1. This CC is invitees only, as it is being repeatedly informed to you. There's no reason to feel offended over it because the members were just trying to help you as spamming an IO thread is against the CC rules.
2. You have every right to defend and praise your show and retaliate if someone bashes it, but you should also know that there is a difference between bashing ans criticizing. I have read the single comment that has caused this outburst from you guys and I can say that it is quit clear that the person was criticizing the show and characters/actors, which is allowed. She wasn't bashing. And frankly, I'm sure there would be a hundred other CCs, or posts in your own forum that must be bashing your show.
3. You need to understand that not everyone can like DDEJ, Just like everyone does not like MB. So we can't really go around stalking every thread on IF and then start fighting with the people who aren't praising it. There will be a difference of opinion everywhere. It's best if we ignore something which we don't like. Especially when it doesn't concern us. If this comment was made in the DDEJ forum, then your argument would have been valid. But this is a CC where people can freely talk about whatever they want. So you can't really order them to not vent out or share their feelings about certain other shows and characters just because they belong to another forum.
My apologies if I offended anyone. It was certainly not my intention. Look guys, we have no personal grudge or vendetta against you or the other fans of DDEJ and I'm sure the feeling is mutual from your side too. So let's just end this argument right here :)