Hey tareyians,
I am really sorry to make this post.
I don't want to create any fights or anything.
But I just couldn't stop myself from making this.
I just read those post that Taani from a weak girl, she is suddenly giving attitude and all that.
I am really sorry, but I didn't agree with that.
Do you all feel ki (talking to tareyians) Taani me sudden overnight change aya he?
I mean,
I kind of remember that
1. She made many mistakes and faced oppositions. (Of course she faced. She made mistakes so completely agree that she should face oppositions)
2. Then she went through a heart break. (She found out that the most important person in her life doesn't consider her at all special.)
3. Then she went through nervousness phase and getting manipulated by Shivam, didn't she?
4. Then she became a martyr for Rey's sake. Because Shivam messed up with her mind and her confidence.
5. I will tell you that I didn't like her untill this. It hurts to see someone going through so many problems like that. So I didn't exactly enjoyed this. Taani ko problem ho aur hame acha lage esa to nahi hoga. And of course I didn't like that she was going through so many problems etc.
6. Itana confidence khone ke bad, oppositions from all sides and from within herself. Kyunki she knew ki usane bahot sari galati ki he. Usake bad kon depressed aur under confident nahi rehta?
7. Par usake bad Sharon ne usako apne aap pe vishwas dilaya. Use kaha ki tume hamesha sympathy ke liye ready nahi rehna chahiye. Hamesha Damsel in distress nahi bane rehna chahiye. Aur koi samjhe ya na samjhe, tumhe khud pe bharosa karana chahiye. Aur Taani ne Sharon ki bato ko samjha. Pehle se wo khud se true to thi hi. Jab galati karati thi, tab bhi wo samjhati thi aur accept karati thi apni galati, at least khud ke samne. Not like those people, jo khud se jhuth bolate he. (This quality of her is the most great quality. I like it.) Par now, she started to stand up for what she believed to be right.
8. Ek aur bat Taani ki, if you have realised. She hates taking favors. Jese Swayam kehta he ki Khuddar type ki he usaki behen. Bhale hi kitani hi weird thi, childish thi, innocent thi. Ek quality usaki dikhayi gayi thi ki use apne kam khud karane ki aadat thi. Use ye bilkul pasand nahi tha ki koi usape koi favor kare. Jese she believed ki Shivam ne usaki usake bure wakht me sath diya tha. Isliye campaigning ke wakht usane Shivam ka sath diya. Ek favor lautane ke liye. Aur abhi jab matured ho rahi he, to wo apna stand khud lena chahti he. Isliye apne bhai se bhi keh diya ki I agree with what Rey say, though indirectly. Ki use sab kuch easily nahi milana chahiye, log use blame na kare kyunki usaka bhai unaka friend he that is not acceptable by me. That is a nice thing na. Sab me itani himmat nahi hoti I think.
9. Coming to fake CD part. Even I didn't like ki usane fake CD banayi, Rey ke pas aane ke liye. Mene to wo sare scenes bahot bad me dekhe. Mitwa sequence se mene d3 dekhna chalu kiya tha. Par muje ye samaj me nahi aa raha ki usako itana arsa bit gaya he, phir bhi usake liye bashing kyun chal rahi he? Ek galati ke liye kisiko abhi tak itana hate karana, that is a little weird. And I do remember ki 6th dancer ke fiasco ke bad Taani ko sabne kitana kuch bola tha. Use boycott kiya tha. Swayam ne usako itana danta tha. For the right reasons. And Taani had the strength to stand up to people in that canteen party and accept to everyone that this was her mistake. To apologize to them numerous times. Swayam ke samne, Rey ke samne, team ke samne. Aur team ne bhi ye accept kiya tha ki we do blame you aur sari bhadas Taani pe nikali thi. Right?
10. Sharon aur usaki bat ke bad, Taani ne apne liye stand up karana shuru kiya. Jisme bhi wo kai bar giri. Usne Rey jise wo itana pyar karati he use alvida keh diya.
11. I think ki Taani ka ye jo confidence aya he wo sudden overnight change nahi he. Ek slow healthy process he.
Khud pe bharosa karana sikhna, phir team se opposition face karana. Manhandling face karana. Aur dhire dhire khud ko strong banana. That is indeed deep process. Aapko pata he psychology me kehte he. Jab aap bahot sari galatiyon ke bad sudhar jao na. Tab aapko bahot opposition face karana padta he. Because you are truthful to yourself. Aur wo people ko apni galatiyon ko accept karane ki aur dhakelta he. Aur har kisi ke pas itani strength nahi hoti ki wo apni galatiyon ko khule aam bina reaction ki parvah kiye accept kare.
