Originally posted by: MadhuARKaSh
madhu its true he love me as just madly but i do not believe in love in real life
There are lots of different types of relationship, from 'friends-with-benefits' to full-on marriage! All relationships are different, but they usually all have one thing in common - when you're in a relationship with someone it usually means that you both like each other more than anyone else. I do not believe being serious kind of relationships at this today life . Most relationships are monogamous - which means that for as long as you stay together, you'll only be physical with each other - you won't get off with anyone else or have sex with anyone else. The advantage of this is that you're less likely to catch any sexually transmitted infections if you stay with just one partner (as long as they don't have any!). Some people have lots of relationships. Some people have a few, or one long one. Some people don't want a close relationship at certain times in their life.
true but olive for life there needs a serious kind of feeling which is calld luv i knw d age n generation of today is very fast in time u cant trust anyone wid all heart! bt physical relationship isnt all at all to live a whole life! for dat u need to luv sumone nd like!! see we like many people in our life bt we can luv only d specific one who god has fixed for us only :P isnt it!!
We all want to be loved, appreciated and have pleasure and fulfilment in our lives. God gave us all the capacity to love and be loved, to have special friendships with others. He also gave us a sexual nature, and sexual desires. This was not just so that we would keep the human race going, but also because God wanted us to enjoy oneness with a life partner.
It is not evil. But it is a powerful gift, and it can be abused or perverted.
Sex is like fire. In your fireplace it can keep your house warm. But if fire gets out of control it can burn your house down. It can even kill you. Sex is like that. Lots of people have now died of sexually transmitted diseases. Modern man may mock, but the best way to avoid diseases like AIDS, syphillus and others is to limit your sex life to just one lifelong partner who has not gotten infected with these diseases through promiscuity. And until you find that person, abstinence won't kill you. In fact, it will release a lot of creative energy which you can apply to achieving in many areas of life.
Women in general pay the greater price in a relationship. Women are usually emotionally more sensitive than men and often have a greater need for love and security. To the extent that adultery and divorce are accepted in society - to that extent women will be exploited and robbed of the security and true love they need. Men also suffer when marriages break down. If faithfulness in marriage was not important, then no marriage would be safe. There are always going to be times when the thought comes that things could be better with someone else. If there was no safeguard against this, families would break down, and so would the moral fabric of society. Perhaps you yourself have already been a victim of some of this.If the relationship breaks up and it usually does someone is going to be badly hurt.