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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: dey.bh

m sorry Ecri. I will edit my post if that helps. And you can keep me out of the CC but dont close it because it will hamper otyer member s


No member will be left resented.

The ones who wanna be with us are moving with us, that includes most of us. 😊

Its for everyone's good.

If this thread continues, it will bring with is a lot of bitter feelings now.

Chill.
Edited by Ecrivain. - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
[] Ecri lets edit our posta and move on. I reallyndont want to bother other members here because I have an opinion. Its a request. Please. Give the thread one last chance.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: dey.bh

[] Ecri lets edit our posta and move on. I reallyndont want to bother other members here because I have an opinion. Its a request. Please. Give the thread one last chance.


Sorry buddy, the DTs are already at it.

I had not wanted it to end like this. But if this thread continues, the bitterness will be there.

You can check your PM now.
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Posted: 7 years ago
A simple issue has been blown out of proportion everyone is entitled to opinions but here the Mod is the one who's looks like the bad guy.
Looks like there's two much of mess and I don't think Ecri deserves all this so it's better this place is closed.
Had a wonderful time here but all good things don't last I guess.
Goodbye
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Dreamer-89

A simple issue has been blown out of proportion everyone is entitled to opinions but here the Mod is the one who's looks like the bad guy.
Looks like there's two much of mess and I don't think Ecri deserves all this so it's better this place is closed.
Had a wonderful time here but all good things don't last I guess.
Goodbye

@bold thank you, Benna.

Mitigating and intermediating is never easy. One burns their fingers anyhow.

Anyway, I dont think I can handle this anymore.


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Posted: 7 years ago
Closure of this CC is not the solution
Bitterness has already seeped in.
The matter escalated due to both parties.
Being admin comes with a responsibility and just to hear one party and not understand other does not warrant stability of the place. Use of authority for such a non existent issue was not necessary. To support one complaint of someone who truly woke up from wrong side of bed is not a good admin practice and to make things worst.
I personally did not find that there was any need for such actions and I have seen worst.
Edited by -Bhavi - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Ecrivain.


@bold thank you, Benna.

Mitigating and intermediating is never easy. One burns their fingers anyhow.

Anyway, I dont think I can handle this anymore.



The meaning of mitigation does not mean use of authority. One can intervene without being authoritative. One have to be fair to both side. One can not take the issue on hand without understanding every parties perspective.

The knowledge and understanding that not all complaints require action is necessary.
Ecri YOU will not ask me to be admin the way you asked Dey a very respected member. That was uncalled for.
So as the admin please take the honor of being wrong rather being a victim.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: -Bhavi


The meaning of mitigation does not mean use of authority. One can intervene without being authoritative. One have to be fair to both side. One can not take the issue on hand without understanding every parties perspective.

The knowledge and understanding that not all complaints require action is necessary.
Ecri YOU will not ask me to be admin the way you asked Dey a very respected member. That was uncalled for.
So as the admin please take the honor of being wrong rather being a victim.



You are entitled to your opinion and in case you haven't noticed, I did not take sides.

It was the members who started taking sides of which is when I had to use authority' and that was disrespected too.

I am not justifying anything, feel free to believe what you want to without understanding my POv, and I can turn tables like you did too.

So grow up!!

And btw I could have very well got the DT to intervene too. But I did it and bore the brunt too. So stop with the patronising tone.

But you are right about the bitterness, that is exactly why there will be starting afresh.


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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: -Bhavi

Closure of this CC is not the solution
Bitterness has already seeped in.
The matter escalated due to both parties.
Being admin comes with a responsibility and just to hear one party and not understand other does not warrant stability of the place. Use of authority for such a non existent issue was not necessary. To support one complaint of someone who truly woke up from wrong side of bed is not a good admin practice and to make things worst.
I personally did not find that there was any need for such actions and I have seen worst.



Too bad Bhavi, unfortunately looks like I can and will use the discretion to shut this CC. It was my idea and a place created by me, in case you didnt notice.

Nobody has asked you to like me or my practices.

Feel free to move on and find the best practices, perhaps, make few also.

Oh and yes, I don't wanna do anything with some members here and turns out that I can use the authority to get rid of this uncalled for drama.

If you have accused me of being unfair, now lemme play unfair.

Edited by Ecrivain. - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Ecrivain.



Too bad Bhavi, unfortunately looks like I can and will use the discretion to shut this CC. It was my idea and a place created by me, in case you didnt notice.

Nobody has asked you to like me or my practices.

Feel free to move on and find the best practices, perhaps, make few also.

Oh and yes, I don't wanna do anything with some members here and turns out that I can use the authority to get rid of this uncalled for drama.

If you have accused me of being unfair, now lemme play unfair.



Are you seriously threatening the person who gives no damn to IF or chat club? Here your response says it all Ecri that you need followers and not a team.

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