12. Ek aur bat jo prove karati he ki Taani Rey se sacha pyar karati he. Muje ye nahi pata ki Tarey made for each other he ya nahi. Unhe sath hona bhi chahiye ya nahi. Muje esa lagta he ki wo ek dusro ke liye perfect he. Par har ek ki alag soch hoti he. Muje lagta he. Kisiko nahi lagta he. Though me chahti hu ki wo dono sath aaye as a mad Tareyian and mad Taani and especially Rey, KAS fan. Par ye jaroor pata he ki wo galatiyan bhale hi kare par ek sachi ladki he. Aur sacha pyar karana janati he. Kyunki usane Rey ke itane usase gussa hone par, rudely bat karane par, insult karane par bhi unake gusse ko samjha he aur ek second ke liye bhi unhe blame nahi kiya. Wo Rey ko samjhati he aur isiliye bhale hi pyar karane ki hi galati ki ho wo apni galati samjhati he.
13. I am really sorry to write this point, par muje yahi ek bat he jo hajam nahi hoti. It's related to Kriya and I mean no disrespect. So please, refrain from commenting if you are not a tareyian. Par mene abhi abhi Kriya Rey scenes etc dekhe he. And I liked them. Bas last scene kuch hajam nahi hota. Kriya ne Rey se jhuth bola ki wo unse kabhi pyar nahi karati thi because she wanted to forget him. Her words- "Meri" life me aapki jagah aur koi nahi le sakta Rey. I am so sorry. Kya Kriya ko Rey ka dard, unhe jo heart break me se jana padega wo nahi dikhayi diya. Kya unhe Rey ki fikar nahi hui? Kyun about meri life? Kyun unhone ek bar bhi mention nahi kiya ki unhe Rey ki life ki fikar he. Forgive me for comparing, par Rey jab Taani ko insults karane ke bad guilty feel kar rahe the to Taani ne wo guilty feel na kare isliye jhuth bola tha ki me aapki wajah
se lost nervous nahi rehti hu. In fact acha hua ki aapne muje dant diya. Just because Rey was feeling bad and guilty, Taani ne unhe acha feel karane ke liye, unhe bura na lage isliye apna dard chupa diya. Because no matter what she genuinely cares about him. Aur itana hone ke bad bhi wo unako blame nahi karati as she loves him.
14. Kuch log esa bhi kehte he ki Rey Kriya ko bilkul bhul gaye he. But I don't think so. Just because wo express nahi karate so what. Aur muje lagta he ki Rey ke liya wo ek bad past he. He still believes ki Kriya used him. Jis ladki se unhone itana pyar kiya unhone Rey ke sath dhoka kiya. Aur esa bad past hamesha yad kyun rakha jaye. Kese bhi karake unhone wo apne devdas phase se bahar aaye he. Ye fact accept kiya he ki Kriya wahan nahi he. Aur na hi aane wali he. To ab phirse use yad karege to wapis hurt hoga. Kyun khud ko janbujh ke dard diya jaye. Kyun Rey aage nahi badh sakte. Manati hu ki Taani ne bahot galatiyan ki he. Par pyar calliber dekh ke to nahi hota. Pyar dil se hota he na. Aur esa muje nahi lagta ki Taani is dumb. I really think ki Taani me bahot talent he. Par wo hamesha Joint family me rahi he aur wese environment me kayi bar ham khud ko pehchan nahi pate. Jahan har koi hamare aage defence me khada ho jata he, ham khud ko kabhi kabhi protect karana bhul jate he. This is the reality.
15. Sharon ne di hui ek enlightning ke bad Taani ne sachayi ka sath dena shuru kiya. Jisame wo jinhe friends manati thi unhone usako blame kiya. Par this time usane dar ke apni side nahi badali na. I mean campaigning ke wakht. Usane khud apna sath diya. Bhale hi kisiko bura lage.
16. Usake bad usane kisipe rely karana chod diya. Sirf khud ke bharose individualistic jine ki koshish ki aur apne aap pe trust karana sikha. Ignoring the second thoughts.
17. Jab hum khud pe rely karate he to hame apni soch, apni khud ki bate samjhane lagti he aur ham sensible hone lagte he. Jo logic ki kami thi, wo usame aa gayi. Kuch log to puri jindagi wrong beliefs me jite he. But Taani is strong enough ki samay rehte usane apni galatiyan sudhari. Aur jab wo khud ko maf kar payi to usane apni life ki nayi shuruat kari.
18. Ab about the so called sudden attitude. I don't think ki ye sudden change he. Pehle she was very underconfident, like in campaigning. Bhale hi wo sach ka sath de rahi thi, par confidence nahi tha usame. Jese hum usake Rey ke sath usake convorsation me dekh sakte he. 'Me ek bewakuf ladki hu, jisase anjane me bahot sari galatiyan ho jati he.'
