Barkha saying yes, i did expect if would walk out from there,😆 and was waiting like, comeon go go...He was so cute in that scene.

And loved the RaDev stare in the mandhir today...RaDev's covo and the whole scenes at the mandhir were just excellent excellent excellent to watch👏 Avinash and Rubina did it so well.👏

And coming to Radh, i liked her monologue with Kahna in the mandhir, yest i was tooo frustrated that they didnt show anything from Radh's part, but today we had that, I want more of her scenes in monologue to showcase her innerconflict going on.
and the last part just made me cry,😭 really...the way she was holding it inside, with heavy heart, when she hears about the marriage of Dev-Barkha...poor her, felt really bad for her.
and the way Rubina portrayed Radh's feeling at that moments, just cant explain how beautifully she did it...

Today's show Rubina stole for me👏 She brilliant through all through the episode, esp the last part.👏
Avinash was also excellent

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Angie

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Posted: 14 years ago

Misti, reading your commentary is so much more fun than watching episodes these days. I open the links to episodes dreading what else will be done to my favorite characters Dev and Radhika today (Yes, Dev has now been sort of forgiven and has joined the favorite list along with Radhika).

Anyway, you were hilarious when you had that devi shloks and intrepretation of RP's relationship with Barkha and Padma. The old guy is as psychotic as his grandson Rohan and his favorite bahu to be Barkha. I mean Padma is at least human and tries to point out that Dev has walked out. But what does the old man do? Shrug it away and get back to his favorite bahu of the moment. He does love collecting Padma type bahus. Wonder why doesn't he make Rohan the RP. He should be the perfect candidate for this old guy. Dev does end up caring for such psychotic characters. Barkha is of course an exception. Liked his furious look at her acceptance.

Since it is clear that disregarding all viewers' distaste, they are going for a triangle with a psychotic Barkha who would turn against Dev and Radhika soon after the fake wedding (it is going to be fake based on today's episode). So we will have a shouting Dev who would be giving furious looks to Barkha (since all his dialogues are being taken away).

I too really don't want to discuss RP or Barkha anymore. They are getting more irritating by the day. BB is now looking like a doll in front of this RP and feels that she is the only one (I am hoping for Barkha as next BB) who properly punished that hypocrite for his sins.

Anyway, today's episode is liked by many. But it again really irritated me. I concentrated on Dev and Radhiak's part and they carry their scenes with their chemistry. But to me it was ridiculous how again their scenes are chopped and they are doing inconsequential stuff. To me challenging Radhika to untie that knot doesn't prove anything. Just as Radhika trying to burn her hand to prove that Dev cared. Anybody would care if somebody is burning their hand.

The relationship between Dev and Radhika have evolved to such an extent that Dev doesn't need to prove his point this way. He knows that Radhika considers him her husband and has everything to prove that. All her actions and cruelty are for his own "good" and her actions misguided as they are just prove that he is all important to her. Yes, chunnu munnu I am filling gaps here too.

It irritated me when again the sindoor thing came. Radhika has always talked about living with Dev as her goal. But since the track is to show that Kanha actually cares for Radhika, we are getting the nonsensical sindoor talk. How does it help Radhika if she gets the sindoor from Dev but has to stay away from him because of some fake wife? Is that the meaning of a wife (or dharampatni) in Kanha's world? Chunnu munnu, I feel like suing you for insulting my religious beliefs.

Anyway, coming back to Dev and Radhika. I am still waiting for 3 more episodes to see if they will indeed give any meaningful dialogues to Dev and Radhika. The precap suggests that the answer is no.

Why wouldn't Dev use valid arguments to persuade Radhika? Let me list them for you, chunnu munnu? The following can be used for one episode at least.

1. Radhika sweety, I was foolish enough to do this senseless sacrifice in the name of society and family and I complicated both our lives and created this stigma for both of us (yes, Dev's reputation is also not white considering that he has fallen for his "brother's" wife.). In the end, it didn't help anybody. My goal was to fulfil my psychotic dada's wishes and now I realize that it was supposed to be me in the end. My goal was to make you CB and RPtain and my actions have actually complicated this very desire.

I forgot the lessons of real Gita and went after the "fruit" (hence became a fruitcake) and in the process ignored karams or did some actions that were morally wrong. I forced you to go through a wedding with somebody else whom you didn't want and now you are doing the same to me. So don't make the same mistake I did.

