❤️Im Crushing On...❤️[Chat Club] - Page 4

Steps [edit]

Show interest. Just a little; put a feeler out there. If they make eye contact, smile a little, or nod toward them. If you're really confident, you could wave to them. Start conversing. If they returned your eye contact, try to get near them, and start a conversation. You should let them talk as well. Try to be your best. Don't attempt to change yourself, but dress well and be on your best behavior. Try to be a bit more polite, because no one likes rude people. Hang out with them as much as you possibly can. If they're in any of your classes, you can try to sit near them. Don't over-exaggerate. Be honest; tell the truth. Just stay positive. Avoid troublemakers. Stick with people you know are good hearted and not the sort to make trouble. Ask your friends for help. If you have the right kind of friends, they won't pick on you, and they should never gossip about your crush. They can support you as you make your move. Don't use friends to courier messages back and forth. That's your responsibility. Get into shape, and work on your general appearance. For acne, use a cleanser like Noxema and drink plenty of water. Eat well. Tell them if all else fails. You try to drop clues about your interest in them. If possible, find someplace to be alone before telling them.' Example:

You: "Have you ever thought about going out with me?"

Your crush: "Nope."

You: "Well, why not?"

Your crush: "Because, we're friends."

You: "I consider you more than just a friend."

Your crush: "What? Are you serious?"

You: "I am. Look, it's not like I'm desperate, it's just that we've been having a great time hanging out. I thought it might be nice. No pressure. Just think about it."

Your crush: "Hmmmm."

Give them time to think about it. Give them a warm, welcoming smile, every time you see them again. You have to wait for them to act upon your words without pressuring them. If they're interested, you should have no problem taking them out on a date.
1. Don't worry about rejection. If they end up saying no, don't be crushed, and don't sulk. Just accept their 'no' answer graciously. Respond calmly, or make a little joke out of it at your expense. Staying friendly will help you avoid making yourself an object of ridicule. If you're friends, they don't want to hurt you because they most likely just want to be your friend. Don't be embarrassed if your crush doesn't reciprocate.

Tips [edit]

Make sure you dress nicely for your crush. Always be friendly, not just with your crush, but with everyone. It helps your crush notice how nice you are. Don't be someone you're not; instead, try to brighten your mood when you talk to others.
• Make friends with your crush before you talk with them. This way, if you figure out that your crush was just a passing fancy, you'll have laid the framework for a friendship ahead of time.

• Don't give your crush the wrong message. You are a person, not an object to be toyed with by others. Just as you are being honest with them, be sure they are being honest with you. As long as there's a mutual feeling, you're golden.

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