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I know you all hate didi me too- used to do but I said na I connected when she said I lost everyone whom I loved..... nobody can deny that Sai started falling for Virat when she knew PL loves him and JT was associated to her then she lost Samrat too.....it created problems of surrogacy otherwise it was never possible.....

Not saying she was right nor even understandable but definitely can be felt and ignored.....

I loved Sairat but my mind always found Pakhi better wife and mother of his children.....after leap asking a woman to give away her husband and only child after what not she faced irrespective of time is wrong in my eyes......I say na if she wanted she would have easily manipulated Virat and we would have seen kids in leap but she never did after that if she started loving him and child then can't be said as wrong....

Virat wasn't saint he had his flaws but point was either he always responded or was stucked in conditions....whereas Sai chose wrong areas....

Put as many words as you can but my hate for didi will never go...I just cannot sympathise with her at any cost...and knowing what made Virakhi a pair I can never like her.....see for me the ship sails and that was Sairat...despite their multiple flaws and wrong decisions I cannot dislike them as a pair....the hate I have till today for didi and Virakhi later stays...what she became post leap I cannot even once feel sorry for her...sadistic viewer in me ..I loved to see her pain and her one sided love....if she was so good post leap she herself should have stepped back and reconciled Sairat ...

It's also the biasedness the PH had for A which made the story cringe later on...and when they went all wrong with everything they decided to end Sairat.....

To cut short...I cannot sympathise or empathize with didi ....

Originally posted by: Resham

Put as many words as you can but my hate for didi will never go...I just cannot sympathise with her at any cost...and knowing what made Virakhi a pair I can never like her.....see for me the ship sails and that was Sairat...despite their multiple flaws and wrong decisions I cannot dislike them as a pair....the hate I have till today for didi and Virakhi later stays...what she became post leap I cannot even once feel sorry for her...sadistic viewer in me ..I loved to see her pain and her one sided love....if she was so good post leap she herself should have stepped back and reconciled Sairat ...

It's also the biasedness the PH had for A which made the story cringe later on...and when they went all wrong with everything they decided to end Sairat.....

To cut short...I cannot sympathise or empathize with didi ....

Looking at the post leap story, it might be Ph's biasedness towards Ayesha that ruined the story because post leap it was Sai's character who got sympathy bhar bhar ke and Ayesha was portrayed as someone who was abused in the sets. All we know what happened to Neil offscreen and Virat onscreen..

Originally posted by: Ashane25

I just stated my views not arguing, there is definitely a time to get punished or getting karma back......it's not a random process...

Pakhi was shown repenting and realising in jail whatever we look at it but it can't be ignored that she lost Virat and Samrat plus hope of child(family with him) indirectly because of Sai, point is what all Sai did after that and was still shown mahaan got over my head....

I can't take this line of her Aapne mujhse mera pati chhin liya, mujhse mera bachcha chhin liya aur main aapko maaf kar dun.... I was like Sai devi you neither cared about Virat from so many years nor properly searched out for Vinu....and let Savi cry for dad for so long and seperated a father from his daughter......tum kaunsi victim ho yaar.....Pl seems better than you....

If she was really craving for a family & child...she could have very well moved on, by marrying another guy, and having child with him(apart from her devar) after Samrat's death, and Tadaa she could have got her so-callled happy family. No one stopped her & Sairat didn't ask her to jump into SURROGACY kaand pre-leap, she herself became a criminal. There was absolutely no need for her to hang around a married couple & a committed & emotionally unavailable man, both pre-leap & post-leap, and then cry foul ....

So, no amount of her emotional drama, can melt people, there's no excuse that can make people sympathise with her or whitewash her, Jaisi karni, vaisi bharni....When a woman like her choose to be a third-wheel in somebody's life over her own self-respect & modesty, then she deserves that kind of fate, becz she asked for it. Nothing can whitewash her. P didi has 0 self-respect

Even if keeping all of these kaands aside, how immoral & disgusting it was to marry your own DEVAR, how Sanskari & moral, na?? Is this the sign of a civilized family & a civilized woman. How immoral & shameless it was!!! There are billions of men in the world, and she chose to marry her devar...So, there's NOTHING TO BE DEFENDED in her. Period

Originally posted by: Ashane25

Virat never slept with one woman and was hugging other nor used to help her dress up and lust over in workplace but was committed to someone else....this was only Sai.....

I do used to like Virat I don't deny some of the areas where he was wrong but he was never a Playboy, Sai don't used to consider him husband but he was committed in deal marriage and after her death too lived in deal with Pakhi for child when had every reason to move on.....I blame Sai more than Pakhi one was wrong second allowed to get the flame burn out the world.....

As if Virat didn't do all of those things, you accused SAI for. It seems you haven't watched the show post-leap, or selectively watched only through Virat's lens, that's why you couldn't see that VIRAT already did all of these things in the show, which you are accusing Sai for, but I am a neutral viewer & critic, I have no special favouritism for any fictional characters either Sai or Virat, I state what I have observed & analyzed after watching those episodes. I try to point out both flaws & merits of the characters

If you don't remember, let me remind you, Virat went on a honeymoon with Pakhi, when he still had feelings for Sai, also, he did a close dance with Pakhi on their anniversary party to make Sai jealous, he hugged Pakhi multiple times, he allowd Pakhi to get close to him, he proposed & went behind Sai while he was still married. How can you just one-sidedly blame Sai, when both SAIRAT were at fault, when both did same mistakes.