2. I did not accept our childhood wedding (Misti, he did use past tense today where he said that the childhood marriage was a coincidence or that tying the chunri had no importance for him. So to me it seems as if he is now accepting this childhood marriage) and it was my mistake. The marriage is a matter of faith anyway. You believed in it and followed on it for 12 years. Now I am believing it and following it

3. You are believing some version of dharam rules perpetuated by my crazy Dada. But remember, he took my parents away from me and made me a servant for 23 years. His actions brought a psychotic person like Rohan in the world who unfortunately turned out to be my brother. So I can't even beat him up to my satisfaction as a result because his real mother is now clinging on to me. As a result, I can't even my own proper mother Chaya to PB because of her insecurity and grandpop's love for my psuedo mother Padma Devi. He really thinks that Padma is a reincarnation of Lakshmi just as he is now deluding himself that your soon to be ex-best friend Barkha is a reincarnation of Rukmini.

But remember this. Dharam doesn't change but society changes. If we go with what RP is propogating, then there would still be no widow remarriage or there would be still Sati Pratha in the world. The untouchability would still be legal in Indian constitution. What he is talking about is society rules but not dharamic rules which dictate that justice be done to one's own before they can do justice to others.

So anyway, let's disregard the crazy members of PF and go to Kanha temple on Janamastmi days with sane relatives (Mansaram, Chenu and even Padma from my side) and get married. Then we can go for a long honeymoon and also search for mommy Chaya simultaneously. That would give us an excuse to extend our honeymoon for three months (obviously we will go once I turn 23 and reclaim that RP title and you claim RP money; don't trust the old man not to give it to psychotic Rohan in my absence). Once we have power, the old man would be silenced and can spend time in peace with Barkha and Padma - his Rukmini and Lakshmi.

So Radhika darling, you should be talking to Kanha and asking for a place where we can start the search for Mother Chaya. Let me worry about other things.

Edited by why6 - 14 years ago

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Mirela

@Myra.nelly

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Posted: 14 years ago

Great post as always!! 😉
At the start of the epi i felt that dev was treated like a plant at the market...sold by a evil old man and getting bought by some nut case "barkha" who does know how to care for it (she herself said she doesnt know how to love) ,he didnt speak anything,just glared and walked away 😕 Of course the heartless rjp kissing the earth that barkha walked on and she playing smth in her head...maybe a mantra to herself:How smart am i, i am gonna get the two dumbos married,what matteres that i am complicating things even more...Anyway...here comes my fav part:dev-kanha vs. Radh battle...She was stubborn and didnt want to see gods sings even if dev himself explained to her the whole marriage process,the way She believed in it,how She thought their bond is made by god...Here was his mistake,he didnt admit it himself that they were married,dev my boy to make a marriage it needs two,u were there too...get her to understand that u fully accept her then make a move...But no,he kept rembering the married woman sings,sindoor and that duppata...she tried to untie it but who gave her to undo gods will so she was harshly warned by god but she saved her hubby on time...Powerfull scene here,loved it...The last scene , barkhas saga...with riddles in her words and action...she belives she is some superwoman or smth...i guess she has her plans...better be good!
Misti,u reminded me abt rohan, i miss him so much,hope he makes a surprise apearence in ME...saying:stop this, barkha is a phsyco,look what she did to me,he knt be rjp-ain... Anyway,loved avina...these two are worth all the love and apreciation!

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neerjashingla

@Neerjaa

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Posted: 14 years ago

Very nice Misti , started with the Stuti of Barkha and thank you for telling the meaning of shalok , as you knew some were going to ask you the meaning ...I liked the part of Mandir which you described in your style specially this part ..The Mandir scene , where Dev Challenge her and she is adamant to untie the knot ...

It was as if was reading some M&B of 70,s 80,s ...You will say i am obsessed with old time , but can not help it even that time M&Bs were less physical ...what the problem is with Creatives, why there are not scene between the two ?Are they afraid that because of their scenes TRP will increase ? Misti I liked Barkha , she immediately said yes otherwise RP was going to find some other girl , she has some plan in her mind that's why she wants Mansa to do the kanyadaan and when she met Radhika that time she was goading her to see her reaction ...I know we would not agree here...I liked Avinash and Rubina , they both were excellent ...

