Originally posted by: Kavya_KraZQueen
@Shruti: I already PMed you about this but I am posting the same thing again , this time in the open, because I felt that the members here should also know about it.
We are not offended by your warning or are taking it in the negative sense. Like I said, we will be a bit more careful and keep things like "instigatory" remarks in mind, something which we might have done unknowingly. However, you have not exactly answered my questions. This was your reply to me in the previous thread-
@Kavya:Is there any rule that a thread can't be checked until it is reported. Even if the thred is reported the DT will look from all the side before taking any decision.
About members coming here to create problem you can hit the report button to take the matter to the concern DT. Replying it would aggravate the matter more and you also become liable for action for reacting thus.
After the note henceforth we saw anyone not following it strict action would be taken.
@bold: Neither you nor me are kids to NOT get that you had to choose some choicest of the CCs/threads to give the warnings amongst the various forums n threads on I-F in general and the number of CCs in CC section in particular, because they were reported. 😊 😊 I would be glad that if the people who report are also warned for stalking the CCs not just the ones who are reported. I am not saying here that you will not look at every aspect before warning a thread , all I am saying is that the CC reporting party is AS guilty as the reported party, don't you think? Is it fair on their part to invade our privacy when we clearly wrote INVITE ONLY for one CC and gave an apt description of all the CCs' sensibilities we are a part of and what kind of members are allowed there? My question to you, therefore is this-
What is the point in reading what we write when they know it won't be pleasant for them to read and when we have already informed them that it won't be pleasant for them through our CC intro posts? I am forced to think that these people who report us derive some kind of sadistic pleasure out of reading our posts with the sole intention of reporting us or trying to trap us when we make a mistake somewhere and that probably their motive is to throw us out of the forum once and for all because we do not ONLY drool or ohh-aah about everything like they do. Its the INTENTION behind reporting by stalking that I am talking about here NOT the reporting itself!
Another little thing I need some clarification on - let's say I am hurt by some members remarks at me on the forum but I don wanna reply to them on the main forum or report them so I come to the CC and vent it out to my friends that I am frustrated and upset by that person's tone/comment WITHOUT bashing that person , will that also be treated as "bashing" then?
I would appreciate it if you give me convincing answers to these questions!
P.S: I never said anything about members coming here to create a problem, we never faced any issue like that.
Thank You
Kavya
I am with you on this completely Kavya. The people that report our posts are guilty of stalking, and they visit the CC with the intention to REPORT to get people in trouble, in fact I would go on to state members instigate/ annoy us & when we come back to the CC they FOLLOW us, and report our posts. There are some members I have noticed that tend to ruin posts by us by posting sarcastic one liners with the intention of instigating us. We are humans and we make mistakes. How long can we hold control over our emotions especially when someone is annoying us? There is a limit, and many times we lose out on our patience, yet we can't say a word.
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