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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Nu_Adu


I doubt Kaushi and Nani would care much even after knowing the whole story...they've always hated Sadhna after knowing of her previous sacrifices. It's pathetic.

And I guess there are more things about Sadhna no one knows yet...the way she brought Ragini out of depression by re-introducing dance in her life, the way she single-handedly made it possible for Ranvir to be free from jail...and her discovery of the truth about Naveen and Avni! 😊



👏👏👏👏 excellent points... agree with u.
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: taral83

i have question.........does anyone eles know why Sadhna married Alekh in the first place.....money and Ragini??? besides just Vasu and Sadhna? and they never said a word?



Yes, Sharma family knows Sadhana married Aalekh to get the house back from girvi. That was also created by Vasu. That truth has not come out yet. Vasu had challenged publicly to her high profile friends when one of them refused to get their daughter married to Aalekh because he was paagal; that Vasu would get her son married to the most beautiful girl in town. She identifies Sadhana and have someone follow her and comes to know mamajis house in girvi, she bribes the man and takes over mamaji's house and she orchestrates Sadhana to become a tutor for Avni's kids and then with the help of servant Gauri, Vasu makes Sadhana discover Aalekh i the closed room with his hands and legs tied up... then because of the house, Sadhana is forced to get married to Aalekh. But Sadhana also adds another condition that Ragini should get married to Ranvir. Vasu makes an empty promise, give mamaji's house back. But nobody knows until today that Ragini getting married to Ranvir is also Sadhana's sauda.


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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: vishmewell



@ red - We cannot put Aalekh and Ragini on the same platform. Neither their gunah nor relationship are the same.

In Sagini relationship, Ragini was always on the receiving end. But with Aalekh, he was also like a strength of mountain to Sadhana. Nobody dared to say anything to Sadhaan. Lately, he has been bad, but put his mom in her place about the divorce... he handled it very well... he protected her from the mystery guy, yelled at security people, yelled at his manager, yelled at even Mallika... saare zameen aasmaan ek kardiya. He even almost got hit by a truck trying to catch the guy. Never gave up on her.

Sadhana ne tho hadd hi kardi... can she not see how much he loves her??? She signed divorce papers for her mamiji after losing to Ragini on purpose knowing there are no other options other than divorce?

Sadhana did not treat Aalekh right in this respect. Sadhana is 100% wrong. SHE HAS TO REDEEM HERSELF. And that is not easy.


@ blue - yes. Aalekh should move out of the house and live with Sadhana separately. Vasu Sadhana ke saamne gidgidaaye betekeliye.



Sadhana ji ki jai ho. How could she do that ? I was so surprised when GuruMa said that she had already decided that she has to lose....so it was not a weak moment. This is so crazy.

Someone should take this husband-wife team to a marriage therapist...for both of them their spouse comes last on the priority list...they are ready to sacrifice each other for their family.
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: --Anu--



Sadhana ji ki jai ho. How could she do that ? I was so surprised when GuruMa said that she had already decided that she has to lose....so it was not a weak moment. This is so crazy.

Someone should take this husband-wife team to a marriage therapist...for both of them their spouse comes last on the priority list...they are ready to sacrifice each other for their family.



@ red - Exactly... anybody who knows Sadhana well, will never say it was a weak moment. It was intentional and she CANNOT see beyond Sharma family. Shaadi tho AAlekh se majboori mein kartho liya. Lekin Sahi maino mein Aalekh ki pathni manse bhi nahi ban paayi, tan se tho doorki baat hai. That to me is inexcusable and DISGUSTING on the part of Sadhana. She did not sign in majboori, she made that choice because she cared less for Aalekh yaar. My blood boils when I remember that.

Although they were living apart Aalekh ne phir bhi Sadhana ka khyaal rakha. What did she give him in return? Divorce?

I want Sadhana to fall on her knees in front of Aalekh and beg him to take her back yaar. Aalekh should neither marry Mallika (which he anyway will not now) nor bring Sadhana back. He must teach Sadhana a lesson now. He MUST put her to test if he will be her priority... now that all problems are solved at Sharma house hold, Aalekh will anyway become her priority. DISGUSTING.

@ green - they need marriage counseling big time.
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Posted: 15 years ago


But didn't Sadhna tell herself while and after signing that she expects Alekh to toss those papers in the garbage without caring about a silly signature? She wasn't signing to end her marriage!..it was just doing what Vasu wants at that point to run to hospital with the money.

They both love each other but both failed to see that...and then came the point where Alekh saw her signature and decided Sadhna doesn't love him, while Sadhna saw that love letter and thought Alekh doesn't love her! Here they're equally wrong, but since Ranvir went to jail Alekh has been more wrong of course.
And I don't agree that Sadhna failed to be a wife to Alekh...she is completely, blindly devoted to Alekh. And it's her devotion for which I fell in love with her...and I want to love just like her. That's the best thing about her! When Alekh rejected her love and asked her to leave and behaved worse than a stranger with her, I guess that is the only time Sadhna stopped acting like Alekh's wife. And she's right too...
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Nu_Adu



But didn't Sadhna tell herself while and after signing that she expects Alekh to toss those papers in the garbage without caring about a silly signature? She wasn't signing to end her marriage!..it was just doing what Vasu wants at that point to run to hospital with the money.

