Random Heartbreakers Timbuktoo#61!!!! - Page 25

Originally posted by: -Faith-

Originally posted by: nureat01

Zainu I'll just speak for myself....dunno if I'm discriminating but it's just me....I'm sure they also have the same sort of feelings as everyone else no doubt....but when a person is that little, they look like little kids to me....and to see them paired up with somebody of a normal 5'10 type height....I can't explain it....it just looks WRONG to me....if that makes me racist/discriminatory person, so be it....i can't help it😕Nahi nahi I m not saying you are a racist /discriminatory person or anything.. I was saying to ami too we say that too.. I mean we all discriminate unconsciously or consciously at some level.... Ami also says bachi lagti hai....and ya deffo its not not that I mean if you get creeped out you are racist/discriminatory.. *head desk* sowwie if you felt that way..

I m just saying its sad but true... ALL of us do it unconsciously.. I guess sort of a part of human nature ...

Chukti Choti etc.. that is how we refer to them.. Its just its kind of ruthless but that's how it is.. But not just this shortcoming kisi may bhi koi kisi bhi tarah ki kami ho duniya nahi bakshti....

I understand what u mean that koi short height hi banda ho paired with her... and seeing her with a normal height person seems wrong...

But then if they like or love someone they cant first shortlist just the short heighted ones and then fall for them..... I was just generally trying to empathize.. kay hum on the whole society treat tou aisey hi kartey hain...

I was saying to ami also it reminded of this mother's day special show we had on this morning show.. the mother was short heighted and she came with her son who was normal heighted.. 12-13 or so must be the kid's age.. He said how everyone made fun of his mother called her Half ticket.. bachi and what not aur uss ko itna ghussa aata tha.. Par uss ki maa humesha kehti thi dil bada karo kisi kay saath ladai mat karo ghussa mat karo iss baat pay

As for the show woh tou pata nahi how they will treat this and usually like everything else is made a mockery of, this probably would end up like that too..

Khair chaddo I know what you mean I do feel that too.. and what I was trying to say as usual not being able to describe it theek say did not mean to be judgmental I was including myself in it too

Yeah I read the article about Vandana getting a show on Zee as well.....I think anyday DID contestants are better options to use as actors than ppl from those retarded reality shows.....dancing involves a lot of acting in a way too.....Vandana does have potential...she was quite good with expressions in DID as well....I still remember I loved her expressions especially in the 'kyun phoolon ke' act with Shakti.Haan true Roadies waghera kay namoono say tou behtar hai and I cant think of any of the Roadies etc contestants who managed to act slightly well bhi.... Yup Vandana had brilliant expression... I remember that performances.. It was one of the best ones that season... ya you are right DID contestants much better options since dancing does involve a lot of emoting and acting in a way

Originally posted by: -Faith-

Oh ya I agree with that point the fact that she 'looks' like a child and her 'love story' with a person who looks like an adult... aaaah I get it that is why it creeps you more.. its like a child and an adult :S eeeeeeeeeerrrrrrrr aaaaah.... now that I have managed to creep myself enough lol Waisay tou today they just started with her looking at him and kinda smiling and all that.. And I was already uncomfortable..... waisay bhi mein nay shayad dekhna bhi nahi khud bhi...aik tou yeh lack of choice.. but haan BB starting I will be watching that probably

Chalo khair since I don't want you guys feel uncomfortable tou randomly mention nahi karoon gi.. I should not have mentioned it in the first place.. pata bhi tha mujhe *slaps forehead*

Originally posted by: nureat01

Yeah that's the thing....it looks like the "love story" of a little child with a full grown adult to me....hence the mega creepy factor.....that's what I meant....which is why I always said that I have no problems if they'd brought in a short guy for her....but they had to go and bring a regular height person :S....mujhe nahin dekha jaata....maybe it's not fair but that's how the visual appears to me....I mean just imagine....what will they do when full on "romance" starts?? I don't want to think actually😕 Aaah ya now that I thought of it that way... break down kar kay.. I mean ya creeping out factor tha for me too but with this whole child and adult love story angle its increased manifold.... Haan I dont want to imagine too... I told u na 😆if it was not for my mother, morbid curosity and lack of choice.. I would not even be watching it... Waisay on another note, if they brought a short guy for her I mean now that love story and even the visuals can be kind of cute lol but then whenever they show bachpan ka pyaar and kids in such scenarios.. I get majorly creeped out....bacho ko tou chod do .. Wow now with this insight I can totally understand what you meant earlier!

LOL arey nahin don't feel bad about mentioning it yaar.....we're having a good discussion...hehehe really u know me and how bad I am with discussions, debates or analysis type of things.. Basically any of the sane stuff....just not my thing😆 you made very valid points about how we are all judgemental on a general level.....that I totally agree with. Haan *sigh* It is sad howww true that is