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misti73

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: NiHa24
Misti i liked RaDev's convo today,
Today there were signs that Dev is trying to start believing in the rituals they went through the childhood, i would like to see it this way, slow and steady. I think he already believes in them otherwise he wouldn't have brought Radhika there...Though Dev openly didnt believe but good to see him pointing towards Radh's believes, I hope he too will slowly, very slowly realize about their childhood marriage. Today liked Dev's characterisation.
loved the dialogue Dev says " tumne hi tho kaha tha khulna nahi chahiye, joor se baandhana" Awww so lovely.😳 I know that you will like that line😆
when Dev hears about Barkha saying yes, i did expect if would walk out from there,😆 and was waiting like, comeon go go...He was so cute in that scene...he will be doing loads of walking away in the future.😉

And loved the RaDev stare in the mandhir today...RaDev's covo and the whole scenes at the mandhir were just excellent excellent excellent to watch👏 Avinash and Rubina did it so well.👏...I did not mind it because atleast showed that Dev is trying and it also showed to me that he believes in the child marriage,

And coming to Radh, i liked her monologue with Kahna in the mandhir, yest i was tooo frustrated that they didnt show anything from Radh's part, but today we had that, I want more of her scenes in monologue to showcase her innerconflict going on... thats why a monologue is needed from her...they showed that she believes in her child marriage and she has her faith in Kanha but is not asking from Kanha because maybe she thinks that he deserves all this...so it will be helpful if they clear it to the audience. and the last part just made me cry,😭 really...the way she was holding it inside, with heavy heart, when she hears about the marriage of Dev-Barkha...poor her, felt really bad for her.
and the way Rubina portraye She was trying to show that it does not matter Radh's feeling at that moments, just cant explain how beautifully she did it..Thats why I cannot understand why they don't want to use her acting...Today's show Rubina stole for me👏 She brilliant through all through the episode, esp the last part.👏...yes she was
Avinash was also excellent...I liked Avinash as Dev when he was going after her.

Edited by misti73 - 14 years ago

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Cristina Hriscu

@instcris

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Posted: 14 years ago

Misti, I like how you put in light of Radhika and Dev conversation today. I'm pleasantly surprised, how much tact, patience and passion, he reminded and he argued to his girlfriend, their unbreakable connection,produced 12 years ago. Radhika's stubborn, then, finally accepted the facts of reality, brought tears of happiness in Dev's eyes, and tears of repentance in the eyes of Radhika.

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Anamika100

@Anamika100

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Posted: 14 years ago

Misti - Really hilarious write up.

This reminds me of the old CB1 days when you would write about how Amma would visit chunnu munnu and Vaishali would visit them to tell them how to write the storyline!!!

I think Barkha has taken over from Amma. Chunnu Munnu now think that she is the STAR of this show and everyone else is supporting her.

Like a lot of other people, I only watch the show when Dev and/or Radhika or Mansaram family are on screen. Otherwise I Fastforward.

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seema

@chipak

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Posted: 14 years ago

Thnaks Misti for very well put thoughts on episode. kya baat hai aaj wapas thoda thoda in misti ishtyle format😉 Much need inbtn commentary and enjoyed reading it. ..was thilarious o imagine how you depicted RP falling on SRF's feet an chant the mantra😆😆 I am still taking pleasure imagining this😉 Padma agin tried becoming voice for dev but her protests is agin feeble and futile when RP is in his ruling mindset..And dev given no scope with RP😡 Why please...Brakha readily agreed on marriage without asking Dev made my blood boil but then after reading more parts i think she is having soem hidden agenda behind this specially in teh end when she claimed that like teh prasad even Dev is going to be her pati...hoping that this is not any kind of hint Cvs tried giving in entire episode that She will marry Dev and it was just to make Rads jealous😕

Misti i liked few portion more that others. No doubt Radev portion wud be mindddblowing and it shud make Rads realize her mistake. Dev tsting rads belief was good and thankyou for explaining it beautifully. also liked small mohini portion where shw was hapy in her own world without caring for her husband and sasumaa😆. Today makers tried dropping many hints abt what all they will show in next 3 days before marriage..kanhas indirect signs to rads with Brakah (maybe but hopefull rads by her own) helping her realize her mistake and she marries Dev instead. I also liked CVs using Brakhs coin to make viewers anticipate teh upcoming. we all are saying it will be RADev only but using arkha intelligently to hoodwink us will be beneficila in terms of high drama = high numbers. Its like i almost know what will happen but then dread for worst and this anticipation is exciting only if Cvs do not make another mockery of the whole hyped marriage track by showing only Brakha doing everything be it helping Rads or not...

In the end without becoming over optimist of getting what all expecting- to see RaDev marrying with Kanha or Brakhas help, I do wish this way story to progress instead of any Fake wife drama (lateron for society) or bride swapping to get raDev marriage done..i want Rads to marry Dev with everyones knowledge and if that requires RP and his mahnat paltan to be against it than so be it. But all said i dont want Brakha alone made heroine of thsi entire marriage sequence for next 3-4 days. I wish to see rads realizing by herself that what she is doing is wrong and Brakhas help shud be minimal. Meanwhile if they really plan to show Rads perfoming all ritual accidently (like its something new😉 three times-CB1) then Dev shud know this and then only he shud agree to sit for other rituals. Let RP think that Dev is ready but it wud be worth watching RPs face when he will see Rads taking pheras with Dev and like in Hindi movied he wont be able to stop it...

