Raj Badhan Iv 2017 :
Sharica shipping at its peak. Ifrah even liked comments like Mr n Mrs sheikh, bhabhi etc 4 sharica n tagged Eri in family post. Still Eri bluntly said dat I've not found d man I will marry yet. Wen asked abt do they have any pet names 4 each other, Erica cuts Raj in mid of sentence n curtly replies dat ,No v call each other by our names only.
Her replies n specially way of replying in some parts were such a put off n seemed arrogant. But no reaction. Bcz v got our feels from shah n also they were together (in front of us n media).
Imagine dis Iv today. Reactions wud be-
Ohh..Erica can't even stand shaheer's name now! She seems so pissed off dat she was cutting his lines. She slayed (favt word of sha n Erica's online mommies) by clearing it once n 4 all.
Shaheer's Raj Iv 2017:
He was asked who is ur 3 am friend. He said I like to depend only on myself n not others.
Imagine shah saying dis now. Reactions -
Poor shah, Eri really broke his heart ,dats why he is afraid to trust again.
Wen Eri unfollowed shah it was bcz shah did something terrible wid her n wen Ifrah unfollowed her hubby briefly, it was cute. N Ralph uncle unfollowed his wife, it was silly but cute.
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Recently shah tweeted in reply to saurabh dat "Now no one can stop us". It was said in a healthy spirit. Dat Shah is ready 4 d competition n win d hearts wid his talent n hardwork. Can u imagine Eri tweeting dat? ' ohh...so Eri is challenging shah! They hav become rivals. She is taunting him!!!'😆
D problem is dat v derive conclusions based on our PERCEPTION of d situation. In our heads, v hav formed a theory dat Shah did wrong to eri, they fought, Eri unfollowed him n dey broke up. So now every action n word of dem is being seen as a response to d above theory.
It was in our head dat Eri got hurt by shah. N dats why wen she said dat yes, I have been hurt, trust broken, v immediately connected it to shah. Why cudnt she hav been hurt by any one else? Wen she said dat I have learnt self love in a hard way, isn't it possible dat she was talking abt d way she treated herself n overburdened herself wid work? It was a job 4 her n she gav her best. But at d end may b she wasn't satisfied wid d kind of recognition or credit she got n her self respect got hurt. So she decided to answer by working hard n bagging role in top ph. Her caption " a woman is unstoppable once she realizes she deserves better" makes so much sense in dis scenario. But once again, fans had to link it wid shah n pull down his image.
No one paid attention to d romantic song eri sang in himanshu iv, which perfectly sums up sharica relationship. May b bcz v had already imagined their breakup , so v were looking only 4 negativity.
I rewatched her latest raj iv thrice. N honestly, can't see any difference in her way of answering. She is still d same, carefree, spontaneous chatter who dsnt know to sugar coat words or diplomacy n talks as if she is chatting wid a friend.i mean there was no need of age point. But she just got carried away n wanted to prove how they all gel around like a mad gang of kids. If u guys watch carefully, she herself was unable to put her thoughts properly. She even added d phrase "while working" later on, but raj had already taken away d mic from her.
N if v watch her first iv in jan 2016, v can see d same level of confidence in her voice n behaviour. No where was she nervous or shy or too humble 4 working wid biggies like shah n Sp. N her Iv on last day of krp also had a confident Erica. So basically her confidence n behaviour is quite consistent. She neither is too nervous in beginning nor too proudy after success. Its our PERCEPTION. V analyse her words acc to d stories currently going on in our head.
To all those who said Eri has changed , is arrogant etc...If Erica was really opportunist n selfish, she wud hav given cheesy n gol mol replies in 2017 raj iv wen d show was on air. But she nearly killed all d sharica feels. She was blunt then. She is blunt now.
Shah's age n their age gap bothers us more. N dats why v pick up dis particular point at d slightest hint. Wen actually dis thing is neither in shaheer's mind nor Erica's mind.
Its so disheartening to see dat Shah n eri r called womanizer n chipkoo 4 being cordial n friendly wid their colleagues. They r one unit. Its so clear. Wen shah was being bashed n begged by haters to unfollow eri, she commented on amairah post n shut dem up. N yday after dat raj iv , shah immediately opened his cs bcz he dsnt want bashing to begin in her cs. Both support each other, wish well 4 each other n respect each other. Wat else is d definition of love?
Coming to their character, sharica never misused or exploited their shipping craze. They never even held hands in front of camera, wen d show was on air.
Don't understand on wat basis ex shippers r giving verdict n bashing one of dem!
Yes. Eri needs to learn diplomacy in her answers. She herself admitted once. Wen reporter asked a question, Eri said to shah, tum bolo na, mujhe kuch nahi aata.
An arrogant girl won't go to her on-screen maa's home to seek blessings on her birthday. A character less man won't b appreciated by every woman colleague of him. He won't keep mum after ugly break up n so much allegations frm Db.
It takes character to even judge someone. N ppl really lack dat . No wonder, they r quick to jump, bash or blame.
Ps my post is quite rushed or disconnected. But I was really upset by d things going on. I mean, its their life at d end of d day. Baal ki khaal nikalne ki kya zarurat hai🥱
Do tell me if I need to edit anything n really sorry 4 dis long rant.
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