19. Fir Taani ne apna confidence paya. Apne aap pe dhire dhire trust kiya. Jese hum Dance Camp ki notice dene ke wakht dekh sakte he.
20. Wo apne aap pe rely karane lagi. Jese Bus me chadhte wakht Shivam ki help se usane inakar kiya. Tab bhi Shivam was unnecessarily touching her. Par usane Shanti se, in low voice par saf inakar kiya Shivam ki help ka. Low voice par usane right kam hi kiya. Aur give up nahi kiya. Bus me bhi Shivam ki despo behaviour ko politely hi sahi inakar kiya. The end result matters.
21. Fir usane apna aavaj pehli bar uncha kiya jab Shivam ne Rey ke bareme ulata sidha bola. How could she take it? Koi bhi apne apno ke bareme galat nahi sun sakta. Ab ye koi mane ya na mane. Mana ki past me she could not stand up. Par now she can.
22. Fir jab Shivam ne usako sabke samne 'meet my girlfriend' etc chalu kiya to notice ki Taani usase dur chali gayi. She could not say anything par usane right ki side li.
23. Fir Shivam ne jab use kiss kiya to usane pehli bar aavaj unchi ki fir bhi politeness ke sath. 'Ye sab nahi. Please'
24. She is gradually developing. Developing time ke sath nahi hota. Par realisation ke sath hota he. Jitani bhi situations aayi, bhale hi she was scared, she took the right side facing her fear and others manipulation.
25. Fir Shivam ne use manhandle aur manipulate kiya. This is the best point. Ye jo wakht tha na tab she could have easily break. Choice hi nahi thi. Usaki past ki galati ki wajah se (Fake relationship) she was facing the results ki wo kisiko kuch bata bhi nahi sakti thi. Agar wo batati to use aur humiliation face karana padta. Aur nahi batati to Shivam use manhandle karata. She faced the manhandling and manipulation for a time. Par jab usane dekha ki wo kuch jyada hi kar raha he to usane kuch consequences ki parwa kiye bina usase sare rishte nate sab tod diya. And may I remind you ki is bar usane pehli bar apna aavaj uncha kiya. This was the development. Par fir bhi ek politeness ke sath, ek hesitation ke sath. Because she still wasn't that confident girl. Isliye usane please bhi kaha. 'Aur please aaj ke bad to muje akela chod do' Par sachai ka sath nahi choda.
26. Taani ko mana ki sab ne I mean Rey Swayam aur Sharon ne kabhi kabhi blind support kiya he. Which was because they cared for her out of responsibility. Par aakhir me Taani ne apni way apna rasta khud banaya he. Aakhir me Taani ne apni help khud ki he.
27. I really don't think ki ye sudden attitude change he. This is a slow gradual process of development of character. Jaha pehle truth ka sath diya, dhire dhire apne dar ka samna kiya, sari hesitation gradually gayi aur itane oppositions, itane breaks ke bad she has this attitude. And she deserves it.
28. I don't believe in blindly supporting any person or any character. Muje jo sahi lagta he wo bol rahi hu, Mana ki tareyian hu par blind faith girl nahi. After all wo mere lagte kya he relation me ki blind trust karu. But I really, genuinely like them. Especially Taani. Jo kuch underconfident, underestimated logo ke liye ek misal he. Jinhone Taani se bahot kuch sikha he. Unhone apne aap pe bharosa karana sikha he. Maybe a little irritating thi. Par her character is really great. Entertainment ke sath ek lesson. Life ka lesson. Kese mushkilo ka samna kare wo lesson deti he.
29. Usake bad usane Shivam kisika kuch bura kare usase pehle usako sabke samne expose kar diya. Aur jab bhi kisine bhi usaki help karane ki koshish ki as Rey and Swayam. She always stopped them. Kyunki she no longer wants to be an overprotected girl. She knows ki use apna stand khud lena padega. Isliye wo harek situation ko khud se handle karati he. And there we see her talent. Ki usake bolane ke bad Shivam bhi kuch nahi bol pata. Wo Shivam jo manipulation me bahot great he. Use Taani ne chup karaya he. That is what I am talking about. If she keeps it up, she can be great in debating. That is what I feel. I mean we do see examples like Swayam's in her family. They have got a great talent of understanding the mental position of persons. Swayam is really wise na.
30. Fir usake bad ek aur chunauti aayi Taani ki life me. GS position and once again opposition from Rey. She is against Dance Ban so she indirectly supports them. And still compleates her responsibilty as a GS. In good faith to all students. Scholership programme is good for the college, so she supports it, as her duty. And indirectly helps her friends too. Agar Taani ko power hi chahiye hota to first time jab wo log dance kar rahe the subhe rehersal hall me, tabhi na keh deti. But she didn't. Mana ki she can't openly support them, but she supports them while she can. Aur tab bhi she faced arguments with Rey, aur Taani ne hamesha thande dimag se Rey ka samna kiya.
