11. Give Up Your Fears
Fear is just an illusion. It truly doesn't exist. You created it and it's all in your mind. Correct your inside and the outside will fall into place. "The only thing we have to fear, is fear itself." Franklin D. Roosevelt
12. Give Up Your Excuses
You no longer need these so release them and be done with them. A lot of times, we get stuck in using our excuses instead of growing and improving our life. Stop lying to yourself with excuses and get on with improving your life!
13. Give Up The Past
I realize this may be hard for you, especially if the past looks better than the present. But consider that the present moment is all you have and all you will ever have. Stop deluding yourself. Be present in everything you do and enjoy your life! Have a future Dream and work toward it, but always remain in the present.
14. Give Up Attachment
This is a concept that, for most of us, is so hard to grasp and I have to tell you that it was for me too...(it still is)...but it's not something impossible. You get better and better at it with time and practice. The moment you detach yourself from all things, (and that doesn't mean you give up your love for them - because love and attachment have nothing to do with one another, attachment comes from a place of fear, while love... well, real love is pure, kind, and self less, where there is love there can't be fear, and because of that, attachment and love cannot coexist) you become so peaceful, so tolerant, so kind, and so serene. You will get to a place where you will be able to understand all things without even trying. A state beyond words.
15. Give Up Living Your Life According To Other People's Expectations
So many people are living a life that is not really theirs. They live to please their parents, friends, children, on and on. They ignore the call of their Inner Voice. They are so busy trying to please everyone else and living up to everyone else's expectations that they lose control over their own life. They forget what makes them happy and fulfilled...what they want...what they need...and eventually they forget about themselves. You have been given this one life...right now...so claim it and don't ever let anyone else tell you what to do with your life.
Advocate Anjali Awasthi
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