So here's something i have bene thinking about...for over a year we were obsessed with these characters right? Characters where this dynamic larger than life rich man thru circumstances and fate fell head over heels in love with this Naive, stupid, timid yet strong willed woman who became his strength and weakness all at the same time.
While in theory the idea of a man "taking care" of a woman is very appealing...is it something you all can live with?I know i cant lose control of my existence so for me i cannot be that girl who gives up her everything so some man can take care of her...could you?
I think the notion of man 'taking care' of woman is gone - Now it is not like that. Everyone has an individuality and losing it after marriage makes no sense. However I do know people who gave up everything to be with the person they loved. Like my best friend in US(she is a hindu and she fell in love with a syrian christian) to marry - changed her faith/her name/accepted christian faith/learned malayalam and is raising her kids with him and is happy being his wife and his kids mother. So maybe there are people who are like that - one who can give up her everything.