Originally posted by: silverfox
It is the adults who abuse children , so I don’t understand what kind of parenting is needed for adults 😔 .. But their family situation could be a factor too .
If any person has been identified as a r*pist or paedophile , then their whereabouts are continuously tracked ( even after they are acquitted ) , the schools are warned about their movement , they have restrictions like they cannot be seen anywhere near 100 feet of the children, they cannot live in residential areas .. But all these are after measures only ..
While we were in japan though it was a foreign country we never felt insecure.. in fact we felt safer than our home country for which our nation should be ashamed of..
I could leave my daughter out to play without my monitoring for hours ..I never felt cautious about her late night going out ... but my only concern would be about her bad fall from her bicycle .. and her physical fights with her friends... such trivial things only..
but after coming here if her school van comes 10 minutes late I feel concerned , I have to think twice before I send her to neighbours house and have to tend to her smallest mood swings .. it’s like seriously am I doing this to just a 9 yr old kid..?
It was not like that when I was a kid..
yennadaa panni vachi irukeenga namma naatta..!!