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Kalyaani thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
Saiyu,
I need to ask you a huge favour as I want you to have the first res for my new thread, you have to start a new thread and res for an update for PoL and just res for RnS.
I don't want anyone else to be first on PoL at least. If it is possible today else tomorrow, no issue but I want you to be the first one this time.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Rasgulla_sp

My father wanted 4 daughters. every time each one was born my grand father said k ghar main lakhshmi aayi :). when di was pregnant all of us wanted a daughter including her in laws.

fari didn't get your pm :(


Even we want daughters every time someone is pregers in our family & daughters are given preferential treatment over boys..

Ma says it's because, our Nabiji had four daughters alive & his four sons died, & he was a model of how to love your daughters..& he has a hadith saying-The house that Allah sends daughter to at first, he sends Rahmat to...& it is also said-A person who has 7daughters, 7 hells are haram for him..& he loved & respected his daughter very much...

Hence, everyone in our family just wants daughters...
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Posted: 12 years ago
Fari you broke my heart into tiny little pieces and then stepped on the shreds :'(
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Kalyaani


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Soni,
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You are right in your views, but Grandparents are like that. Why my parents are no different, each time one of their children was expecting a baby they wanted a boy, so it will take a long time to change their thinking and at times the effort is not worth it.



Yeah.. I ignore their view LOL.. I think they are from the old times.. that is their way of thinking..
Mine are different.. aha..
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Posted: 12 years ago
Fari I've never seen a better example of logic interwoven with emotions. khushi IS a changed person. the only person she hasn't changed around is him. this is so meant to be.

you don't have to tell me that fari. I'm sure he'll be the Arnav she deserves. he won't be anything else. he will be nothing less. Arnav Singh Raizada doesn't do anything half heartedly or leave anything mid way.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Rasgulla_sp

Oh fari take care. i won't be here then. will read your message. reply here and log off


Oh, then I am waiting for you here Saiyyu!
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: SamiyaIPKKND

K same with my sis

She has a daughter and doesn't want anymore children

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I am with her on that decision, why have many kids and not be able to take care of them. You are so busy providing for them and have no time to spend with them.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: SamiyaIPKKND

Fari you broke my heart into tiny little pieces and then stepped on the shreds :'(


PMed you baba..Everything I had..Go check!
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: .._sonii_..



Yeah.. I ignore their view LOL.. I think they are from the old times.. that is their way of thinking..
Mine are different.. aha..

Yes, your views are relevant and theirs should be in the cave 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
Fari, here I go!
Firstly, because I mainly fangirl, I want more! :P
Lol jokes apart, I found it absolutely normal for Khushi to be going forward and give in her hand of friendship to Arnav because firstly, she feels guilty that he helped her out of such a sad truth tht her life offered to her and all she did was shout at him and recoil herself, and secondly, well she's just being herself and trying to alleviate her happiness and bring it back to her life again, so she sets out with making things normal. Now, this doesn't mean that Khushi is completely at fault and Arnav has no part in tha huge fight in the storeroom, but at least Arnav made an effortless effort of going back to her and consoling her and being a friend when circumstances called for. That cancels his mistake, butnot fully.
Also he was so flustered and irritated about whatever happened, so it shows he was equally affected, and he should be because he would be so guilty knowing he said stuff SO HORRIBLE to her and she immediately had this truth breaking over her. He thought it would be hard for her to handle and thats why he ran to her when he thought she obviously wasn't fine.
Its perfect when his tone changes from "I dont care" to "I do a lil" to "overflowing with concern"
But Im left confused when he says I want more than friendship from you.
She offered friendship and he rejects it saying he wants kissing.
What I perceive is - For Khushi he is slowly turning into her "person" (GA influence :P) But for Arnav, she is something more than just a person, somone he wants to love and keep close, but he's not able to word it properly. Am I right? Do I sound stupid?
I'm completely clueless about the leap as well fari!

At first while reading the story, because I was thinking too much, I thought the leap was the 2 days you mentioned. Educate me about the leap please, I will tell you more.
I didn't have my dinner and Mum's fuming, so I will go now and get back in half an hour.

I hope this helps Fari.
Im really not good when it comes to advice, because I get awesome ideas after giving the advice, so :P

See you all inna while :)

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