31. Usake bad bhi arguments etc aaye, par she kept her calm.
32. Now about the recent mistake. Ek unknown mistake thi. Under work load or whatever. Mistake is a mistake. I agree with Rey on his words ki Taani ko itana irresponsible nahi hona chahiye tha and I believe ki kahin na kahin Swayam also agrees with Rey, par kuch bol nahi raha he as Taani usaki behen he. Taani ko kitana guilty feel ho raha hoga ki usaki wajah se Rey to chalo janedo, par apne bhai jisane hamesha usaka sath diya he, use problem ho rahi he. The last sorry she said to Rey usame kya pain sirf muje hi dikha? Aur Swayam bhi dekh raha tha ki wo kitani guilty feel kar rahi he isliye to usane Taani ko calm down karane ki koshish ki. She 'is' worried and feeling guilty. Isliye to Rey aur Swayam se kaha ki sabkuch sach pehle hi sab ko bata do, though she knows ki agar esa kiya to use phirse oppositions face karane padege.
33. Sharon ke liye usane VP sir se bat ki, that is good too. Par jab Rey kuch jyada gussa ho gaye to after all wo kab tak Sorry bolati rahegi. Use apne aapko defend karane ki full permission milani chahiye. Aur esa nahi he ki wo apni galati ko defend kar rahi he. Usane ek bar bhi ye nahi kaha ki galati aapki thi. Balki wo apni galati sudharne ki koshish kar rahi he. Aur muje lagta he ki agar wo apna aavaj uncha nahi karati to Rey usaki bat sunate hi nahi. She is still in a developing mode. Aur is bar wo apne aap ko khud handle karana chahti he. Abhi tak jo defences usake aajubaju the wo sab tod diye he Taani ne ek ek karke. Ab sirf Swayam baki tha. To usane Swayam ko bhi keh diya ki aap ab mere liye responsibility mat lijiye. Me khud ye opposition, ye blame face karugi. Kyunki galati meri he. Aur Taani ye nahi chahti ki use koi blame na kare kyunki wo Swayam ki behen he. Ye sirf shuruat he apni pehchan banane ki. Swayam ki behen ke poster se bahar nikal ke khud ki alag pehchan banane ki. Har koi hamesha se confident or individualistic to nahi hota, jese Kriya thi. Taani is not on the way to become Kriya. She is not becoming so hyper, she is just becoming herself. Jahan use bolna chahiye wahan wo bol rahi he. And I
completely support her. I am very proud to be a Taani fan. Even more proud now a days. If you are one then do comment.
I hope itani lambi chaudi totally a defense post (I agree it is a defense post. Because I am a Tareyian and I want to defend her. Because I feel like it. I support Tarey.I love Tarey. I adore Tarey. I amore Tarey. I admire Tarey. I love Taani. I love Vrinda di. I love Rey. I love KAS. Forever.) kisi non-tareyian ne na padhi ho. Aur agar padhi he aur first line of the post post bhul gaye ho to I would like to remind you ki you are not allowed to comment as I am really fed up of fights.
And Tareyians, I really feel ki kuch fans thode selfish ban rahe he. Unhe current track pasand nahi to abhi D3 bandh karne ke liye petitions likhe ja rahe he. Its not fare. Mana ki hum kisiko bash nahi karate, par galat ho raha ho to muje nahi lagata ki hame chup bethana chahiye. Sometimes it gives the wrong impression that we are weak. Which we are not. Hamari strength hamare numbers me he.
I would really like to tell you ki agar loyal old d3 fan ka matlab ye he ki bina soche samjhe kisiko bash karana, kisike beliefs ke khilaf bure comments karana, kisiko behenji bulana, hame pasand nahi to jinhe pasand he unhe enjoy bhi na karane dena, unhe insult karana, unaki life hell banana esa he. To I am gald. I am glad that I am not at all loyal to d3, but to myself. Hame jo sach lagta he, use support karate he. Nahi lagta to we refrain from commenting. I am extremely proud today to be a Tareyian. Because we are nice guys.
I really love you guys. Love you all.
Really sorry agar kisiko bura laga ho. But sometimes someone crosses limit and I can't stand silent in that position.
Someone hurted me by those insults and I just had to make this post.
I hope mene kisi Tareyian ko kisi tarah hurt na kiya ho.
Please tell if you have any problem with any point of mine.
Just I am so hurt seeing some posts and all this bashing.
Please haters, stay away. I really don't want this topic to be closed and anyways I am not talking to you.
Just me and my lovely tareyian friends are happy to talk together.
Do comment, and do write if you are a Tarey fan.
Love ya...
Aashna.
Once again. Reminding you. Tarey haters. Stay away.