CC 164#NQ's Dawat-E-Friendship continues :P - Page 40

Originally posted by: sweetly_sour

Yeah atleast he would try to keep you happy😆

This theory proves that Adi would pick the ugly kind hearted, righteous Stefan. 🤣

Originally posted by: .shinchan.

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#Daadiforever
#Daadiloveeachother

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Originally posted by: .shinchan.

ye dekh re chaitu 🤣

Originally posted by: Eccentrica

We are talking about a situation wherein only two guys are present. So the possibility of me remaining to be single is more because I'm likely to stay in a constant state of ambiguity.

And what you said is right to a great extent; you are bound to get attracted to a guy more on the basis of his looks, but a cautious person won't make a decision just on that parameter.

Originally posted by: Eccentrica

I have another question for you gals, a slightly less extreme in the conditions, but more or less similar.

There's one guy whose perfect for you. Say, all the qualities that you expect in him are there. Looks are average, but that has never been the main point for you. When I say everything is good, let's just say that he is tailor made for you. But there has been no inclination from his side, just friendly behavior, but no moving ahead when it comes to a relationship.

There's another guy who comes and sweeps you off your feet. Looks are a major talking point, making you realize why it is that this guy's being handsome matters, since you have never paid attention to the looks factor. But what does it for you is the attention he pays to you. Mind you, even this guy hasn't talked to you, but you know that talking isn't required to do the saying. However, he is quite opposite to the other guy. That doesn't mean he is bad, but the qualities that you hailed in the first guy are absent in the second one. And these aspects do matter to you a lot.

So what should a girl do, go for the first one or the second. The first seems to be reluctant and the second makes you think 'Is mutual attraction enough to sustain a relationship?'

Jawaab do😳

Originally posted by: .shinchan.

humii 😡
i want damon bas ❤️ no joker stefan 🤣 vaise me b aise scenerio me Single h rahugi 🤣

Originally posted by: sweetly_sour

Yay! Mr.Eccentrico Vs Mr.Exotico🥳( Uses a milder term Exotico instead of Erotico, in the fear of getting kicked by Chaitu).

Considering that it is not your case, but your Bua ke Nanand ke Padosi Ke Phupha ke Ladki ki story.😉

I think I will side with this wildcard entry second guy Mr.Exotico more, not because he is handsome but more because he pays attention to the said girl. Although the comparison is inevitable, but still the girl should refrain from comparing the two guys, they are bound to have different personalities and 'qualities'.

There is a saying Chaitu, A bird in the hand is better than two in the bush. Instead of waiting for the first guy to reciprocate her feelings which I doubt he would ever, the girl should go ahead with the second guy and see where it goes, atleast give him a chance. No point in waiting for the first guy who has no spine to speak his feelings if had he would have done it way long back.

See there can be three scenarios for the first guy, either he is not interested and mainly wants to focus on his career right now or he likes to play the cat and mouse game or he is a wuss and too weak to admit his feelings.

While the romantic prospect with the second guy seems more promising😆, the girl in question needs to clear her head first before she picks either of them. First, is she sure it is just an attraction for the second guy or something more because she seems a little biased towards the first guy, which means she has stronger feelings for the first guy and if she jumps into a relationship with the second guy while having feelings for the first then it would be so unfair for the second.

The problem with the girl seems like she is still stuck on her first love which has never or is yet to get reciprocated while the new opportunities and new love interests have come knocking at her door but kya karein she doesn't want to let go of her first love.🤔

If she feels sooo strongly for the first guy then she should take the lead and confess her feelings, zyada se zyada kya hoga he would reject her, but then atleast she can get on with her life and explore new prospects, because her current 'in-waiting' situation seems more worse because it is not going to take her anywhere.

And at your last question, is mutual attraction enough to sustain a relationship. Well, No. But attraction is the first step in building a relationship. Check whether he is compatible with you, how do you feel in his company, does it make you happy or not. It is for you to decide or judge whether your future with this guy is sustainable or not. See, we all have a lot of expectations from our partners and certain qualities which we prefer they have, but what matters more is, does he keep you happy, is he caring enough. Waise little adjustments toh thodi bahot karni hi padhengi, if the guy is worth it. Understand that nobody's perfect ( even the first guy) but it does not mean that you should get into a relationship with the second guy, don't if you do not want to, nobody's forcing you, and it's not like you are desperate or in a rush to get in a relationship.

Is saari tension ka Raam-Baand ilaaj, Single raho khush raho, na rahegi baans na bajegi basuri.😆

Originally posted by: Daru_Dewaani

Hey bhagwan 😲..mein kal aati hu chaitu 🤔..After my ecjaam 😎

P.s humi ka rply 🤣

P.p.s I love you awl 😳

Originally posted by: Eccentrica

Humi...tere answer keep wajah she I'm going to keep grinning throughout the day!

Tune points toh valid bataaye, even the girl understands them (waise tune sahi pehchaana relation 😉 but implementation of the same seems yo be difficult.

I'm not sure if the first guy is a wuss, but the girl surely is 😆. The second guy is raring to go (the name Mr. Erotico won't be wrong for him)

Thanks for giving a fair view on the situation; I'm sure even the girl in question will appreciate it. The situation is even more complicated; not all points have been mentioned. Let's hope he girl comes to the right decision at the earliest 😊