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Posted: 11 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: marauder

Here I am with my defense council. 😆 . Well first of all seriously I have not thought there will come a day when I have to defend Swayam more than Sharon. But kuch bhi ho sakta hai idhar. 😕

So coming to the content of post. Well I can see where this rant is coming from but I don't agree with it. Verbal duel or not I guess I don't have to give evidence for Swayam's love for Sharon. Its not first time that we have seen both Swayam and Sharon saying nastiest thing to each other but this time its different. As this time like earlier Swayam is not taking first step. And this is hurting Sharon more than even she is realizing. She is craving for his attention and that's why she is doing everything to get it. But unfortunately she is doing it still the old way and this is seriously not helping her around this time. And now its just the wait for time when it will strike her for real that this is not the way. Sharon is tough nut to crack but no matter what she will break down on fear of prospect of loosing Swayam forever. Yesterday the scene after boys convo was a glimpse of that and I am pretty sure that moment will come once again soon. Look out for that.

And about Swayam dying a slow death - errmm NO. That guy is still the same. Neither has he changed nor he is going to. But just that instead of him reaching out for Sharon everytime he is expecting her to reach out to him. And I don't think its unfair demand in any sense. After all as Swayam said a relationship need contribution from both. And about not taking straightly - well something is to be realized by yourself. It can't be handed over to you.


hats off dude... i agree with u totally...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: marauder

Here I am with my defense council. 😆 . Well first of all seriously I have not thought there will come a day when I have to defend Swayam more than Sharon. But kuch bhi ho sakta hai idhar. 😕

So coming to the content of post. Well I can see where this rant is coming from but I don't agree with it. Verbal duel or not I guess I don't have to give evidence for Swayam's love for Sharon. Its not first time that we have seen both Swayam and Sharon saying nastiest thing to each other but this time its different. As this time like earlier Swayam is not taking first step. And this is hurting Sharon more than even she is realizing. She is craving for his attention and that's why she is doing everything to get it. But unfortunately she is doing it still the old way and this is seriously not helping her around this time. And now its just the wait for time when it will strike her for real that this is not the way. Sharon is tough nut to crack but no matter what she will break down on fear of prospect of loosing Swayam forever. Yesterday the scene after boys convo was a glimpse of that and I am pretty sure that moment will come once again soon. Look out for that.

And about Swayam dying a slow death - errmm NO. That guy is still the same. Neither has he changed nor he is going to. But just that instead of him reaching out for Sharon everytime he is expecting her to reach out to him. And I don't think its unfair demand in any sense. After all as Swayam said a relationship need contribution from both. And about not taking straightly - well something is to be realized by yourself. It can't be handed over to you.

well dont know what is actually running inside after ur POV guess you are right and its absolutely correct on swayam's part to let sharon step first coz everytime you cant expect one to bow down and apologize the fights that started actually form slap incident messed up alot
and as i said before swayam is noe changed but pretending to be may be just to make sharon follow the path of love for him and reach to him herself because this time its her turn to show her real love for swayam
but the thing thats killing me the most is that a girl who fall for a boy all because of his never ending love towards her the pamper the care he offered no matter she accept that or not ...,why and how would dat girl apologize to him who is no more behaving the same who says she is no more important to him
now when sharon actually dont know his real thoughts and intentions behind being a bit rude to her, it would definitely be hard time for her to come out of this confusion
basically its sharon's verdict now what to choose? where to go?
she'll realize for sure and creatives want to deliver srp's POV and her immense love for swayam
dnt know what i'm saying but we'll have to wait because its really being stretched alot for me atleast the more time it'll took to end more will be difficult to forget this phase of swaron story
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Posted: 11 years ago
#33
He loved sharon like crazy and was willing to get her and make her fall in love now wen maneged to do that hez got no trust left on.her...just bloody listen to her before going all retarded, and "change" i m sorry such a big change in personality in nature dnt come over night it takes time...so i dnt agree wiv the sp called 'change' crap...swayam charecter has become annoying now sharon is like that from.begining which is justified but swayam acting all wierd these days...if he want her to reach out for him thn fine let it be that but constantly hurting her wiv his words and being so cold and indifferent wont help its making it worse
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i agree with you...just to show sharon that he is changed he purposefully using words which swayam as a character i would not expect to. cvs are turning swayam just like other boys. sharon has always been like that but swayam this changed behavior is making me feel as if he is got seriously misguided about sharon. he knws sharon well but i seriously doubt it cozz right from papa shikhawath track i feel he is nt able to notice the change in sharon...he knows the pinch of hurtful words and still he is using such harsh words so very easily...how very easliy and it appeared purposefully to me and his momentarily regret was not impressive. why does he want sharon to feel that he is changed???

i do not want swayam to roam around sharon proving his love but at least i did nt expect him to behave the same way how sharon behaves at times...taunting and fighting with her is still amusing but questioning hee feelings and saying right upfront that he is least concerned abt her presence in his life was shocking and a BIG RIDICULOUS experimenation. at least the dialogue could hv been something else. its just hurting me to see the passionate lover boy essence fading away from swayam...its cozz of swayam why most of us could connect to sharon and understand how amazing she is at least my case was as such.
Edited by BeulaSwaRon - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well Neeti, I do agree that Swayam is changed but I don't believe that OLD Swayam is dead. Time ke saath saath, there has been alot of Growth in HIS character but he was never changed, in true sense. This Swayam wants to bring some changes in Sharon's character and uske liye, he is being like this. And yes! as you said, he might be an egoistic man, and all I would say is, he is being egoist to bring HIS Sharon back to him. He is the same old Swayam, who loves her.

