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aparnauma

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Posted: 11 years ago

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I think Rangeela is banking on Chakor.

They must have learnt from their mistakes they made while casting post leap Anandi.

I can never forget the disappointment I felt when I saw grown up Anandi. I don't know how they over looked the fact that she didn't look the part at all😕

After all TV is a visual medium the character's looks are important.I am not talking about beauty but right looks for a girl who grew up doing a lot of manual work in interiors of Rajasthan.Anandi was helping in the fields too from age of 13-18.As such she should have grown up to look like sturdy active young girl full of spunk looking like a flower who can withstand the harsh climate of Rajasthan.

There itself disconnect started for me,

So they may be very careful while casting for Chakor and for that guy Vivan

They are already making it like another BV.

This incidence where Chakor ran away from haveli to her parents and how she was brought back reminded me too much of Anandi and Bhago scene

They made Chakor a victim of evil practice of bonded labour where she was mortgaged before she was born and Anandi was a victim of child marriage

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MaxMayfield

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Posted: 11 years ago

#612

Originally posted by: blushing
omg Hiri...yeh kya hain ...🤣 🤣

both are drama queen king hain 😎 adorable 🤗

😆😆 haa re😆😆 they are just - uff I could take them home and pull their cheeks for eternity🤗🤗🤪😆

there are many crazy IVs like this...one bullying other...and roshu kitna maarti hai faisu ko- baba re😆😆 u know there was a scene where phool slaps ajab, toh jannat was showing that offscreen...and was going to slap roshni.toh faisu said, I ll save roshu from it😆 roshu pushed him away😆..toh there was a full slapathon...jannat slapping roshni...roshni slapped faisu😲😆then there was a full blown timepass fight between roshni-jannat and faisal was saving himself from more slaps😆😆 bechara...he was 😆 do ladkiyo ke beech mai piss gaya...he was like they just dont let me TALK😆😆 seriously roshu-jannat kept talking...talking like typical girls, even bitching about some random princess who had come for some shoot...and faisal was like...she looks good...so stop making fun of her😆 then they both stopped immediately😆

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anshurg5

@anshurg5

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Posted: 11 years ago

#613

Originally posted by: Anjali_
i think long long ago- in kerala one used to marry his uncle's daughter- uncle means mother's brother
I think Hindu Nairs , royal people

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now nothing like that- all are sure abt the probs-

Genetic probs- diseases etc will be there na -if u marry someone who got blood relation-

In Christians and Muslims marriage within blood relations are allowed but did was not aware that it was prevalent in Hindus also.

Genetic problems toh hai hi and I think it also create lot of complications in relationships. We consider our cousins like bro and sis but match making angle can create confusion regarding their status specially where ppl live in large joint families.

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hisusmita

@hisusmita

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Posted: 11 years ago

#614

Originally posted by: aparnauma
How about e - something else that results in e - pregnancy😛😆

Who is this??

Appy? effect of intoxicated Anandi?

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Muktchand

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: anshurg5

In Christians and Muslims marriage within blood relations are allowed but did was not aware that it was prevalent in Hindus also.

Genetic problems toh hai hi and I think it also create lot of complications in relationships. We consider our cousins like bro and sis but match making angle can create confusion regarding their status specially where ppl live in large joint families.

i think its in south from Maharashtra to down south...only...

its good its not practice any more...in large extent... many things name of tradition still going on..

cousin marriage... and child marriage too...

since we are not belong that we can;t say its not happening...

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aparnauma

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Posted: 11 years ago

#616

Originally posted by: anshurg5

In Christians and Muslims marriage within blood relations are allowed but did was not aware that it was prevalent in Hindus also.

Genetic problems toh hai hi and I think it also create lot of complications in relationships. We consider our cousins like bro and sis but match making angle can create confusion regarding their status specially where ppl live in large joint families.

I think this custom is more prevalent in Andhra and Tamilnadu across the religious communities and castes.

I think with education and growing awreness it is coming down.

But still people prefer to marry within the family because of the comfort level.

In my family My brother had an age compatible cousin but my mother's brother's daughter.

My mother wanted to go outside the family for a girl and my uncle was also okay with it.

But we had to give so many explanations as to why we are going outside the family when we already have a girl in the family🤢

My uncle's wife's heart was set on seeing my brother as her SIL.That cousin is married and has a child but my aunt still can't reconcile.She keeps comparing her SIL with my brother🤢

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anshurg5

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Posted: 11 years ago

#617

Originally posted by: aparnauma
I think this custom is more prevalent in Andhra and Tamilnadu across the religious communities and castes.
I think with education and growing awreness it is coming down.

But still people prefer to marry within the family because of the comfort level.

In my family My brother had an age compatible cousin but my mother's brother's daughter.

My mother wanted to go outside the family for a girl and my uncle was also okay with it.

But we had to give so many explanations as to why we are going outside the family when we already have a girl in the family🤢

My uncle's wife's heart was set on seeing my brother as her SIL.That cousin is married and has a child but my aunt still can't reconcile.She keeps comparing her SIL with my brother🤢

Exactly this is the reason I can not like this custom. Parents and uncles /Aunts decide themselves since the childhood of the kids that who they will prefer as their SIL and DIL and leaving no choice for their children and if they do not go by their decision then lot of hangama. Even one of supposed couple can develop a liking while other wants to marry someone else. Heart breaks and bitterness within family will be more probable results. Good that this is non existent now.

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anshurg5

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Posted: 11 years ago

#618

Originally posted by: blushing

i think its in south from Maharashtra to down south...only...

its good its not practice any more...in large extent... many things name of tradition still going on..

cousin marriage... and child marriage too...

since we are not belong that we can;t say its not happening...

Now toh scientific reasons are there to denounce this practice.

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anshurg5

@anshurg5

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Posted: 11 years ago

#619

Originally posted by: hisusmita

Who is this??

Appy? effect of intoxicated Anandi?

Read those pages ,🤣

This and Arti's crocodile redemption cracked me. 🤣

Seems DBs laddo's made their way in intellectuals paradise. 😉😆

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MaxMayfield

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Posted: 11 years ago

#620

hmm, its strange but its not unheard of in gujjus either..not direct relatives...but.specially when there is sub-divisions in the same community like say - there is surtis, who belong to surat and are diamond merchants, there are various others...so people insist on getting married within their sub-caste as well...

and somehow the bride does end up getting related to her groom...via-via-via😆 ofcoz door ki rishtedaar...but some or the other way there is connection😆

even today some communities are like really strict, like I know of tharaad...they dont like if their girl gets married in say surti community...and there are so many sub divisions its maddening

Ive heard Tam brahms are also very strict about such stuff...

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DB ka laddoo...jo khaaye woh pacchtaaye, jo naa khaaye woh bhi pacchtaaye😆😆😆

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a6rT8WslhFU

finally a soulful romantic song from KS...its really beautiful towards the end...😳