They both love each other but both failed to see that...and then came the point where Alekh saw her signature and decided Sadhna doesn't love him, while Sadhna saw that love letter and thought Alekh doesn't love her! Here they're equally wrong, but since Ranvir went to jail Alekh has been more wrong of course.
And I don't agree that Sadhna failed to be a wife to Alekh...she is completely, blindly devoted to Alekh. And it's her devotion for which I fell in love with her...and I want to love just like her. That's the best thing about her! When Alekh rejected her love and asked her to leave and behaved worse than a stranger with her, I guess that is the only time Sadhna stopped acting like Alekh's wife. And she's right too...



cudnt have agreed wid u moree👏👏

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: _-sHoNaa-_

no problem.
YAY march break!



😆 I don't have March break, but still looking forward to a GREAT weekend!!!!!! 😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
aww y dn't u have march break lol
but this break wudnt feel like a break...its like only for 1 week...blah!
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Posted: 15 years ago


Coz there's no March break in college!!!!!!

We had reading week, and yes one week is over before you can properly start relaxing! 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: vishmewell



@ red - We cannot put Aalekh and Ragini on the same platform. Neither their gunah nor relationship are the same.

In Sagini relationship, Ragini was always on the receiving end. But with Aalekh, he was also like a strength of mountain to Sadhana. Nobody dared to say anything to Sadhaan. Lately, he has been bad, but put his mom in her place about the divorce... he handled it very well... he protected her from the mystery guy, yelled at security people, yelled at his manager, yelled at even Mallika... saare zameen aasmaan ek kardiya. He even almost got hit by a truck trying to catch the guy. Never gave up on her.

Sadhana ne tho hadd hi kardi... can she not see how much he loves her??? She signed divorce papers for her mamiji after losing to Ragini on purpose knowing there are no other options other than divorce?

Sadhana did not treat Aalekh right in this respect. Sadhana is 100% wrong. SHE HAS TO REDEEM HERSELF. And that is not easy.

@ blue - yes. Aalekh should move out of the house and live with Sadhana separately. Vasu Sadhana ke saamne gidgidaaye betekeliye.

This may be your personal POV ... and it doesnt have to be a FACT to say directly that Sadhna is 100% wrong. You may feel what Sadhna is wrong ... but cannot measure it like this... it can offend some people and their feelings aswell!

While everyone is entitled to their views ... its also noticable that if for one argument Sadhna is claimed to be wrong ... there are a million other arguments which can definately and much more strongly say that ALEKH did a Crime Against Sadhna (to which Mamaji would agree too ... lolz ... and so will RANVIR or RAGINI now)!

The Saalekh relationship at this point is empty and meaningless. Actually Alekh has NO RIGHT on Sadhna. He has outwardly or inwardly ... in any circumstances ... disowned Sadhna. Everything else is meaningless.... whether he is mature or immature is another matter because LOVE or RESPECT could atleast make him stop her. HE EVEN WANTED TO STOP CHOTI MA when she was leaving ... but he never tried even one bit for Sadhna...

And why only now ... infact since he got well he have been treating Sadhna badly.

While it can be argued that for a GIRL it is compulsory to be a DOORMAT or a low life (shoe of the feet) infront of his undettered autocratic remorseless husband (no matter what his emotional balances) ... but it is also a very strong case if one says that SADHNA IS RIGHT to give this relationship LESS PRIORITY due to its HALLOWNESS.

Its all the way Alekh's responsibility to save this marriage. Sadhna's contrubution to Alekh is without MATCH. Alekh is no where near that...

Infact RagVir relationship is more balanced....while Saalekh relationship was actually never there...and if it was there ... it was all due to Sadhna ...

Alekh in his MAD days used to argue in Sadhna's favor ... just like a toddler cries out when his nanny is being scholded by his Mother... THIS IS A FEEBLE AND UNAWARE EXPRESSION. Its nothing meaningful unless this affection is shown in equal depth when he grows up (and this is almost never the case)...

Alekh REMEMBERS those days .. its not that he has forgotten. Maybe he is yet to learn about marriage ... but Love is something innate ... and so is respect or kindness. MINIMAL KINDNESS should've atleast made him listen to Sadhna when she tried to say something.

Once he gets well ... all his feelings (whenever they were positive) are hidden away from Sadhna. His care about the MYSTERY MAN could also be translated into a MALE EGO. Yep ... some men do have EGO, they would not like their EX to be with anyone ... they become defensive ... and remain confused about other women although progressing into a relationship with them (I personally find that as a HAREM Era tendency). But its certainly not enough to cement a relationship ... atleast in this time and age.

Its utterly unacceptable from his part.

SADHNA SHOULD NOT REPENT - I feel proud of her ... because she did absolutely nothing wrong. She came to an option where she had to choose between a hallow relationship ... or a relationship which had been meaningful to her from her childhood, and the girl was her sister for whose moral and confidence she had been doing alot. Mamiji is Mamaji's wife ... whom she must serve.

While its true that Sadhna shouldnt have sacrificed on the dance floor ... but when looking to it from Sadhna's perspective ... perhaps she felt differently due to the very ATTRIBUTES her own relationship with Alekh was carrying.

Remember that Sadhna (although in an attempt to hide other facts) did mention that her relationship with Alekh is HALLOW....

She does love Alekh ... but every feeling of love or every wish need not come true ... or need not be the most important when other more REAL stuff comes infront.

Bottom Line: If Alekh wants Sadhna back ... I would feel he should beg forgiveness on his knees (which I am expecting to see ... lolz).
Edited by Ice-Thinker - 15 years ago

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