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P.S: This has not been written to hurt anybody's feelings or in reference to a specific person or fan base,it rather applies to all,all the people herein, India forums who take out time out of their busy schedules to show love and affection towards the celebs they like and admire. I have tried my best to be impartial here but if anyone smells d partiality ,is free to SPEAK his /her mind.
PP.S: I'LL BE GLAD to hear a word from from you and your response will be appreciated. Through this post of mine i do not intend to teach you something neither a stranger is supposed to do so but i would definitely like to share something n would love if u'll correct me wherever m wrong...so here it is...
D3,a show with a unique concept started with KRIYANSH,gradually making its way into audiences hearts. People welcomed KRIYANSH with open arms cos of their acting skills,charm and cuteness. They got all the love from the people that was very well earned by them.
SWARON,on the other hand by dint of their hard work forced the people to fell in love with them,they connected to the fans immediately cos of their stage presence. So, in this way D3 reached the heights.
Everything was on its right track but then one day shakti ( one of d promising female leads) had to leave the show as she wanted to pursue her career in dancing and very wisely she listened to her heart and followed her dreams. Only a few lucky people get a chance to do so n shakti is one of them. No one ever forced her to leave the show,it was her sole decision to take up dance as her career. Some supported her and some stood against her,only to see her in d3, but guys,she can only appreciate the love that she gets from you,but she can not plan her life according to our wishes cos everyone needs to be clear on priorities in life and not get caught up in endless distractions and this is exactly what she did and we should respect her decision.
After all this vrinda was then roped in to play taani ( rey's leading lady) then what is vrida's fault in this if the cvs out of d crowd chose her ??? people accepted TAAREY AS WELL and y not they too are trying their best. everyone wants to earn the name,fame, money like every other person does den y people always bash her and shivam saying that they are the worst thing ever happened to d3?????? they have been playing the role that is given by the cvs. they don't speak the lines on their own , instead represents what is there in the script.
why do we always keep ourselves on a safer side saying that we bash the characters not the actors???
the fact is this negativity and criticism is not only confined to the characters,it rather affects their personal lives and at the same time we loose our positive energy...
so why to be critical and judgemental everytime ?? let the destiny decide everything...see, a person should never get angry at two things in life- first, what he can help and second, what he cannot help. I hope i am clear?????
..M SORRY BUT I HAVE TO BE PARTIAL HERE ...SWARON,as i assume, is the most beautiful couple i have ever seen ( though m crazy about TANHA). As is rightly said that there are a countless number of things that will catch your eye but only a few out of them will catch your heart and m really proud to say that TANHA rules my heart. Sometimes they make cry,sometimes they make me laugh,i live every emotion portrayed by them and i seriously mean it.
Eveytime i come on this forum,i find it full of negativity and hatred. For the last so many days i have found only negativity here,i used to love to come herE on India forums and read the comments but as of now i try to keep myselF away cos noone can handle negativity for a long time.
Can u imagine how difficult it wOuld be to work under pressurized conditions for d cvs and the actors??
Thats why, ALWAYS try and put yourself in others shoes and if YOU feel that it hurts you den it probably hurt the other person too( it applies to all including me).I understand the fact that we love SWARON/TANHA ( so do the other fan base like TAAREY and KRIYANSH) but at d end of day you are responsible for your actions,there are no excuses only eternal consequences. God has been filming everything and he'll not turn a blind eye, SO we have to be careful in everything we do or plan to do because this world is the corridor to the next world...its your life- right here and right now so make the best out of it.
I wonder for how long can some one take dis criticism in a positive way???? someone once told me that watching d3 is still better den coming to the forum everyday cos it hurts here.
you love,hate ,appreciate and criticize people but in a constructive way ...free yourself from the negatives vibes coming to your mind again and again cos you too have a life and it is for growth and struggle not for blaming others when they are not even listening to you. AS I ALWAYS SAY India forums is meant for millions of fans like us to speculate things,express their views n all but do it in a positive manner not to hurt anybody...love your celebs,have discussions about them,stand for them when they need your support but always keep in mind that your actions should not intend to hurt anyone.
i'll now have to stop writing but remember one thing...
ANGER AND DEPRESSION ARE MOMENTARY MADNESS,so control your passion or it will control you!!!!!!!!!!
sorry for making such a weird post!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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