I am hoping to see how Cvs can exceed expectations and make viewers happy for once...there shud be drama but not much...

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misti73

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: why6
Misti, reading your commentary is so much more fun than watching episodes these days. Thanks...Angie 😉 I open the links to episodes dreading what else will be done to my favorite characters Dev and Radhika today (Yes, Dev has now been sort of forgiven and has joined the favorite list along with Radhika). I knew that you will forgive him...😃...I have accepted Dev and Radhika as they are from the beginning so I am ok with them...I am the more softer one...😳😃😛

Anyway, you were hilarious when you had that devi shloks and intrepretation of RP's relationship with Barkha and Padma. The old guy is as psychotic as his grandson Rohan and his favorite bahu to be Barkha. You know both the old guy and Barkha are power hungry...they like conrolling others life and hence they recognise each other as kindered spirit. I mean Padma is at least human and tries to point out that Dev has walked out. Yes Padma was trying her best today...Padmas main factor is her insecurity, she looses the plot when her security is in daner or she thinks that it is in danger, otheriwse she is ok...but her insecurity also makes her turn. But what does the old man do? Shrug it away and get back to his favorite bahu of the moment. He does love collecting Padma type bahus. Wonder why doesn't he make Rohan the RP. He should be the perfect candidate for this old guy. Actually that is a good point Rohan is the perfect candidate for him...but maybe he thinks that he cannot control Rohan but he can control Dev... Dev does end up caring for such psychotic characters.Yes he is the attraction magnet for them...I think he has this invisible placard hanging from his neck saying that "aa byal mujhe maar" Barkha is of course an exception. Liked his furious look at her acceptance. Well because he is seeing Barkha as a competitor for his affections with regards to Radhika... Ok I was thinking that whether chunnu munnu gave Benaf, Priyanka Mishra's recorded scene to watch...because Barkhas wary look towards Dev were pretty smilar to the ones that Vishaka used to throw at Dev. Anyway liked Devs furious look.

Since it is clear that disregarding all viewers' distaste, they are going for a triangle with a psychotic Barkha who would turn against Dev and Radhika soon after the fake wedding (it is going to be fake based on today's episode). So we will have a shouting Dev who would be giving furious looks to Barkha (since all his dialogues are being taken away).Yes I guess so...atleast from todays episode that was what I got.

I too really don't want to discuss RP or Barkha anymore. They are getting more irritating by the day. BB is now looking like a doll in front of this RP and feels that she is the only one (I am hoping for Barkha as next BB) who properly punished that hypocrite for his sins. yeh and I want her to do it again, thats why I have developed a softpoint for the kashi maharaj...Anyway, today's episode is liked by many. But it again really irritated me. I concentrated on Dev and Radhiak's part and they carry their scenes with their chemistry. But to me it was ridiculous how again their scenes are chopped and they are doing inconsequential stuff. To me challenging Radhika to untie that knot doesn't prove anything. Just as Radhika trying to burn her hand to prove that Dev cared. Anybody would care if somebody is burning their hand. I was ok with the Radhika opening the knot part and Dev challenging her as a means to show the audience that the bond cannot be broken and also that Dev is actively doing something, I was worried that they would show him sitting and moping. Also although Radhika knew that she accepts the childhood marriage but her refusal to Dev was raising red flags in Devs mind...and this way Dev was sure that Radhika has not given him up because she has given up the childhood marriage. That scene was also good for me because of Rubina and Avinash's acting and their chemistry...and this cuttuing of Dev's monologue at the end was again to glorify Barkha.

The relationship between Dev and Radhika have evolved to such an extent that Dev doesn't need to prove his point this way. He knows that Radhika considers him her husband and has everything to prove that. All her actions and cruelty are for his own "good" and her actions misguided as they are just prove that he is all important to her. Yes, chunnu munnu I am filling gaps here too. Yes he knows all that , but he saw today that as he had known she has not given up on the childhood marriage and still accepts him as her husband but is very desperate to open the knot to prove to him that it does not matter to her...so if chunnu munnu want they can show that he might be thinking that there might be some other reason...and the reason is her fear or how this fear entered her head...now I do not have any clue as to whether they will think that Dev as a character is important to be shown thinking along these lines...