Or, is that being a man, brushes away the same mistakes, while being a woman, same mistakes are counted as sin & lust...If it's a sin, it's a SIN FOR ALL ,ie- for both men & women

And, don't get me to that- CRAP MAJBOORI OF VIRAT marrying to Pakhi or deal marriage with Pakhi for adopting Vinu, whether living in deal or complete marriage, Virat did remarry, this crap of Makers won't be bought....because according to Indian Law regarding adoption- a single man can very much adopt a boy child, and there's absolutely no need for a SINGLE MAN to remarry for adoption....So, first of all, what for, he married Pakhi, then, there's absolutely 0 reason left for Virat to marry that shrewd, criminal woman who destroyed his life

But, Sai was absolutely single for 7 years, loyal to Virat, she never remarried in those years, so we have to give credits where's due, afterwards she too faltered by marrying Satya, none cared for the children

Some people say, Sai-VIrat cheated Satya & Pakhi respectively, but I say the only ones SAIRAT ever cheated, were each other, because they never got divorced before separation, so they were a legally married couple, they both committed bigamy. If they had gone to the court, the truth behind their marital status would have been revealed

Originally posted by: Ashane25

I know you all hate didi me too- used to do but I said na I connected when she said I lost everyone whom I loved..... nobody can deny that Sai started falling for Virat when she knew PL loves him and JT was associated to her then she lost Samrat too.....it created problems of surrogacy otherwise it was never possible.....

Not saying she was right nor even understandable but definitely can be felt and ignored.....

I loved Sairat but my mind always found Pakhi better wife and mother of his children.....after leap asking a woman to give away her husband and only child after what not she faced irrespective of time is wrong in my eyes......I say na if she wanted she would have easily manipulated Virat and we would have seen kids in leap but she never did after that if she started loving him and child then can't be said as wrong....

Virat wasn't saint he had his flaws but point was either he always responded or was stucked in conditions....whereas Sai chose wrong areas....

As I already said, Pakhi was facing her Karma, so nothing could be justified for her, she once tried to break a happy family, tried stealing somebody's husband, so KARMA WILL HIT HER BACK brutally, and she cannot have an ever-lasting happy family & life with somebody else's child & husband. Neither the child was hers, nor husabnd.

You cannot build castles over somebody else's ashes & graveyard...it has to fall down like a pack of cards. So, her glass-house also shattered

P.S- she was not a good mother, also, which good mother cages her own child inside a room & constantly brainwashes & manipulates him against his own bio mother & teach him bad values & feed him lies & completely false things. P didi was a failure in every department- a bad guardian, worst friend, because she was a pathetic human, a unhappy soul- who couldn't tolerate other's happiness, she was just a shrewd & selfish woman & a pro manipulator & criminal- who only knew to gaslight others

There is difference between condition and choice if you compare Virakhi and Saiya.....

There were problems in form of long history of leap and misunderstandings after that between them so dance was not an issue it was result of insecurity (I didn't like it though) and HM didn't happen and was never about to, Virat was clearly uncomfortable with her closeness things got clear after Vinu's truth truly......but same can't be said for Saiya na she did it to take revenge from him while still in love and everything was clear between them......I have a long message for this will post it....Virat never wronged children he never knew about Savi even Vinu came out their child in the end otherwise......but Sai did.....

And adoption was institional condition to be married, so he did instead he would have married someone else and had kids too......why he would marry when it was an option to go as single.....ghum laws are weird....

If talked about Sai she was still married in leap time to Virat and definitely wasn't a characterless woman to go for another.....while Virat was single as for him his wife and children weren't alive like Sai assumed Vinu dead......but he never moved on credit goes to him not Sai.....

Good mother relative to Sai she became wrong only in the end when she lost Virat and womb over to it Sai wanted to snatch Vinu so yeah she took wrong approach of that story but Sai did wrong with Savi from the start na for so long and married second time broke her family too.....many times she used to get high fever because of not having father......

I don't connect when Pakhi was shown as changed so why can't it be accepted and why after 7-8 years it was still a topic what she did because Sai chose to leave and it ended Sairat plus kid's life when everybody tried to stop......there were multiple instances where Sai choose to create mess like after accident left city and never contacted so I blame her.....

Aree yaar I am saying didi mainly did illegal surrogacy because of Samrat's death as (she lost love second time and this was when she was about to move on) in form of revenge not in obsession of Virat.....that is my theory because on last day she was clearly hit by realisation so I felt.....about post leap yes it was wrong to be stucked in meaningless marriage but it was her family toh kya galat kiya.....

If you did crimes once then apologised from heart so was forgiven and then after so many years I will make you pay chalta hai aisa....No need to show sympathy but yes I just stated her side....that's it...

Marrying devar after husband's death is wrong but here equation wasn't like that na....and there might be some cases in real life too like PL was widow and cousin brother of ex lost wife and they moved on with eo.....for such relation....

Originally posted by: Resham

Put as many words as you can but my hate for didi will never go...I just cannot sympathise with her at any cost...and knowing what made Virakhi a pair I can never like her.....see for me the ship sails and that was Sairat...despite their multiple flaws and wrong decisions I cannot dislike them as a pair....the hate I have till today for didi and Virakhi later stays...what she became post leap I cannot even once feel sorry for her...sadistic viewer in me ..I loved to see her pain and her one sided love....if she was so good post leap she herself should have stepped back and reconciled Sairat ...

It's also the biasedness the PH had for A which made the story cringe later on...and when they went all wrong with everything they decided to end Sairat.....

To cut short...I cannot sympathise or empathize with didi ....

I know about views for didi not forcing you to accept that's fine the hate I have for Sai you all have for Pakhi.....so it can't be mended up.....for me Virat>>>>>Sairat as we discussed earlier too he was the reason marriage existed otherwise nothing....

Haan for me about being good and leaving husband + child like a drop of hat are two extremes.....