And yes! I again agree to your point that Sharon is an egoistic person to understand Swayam's behaviour but I think, this track is all about to make her understand that HER LOVE for Swayam is much more than her ego. And Yes! His words were truly hurtful but if these words would bring a change in Sharon, then, I am okay with it. And also, this is the NOT first he is saying such things. For now, I would say, these two characters are making Sense but their hurtful words are making their story more depressing. All I'm hoping for is a better storyline, which justifies their characters as well as their Love story with Dance as a special element.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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i was okay with the storyline of swaron okay with swayam wanting sharon to take a step ahead..but nw m confused n disappointed to see swayam's behavior...his rudeness is all okay but the very line given to him swayam that sharon is not important to him disappointed me...would hv accepted harsh fights but this was so not required..he seems just like other guys
Edited by Anaya.SwaRon - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: Anaya.SwaRon

i was okay with the storyline of swaron okay with swayam wanting sharon to take a step ahead..but nw m confused n disappointed to see swayam's behavior...his rudeness is all okay but the very line given to him swayam that sharon is not important to him disappointed me...would hv accepted harsh fights but this was so not required..he seems just like other guys


i second you this sharon not being important for swayam was really a harsh one dis would deeply effect sharon fights tak thik hai but this is not acceptable jo bhi ho he is swayam though he din want to say but did say and srp dont know why he actually said that and what he meant
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Posted: 11 years ago
#38
Sorry but I do not second you on your post Neeti. I'm going to counter you. Sorry. 😕

Okay, coming to Swayam, I don't think he has changed in anyway. Didn't you see the episode or listen to the Rey-Swayam convo where Swayam said that he will love her till eternity?

At least we know that he still loves her and will continue loving her till the day he dies, but Sharon? No such thing is shown. No kind of concern, NOTHING AT ALL! I never liked Sharon's character as such but after Vrushi entered things changed, but my love for Swayam and SwaRon still remained intact. Swayam's behavior is completely justified and as he rightly said, relationship cannot work if only one person keeps compromising.

If tomorrow, he goes to Sharon and tells her that I'm sorry please come back, will she understand that he's the boy who values me more than anyone else? Or will she think ki jabhi hamare beech misunderstanding hoga, he will come to sort it out?

Him, not wanting to take the first step IS justified. How much does he have to wait to approach her? And as much as she's craving to be with him, he's craving to be with her soon. But hamesha baat is not about one sided povs. You understanding Sharon's point of view makes it all the more important to at least look at Sharon from Swayam's point of view.

The only point where I actually couldn't understand him is when he talked to her rudely only to show her that he's changed. Saying " I don't think about you" in no way will make Sharon think that he has changed. What nonsense. 🥱

The main thing in this whole circle is the BIG FAT EGO. I don't understand WHY they have to drag in their ego when it is comfortably chilling out? Why can't they just sit at one place and sort whatever issues they have? Aren't they incomplete without each other.

There's a biggg VOID in this entire hoax. That void can be only filled by their point of views, especially Sharon's. I don't feel Swayam is wrong in any major way. I feel Sharon is at more fault than Swayam is. She is not able to understand him properly. 😕
Edited by tanha29 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: marauder

Here I am with my defense council. 😆 . Well first of all seriously I have not thought there will come a day when I have to defend Swayam more than Sharon. But kuch bhi ho sakta hai idhar. 😕

So coming to the content of post. Well I can see where this rant is coming from but I don't agree with it. Verbal duel or not I guess I don't have to give evidence for Swayam's love for Sharon. Its not first time that we have seen both Swayam and Sharon saying nastiest thing to each other but this time its different. As this time like earlier Swayam is not taking first step. And this is hurting Sharon more than even she is realizing. She is craving for his attention and that's why she is doing everything to get it. But unfortunately she is doing it still the old way and this is seriously not helping her around this time. And now its just the wait for time when it will strike her for real that this is not the way. Sharon is tough nut to crack but no matter what she will break down on fear of prospect of loosing Swayam forever. Yesterday the scene after boys convo was a glimpse of that and I am pretty sure that moment will come once again soon. Look out for that.

And about Swayam dying a slow death - errmm NO. That guy is still the same. Neither has he changed nor he is going to. But just that instead of him reaching out for Sharon everytime he is expecting her to reach out to him. And I don't think its unfair demand in any sense. After all as Swayam said a relationship need contribution from both. And about not taking straightly - well something is to be realized by yourself. It can't be handed over to you.

And just when I thought no one is going to have the same point of view as mine, I read your comment.
Great reply. 👍🏼
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Honestly I'm really hurt n disappointed with Swayam yesterday.. Swayam wants Sharon to take the first step.. Fine! Even I want that.. Swayam is being rude to her to make her realize that hes not giving in first this time.. again fine with me! rudely throwing the truth in her face is one thing but why does he have to lie to her is something I dun understand.. saying things like 'I dont have time for u' or 'ur not important to me' is not gonna make sharon come running for him.. Theres something here.. For swayam break up didnt happen but for sharon it did! N on top of that swayam saying these stuff to her is only gonna make her believe that swayam doesnt want her anymore n that hes moved on!! Now I dont understand how saying stuff like 'ur not important to me' is gonna make the person realize otherwise, esp when swayam is saying it so convincingly!! :/

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