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HOLY FUDGE BROWNIES...man this sounds complicated 😲1. Why does he give you bad vibes? If he looks at you flirtingly have you ever tried to notice whetehr he looks at otehr girls flirtingly too?
1. I don't know. I just get these vibes every time he comes infront of me that make me leave the place where he's standing. I don't feel...safe. Yea that would be the word. I don't feel safe around him. Well I didn't really notice if he looks at other girls flirtingly the last time I went out with him with my sister and cousin brother along. But since you specifically mentioned this, I decided to take notice. And well, I didn't find him staring at any other girl. He was just staring at me the whole time. It was so awkward.2. Describe all your encounters with him. I dont care how long it takes to type them out but just say everything in your memory.
2. I try to stay away from him as much as I can. And he comes at the weirdest times, like even at around 10 or 11 at night or early in the morning and hate that. And we haven't really talked properly. Oh btw that reminds me, I forgot to tell you a tiny detail. When I came back after meeting him last night, he texted me that "It was a pleasure to finally meet you properly" 😕 . Okay so anyway he visits almost daily, but he's mostly always talking to my parents and I try my best to avoid him as much as I can. The reason I don't like him was our very first meeting. He came home, I didn't know that he came to meet my Dad and they had already met before and they had to discuss some work related stuff that I have no clue of, so I opened the door and saw him and he says "Hey babe" to me and I'm like "Get lost" and literally slammed the door at his face. And then I got told off by my parents on how I should "behave with guests" . Man I was so furious. I mean seriously, calling a girl babe on your very first meeting is kind of cheap and douchy don't you think? Then there was this other time that he came in my room and was like "I thought to drop by and say hello" . I didn't talk to him. Then he took advantage of my mom being with us one day and he knew that I won't be able to ignore or misbehave infront of her, so he started talking to me and started asking stuff like what do I do, what do I study, you know all that general stuff? And then I already told you about the time where I went out with him along with my sister and cousin, and then the meeting last night. Yea these are pretty much all the major ones so far. Oh and the one today, though we got called back by our parents early because the weather is kind of all stormy right now. Anyway today he seemed different. Like he wasn't behaving like he initially used to, you know with all that flirting and stuff. And after last night, he was very careful to not touch me, even accidentally. And he talked normally for a change. Well we didn't really talk. I mean we did get called back early (thank God for minor mercies) and he didn't seem too happy about that, serves him right. We went to have frozen yogurt by the way 😛 . Anyway it was basically very awkward and I didn't even talk to him during the drive and made it pretty clear with my behavior that I wasn't interested in going with him.3. Is he good-looking? Is he sexy and he knows it type?
3. Lmao, yea I guess. He is good looking. But I don't care about that. Gosh your questions were stuck in my head that I had to unwillingly notice him today. Lol.4. How educated is he? I mean Im thinking that if this guy is from London than hes not just any street guy... like does he seem like the open-minded type?
4. Yea well he is not a street guy. He is also currently doing ACCA. That might be the only common thing between us. We are both Accounting students and he offered to help me if I ever needed and I said no thanks . Anyway I think he studies in LCA. Don't really remember but I think that's what his parents were saying yesterday. And I think he is left with 2 more exams and he'd qualify in the degree. Yea he does seem to be open minded.5. Whats his relationship with his parents like? Or his other family members...
5. He seems to be fine with his family. And from the looks of it, he shares a good bond with his younger sister who is almost my age.
6. Basically tell me eveyrthing about him that sticks out to you and makes you go uggh in your head.6. Ranjana I don't know how to explain it, but seriously EVERYTHING about him makes me go ughh in my head. I don't know how to say it, but as I said before, I feel unsafe when he's around. Especially the way he used to behave with me, like staring and smirking and flirting which I don't like. And suddenly after the revelation of our parents considering our engagement (God forbid) he has starting behaving like a gentleman which makes me feel he is just putting up a show to come into my good books. So this could all be just an act for all I know. I don't trust him.
but one thing i definitely can say is that you don't like all his flirtacious attitude and he might be putting a show...so umm whats next?
like wanna give him a chance or simply kick him😉😆
