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Originally posted by: shona_arhilover

i dont understand this ... arnav did something, which broke khushi's heart and she was shattered ... rudra loved her selflessly and she tried to love him and gave herself to him ...

people not falling out of love can only happen in fictional shows and stories ... in real life, we may not fall out of love but we still move on ... this is what has happened to khushi .. with the help of rudra khushi has moved on ... her love for arnav has DIED ... and it will be long before it starts growing again ... obviously arnav is her first love, but i cant make a character who is abused and then says it's ok, she understands when the abuser comes and says sorry ... if you deserve something, you will get it ... and if you dont deserve and still have got it, make yourself a deserving candidate, instead of priding and obsessing over it ...

dont worry, i love both arnav and khushi ... so my story will not be arnav centric or khushi centric ... it will have both equally ... you will see arnav's journey of becoming a better person ... and khushi's journey of loving him again...

Originally posted by: shruti46

in second chances also baby was not of arnav but then there was no aditya in that , onlt arnav khushi , i think its become easier then to read:P

Originally posted by: shona_arhilover

in SC .. baby was his brother's child ... we love our siblings child as are own... arnav has not done something great there ... my mother loves her sister's children like her own ...

and he loved khushi there... so he has not done any sacrifices instead he got what he wanted ...

nd I dont think any update consisted of khushi and rudra as major part... there were only small scenes, which was very very necessary ... i have seen writers writing on extra marital affair, where arnav and Khushi are married to their respective partners and keep on dreaming about each other ... sorry I cant write that ,... for me if a person abuses me in the worst way possible, then its the end of his part in my life ,... khushi's character is still not explained here fully ... you and all the readers should wait to know what kind of girl she is ... i was going to do this after few more updates... but after reading few comments i think i should include this in the next part itself ... that will help everyone understand her condition ...

Originally posted by: shruti46

dont know at serials etc, but in real life too some people dont love again they may move on but love doesnt happen again..they live happy life but love , i m saying this coz i know someone thats why..

thats what i m saying she loved arnav, he did wrong , she married rudra and gave herself,,,and i dont think she wud have done this without falling in love slightly or it was just a duty being a wife? now he is dead she will again fall in love with arnav??

Originally posted by: shona_arhilover

she had not fallen out of love ... that was just an example i have given ...

her love for arnav has died because of what he did in the past ... and rudra was her partner who supported her, who loved her, ... and being loved is the reason enough to give yourself then loving that person ... there's no more beautiful feeling than being loved ... if a person makes you feel loved ... you will be ready to give him your life, body is just a thing which is highly exaggerated ... specially by indians ... so to give yourself to someone you need not love that person but wht important is he loves you or not , his intentions are more important ... and khushi decided to move on, wht is the big deal if she decided to consumate her marriage?? returning to arnav was a big no for her .. so may i ask what according to you she should have done??? sulking and morning over a man who abused her and was back to create havoc in her life again??

Originally posted by: shruti46

again i wont agree with your first part...

i dont want to get into details but i know ,

i havnt read any story like that yet,,,,,but as a writerif you have proper explaination for writing such things i m ok with it..but not for scened like rape etc.,.as u said there is no repentance for some sins..

1 suggestion h ..dont post ur note on update inpm..kal ka note padhan k baad update padhn ki zarurat hi nai lagi , saare imp points update k notes m hi the

Originally posted by: shona_arhilover

we can go into details and have a healthy conversation, I have no problem.. but i will again say, there it was easy for arnav to accept a woman with someone else's child... first of all it was his brother's child and secondly he already loved khushi ...

note update ke baad post kiya tha ... so it was after the update ... but some readers dont read it,but sill ask the same question which I have already explained... and so i have sent it thorugh pm ...

i have read ... i dont remember the name of the ff, but i have ... and you think being in a relationship and dreaming about someone is not wrong??? if your relation has come to this point then get up, speak for yourself, break the relationship and then go after your love...

Originally posted by: shruti46

may be i m not understanding wat are u trying to say coz i have never been love or any relationship all this concept is quite ajeeb for me...

i m not against hr consumating or even having a baby..

but she maried arnav , so easily ...and all this...

i think i shud stop reading it..

this will save ur time 😆

may be some year later if i will get loved,, chances toh kam hi h..

that time i will read it, shyad tab saamjh pau😕

Originally posted by: shona_arhilover

khushi agreeing to marry him because she loves her child ... and she thinks just like rudra is gone , her child too will be taken away ...

BECAUSE ... arnav didnt wanted her to be rudra and rudra is gone ... and now once again arnav is back... an she thinks if she will not bent to his demand then her child will be taken away ... because arnav will want that ...

she is not in her proper senses ... its only her fear of losing her child speaking ... she wants to protct her child and she will do anything ... and she thought marrying arnav will refrain arnav from doing any ill for her and the baby ...

But as I say to my every reader, its their decision to leave or read a story ... if its not making any sense, then they should not read it ...