It irritated me when again the sindoor thing came. Radhika has always talked about living with Dev as her goal. But since the track is to show that Kanha actually cares for Radhika, we are getting the nonsensical sindoor talk. that was for the audience mainly. How does it help Radhika if she gets the sindoor from Dev but has to stay away from him because of some fake wife? Is that the meaning of a wife (or dharampatni) in Kanha's world? Chunnu munnu, I feel like suing you for insulting my religious beliefs. From todays episode it seemed that Radhika might be the sugaan but not the dharmapatni...now I do not have any clue as how these two words...suhagan and dharmapatni can be separated from each other...to me someones wife means suhagaan and also means dharmapatni......Anyway, coming back to Dev and Radhika. I am still waiting for 3 more episodes to see if they will indeed give any meaningful dialogues to Dev and Radhika. Yes The precap suggests that the answer is no.Yes..tmrw will be banno ranis day...

Why wouldn't Dev use valid arguments to persuade Radhika? Let me list them for you, chunnu munnu? The following can be used for one episode at least.

1. Radhika sweety, I was foolish enough to do this senseless sacrifice in the name of society and family and I complicated both our lives and created this stigma for both of us (yes, Dev's reputation is also not white considering that he has fallen for his "brother's" wife.). In the end, it didn't help anybody. My goal was to fulfil my psychotic dada's wishes and now I realize that it was supposed to be me in the end. My goal was to make you CB and RPtain and my actions have actually complicated this very desire. True but dada is in love with Padma and Barkha no... ...This family believes in sharing...wonder whom the dadas wife was really married to..following family traditions I am sure that she was someone elses wife...

I forgot the lessons of real Gita and went after the "fruit" (hence became a fruitcake) and in the process ignored karams or did some actions that were morally wrong. I forced you to go through a wedding with somebody else whom you didn't want and now you are doing the same to me. So don't make the same mistake I did. Ahh so the fruit for Dev is now dadas wishes...oh so the meaning ebhind the word has changed...but he is no more fruitcake now...that was his past...

2. I did not accept our childhood wedding (Misti, he did use past tense today where he said that the childhood marriage was a coincidence or that tying the chunri had no importance for him. So to me it seems as if he is now accepting this childhood marriage) and it was my mistake. The marriage is a matter of faith anyway. You believed in it and followed on it for 12 years. Now I am believing it and following it ...I know he has accepted it otherwise he would not have brought Radhika there and maybe the part they chopped off at the end had something relating to that from Dev.

3. You are believing some version of dharam rules perpetuated by my crazy Dada. But remember, he took my parents away from me and made me a servant for 23 years. His actions brought a psychotic person like Rohan in the world who unfortunately turned out to be my brother. So I can't even beat him up to my satisfaction as a result because his real mother is now clinging on to me. So true...poor Bumbum.😭 Now he has a psychotic dada, an eva braun like daima, a clingy stepmother, psychotic brother and might soon aquire a fake psychotic wife...Remind me why on heck does he want to become an RP?.Even any psychiatrist will run away from this family.... As a result, I can't even my own proper mother Chaya to PB because of her insecurity and grandpop's love for my psuedo mother Padma Devi. He really thinks that Padma is a reincarnation of Lakshmi just as he is now deluding himself that your soon to be ex-best friend Barkha is a reincarnation of Rukmini.True...

But remember this. Dharam doesn't change but society changes. If we go with what RP is propogating, then there would still be no widow remarriage (well to dada this rule will change if Rohan kidnaps the widow and decides to paly house house with the widow) there would be still Sati Pratha in the world. The untouchability would still be legal in Indian constitution. What he is talking about is society rules but not dharamic rules which dictate that justice be done to one's own before they can do justice to others. 😆

So anyway, let's disregard the crazy members of PF and go to Kanha temple on Janamastmi days with sane relatives (Mansaram, Chenu and even Padma from my side) and get married. I like this idea. Then we can go for a long honeymoon and also search for mommy Chaya simultaneously. That would give us an excuse to extend our honeymoon for three months (obviously we will go once I turn 23 and reclaim that RP title and you claim RP money; don't trust the old man not to give it to psychotic Rohan in my absence).😆 Once we have power, the old man would be silenced and can spend time in peace with Barkha and Padma - his Rukmini and Lakshmi.Old man will be in heaven😆

So Radhika darling, you should be talking to Kanha and asking for a place where we can start the search for Mother Chaya. Let me worry about other things.tathastu...not from kanah but from Misti.

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Mistis thoughts 16th august 2011

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