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Posted: 12 years ago
@harshu and shreya
socho
sapne dekhna accha hai
and of course many gi=uys do a lot of things
to be fair my hubby does some odd stuff
like packing kartik's snacks
or putting the clothes in the machine etc
but majority of the work comes on you
yep insurance and stuff they will do
after someone gives them a reminder😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
Chalo me & Shreya challenge Rima that the chores are 50 - 50 okay ? Shreya ?

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: rima

wait till you get married harshu
I believed in all this
but when you dont see it happen
you cant neglect the house
and you it on naturally


That's what my mom tells me too.

The best thin about her is that she never paints a rosy picture in front of me.

Like you.

I know, the best way is to divide work..but there aren't many who do that. maybe after 6 months of marriage...they will stop!

But then, I hope because I did see few men helping their wives when they need them..and sharing their work.

So then, I think..why not mine? 😉

rima thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago
@shreya and harshu
there are some rare gems
who do a lot of work
but that is rare
mostly it us women
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: rima

@harshu and shreya

socho
sapne dekhna accha hai
and of course many gi=uys do a lot of things
to be fair my hubby does some odd stuff
like packing kartik's snacks
or putting the clothes in the machine etc
but majority of the work comes on you
yep insurance and stuff they will do
after someone gives them a reminder😊


Haan..that I can do! I can remind him...khud phone mein reminder laga ke😛
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Posted: 12 years ago
Rima what is the point of marriage then might ess well keep a maid right ? adopt children ?

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Arhi-Did-IT

Chalo me & Shreya challenge Rima that the chores are 50 - 50 okay ? Shreya ?



i could have...had I been sure that I will win!

but the thing is, even when we think that labor will be divided and in the end if it doesn't...one can't fight.

Because everything then boils down to the welfare of family and house. So we do what it takes...and I am telling you...if he'll see you putting effort, he won't back off either. 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: rima

@shreya and harshu

there are some rare gems
who do a lot of work
but that is rare
mostly it us women


True..

but I don't want him to do a lot of work..

Few women do nothing and every burden rests on the poor husband..woh bhi case thik nahi hai..

in the truest sense, I want 50-50..which is, yes, VERY rare.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: arshi21


i could have...had I been sure that I will win!

but the thing is, even when we think that labor will be divided and in the end it doesn't...one can't fight.

Because everything then boils down to the welfare of family and house. So we do what it takes...and I am telling you...if he'll sees you putting effort, he won't back off either. 😊


I am counting on the BOLD section darling.

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Arhi-Did-IT

Rima what is the point of marriage then might ess well keep a maid right ? adopt children ?



What?

Are you saying that just because husband won't share your work, its better to adopt children?

Caring for adopted children is the same as caring for ones own children Harshita!

There's no difference. At least I don't think so. A child is a child.

And a maid always helps man!

Its not like you'd be at home 24x7! You'll be a working lady too.

And obviously, so will your husband be.

A help at home is always good.

That doesn't change the meaning of marriage girl!

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