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Posted: 13 years ago

So today we saw Swayam and Sharon sharing fond memories as Swayam worked on his cycle ... knowing Sharon took an interest in cycles ... BECAUSE of SWAYAM . Bet it made his heart swell in happiness 😳

But is it only the past they are going to be talking about ? Is it only the past that is going to make them smile ? Will they not make new memories ?

Swayam had always taken it slow for Sharon's sake , given her the space she'd always wanted. But sometimes one wonders if he'd given her too much space. Sometimes in a relationship one needs to be a a little assertive and ask for a little reciprocation. At times when one is neglected in a relationship far too much, one needs to overstep the boundaries of comfort and assert ones rights and feelings. Agar Sharon se itna mangne ka usse haq nahin hai toh Swayam mein aur pados ke Ram-Pyaare mein kya fark hai ?

Yeh 'trial' phase kab tak chalega ?

Have you made up your mind about us ?

If not How long are you going to be taking to let me know ?

Are we in this for the long run ?

Instead of asking her these questions .. he is asking her if SHE is happy with this TRIAL relationship. Matlab agar Sharon TRIAL relationship se khush hai toh humesha yeh TRIAL phase hi chalta rahega ? Will things never move ahead ? Why does this always have to be about Sharon's happiness ? And HER comfort ? Does Swayam's happiness not matter to her at all ? Since when is a relationship always about such sacrificial notions ?

I dont know ... today's episode was bittersweet but seeing the precap I get the feeling that the past is all Swayam and Sharon will ever have. Swayam will continue to give Sharon her space and Sharon will continue to remain in this confused/semi-denial limbo of hers and there will come a time when the space will be too vast for the either of them to transcend.

This is sad. So very sad.

Edited by SwaRon911 - 13 years ago

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nandini

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Posted: 13 years ago

It is sad, indeed. And sadder when you put it as well as you do, Rafz.

That's what I'm beginning to think too, by now. That memories are all SwaRon as well as I will ever have, as a fan of theirs, as a source of happiness when I think of them. Because making new happy memories seems SUCH a distant dream right now, it's not even funny.

I have no issues with this being a 'trial' relationship, and am in no hurry to watch them in a 'committed' relationship yet either. What I have a problem with is that just calling it a 'trial' everytime you speak of it, doesn't take away from the fact that it IS a relationship, something they seem to remember only during times of differences like this long-stretched one. The OTHER side of a relationship, trial ho ya committed, is virtually non-existent by now. And please, let no one feed me the now-ancient-plus-obsolete logic of happy moments bhi dikhaye hain, because jab dikhaye the, even that feels like ancient history now. I'm sorry, but it's been a MONTH since they were happy just being together. And that long of watching the same fight, the same appeasing, taunting, walking away loop, will get to ANYONE after a point of time. 👎🏼

It HURTS.

Edited by -.nandini.- - 13 years ago

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praj

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Posted: 13 years ago

yes they will make new memories sure they will...taani & rey ke romance ki memories , taani & shivam ke so called relationship ke memories...😳😳. kam paade to pure gang ke relationship wale memories...😉...

swayam is giving sharon so much space that after few days if swayam goes to outer space just for the sake of giving her space & time then i wont wonder that either😆😆😆.

i believe in moving ahead ...making every moment count ... i agree that past is important but what about today...because tomorrow this today will be your memory...if you don't have today ...how come you have memory for future.

i really fail to understand...when the will take those important few steps ...those really important few steps which will make their bond more strong & deep...take relationship to another level

this cant go on for long...they cant hang in between...

swayam should take those few steps & make her realize its all about love that she feels & scared to express

those crucial steps...need to be taken

Edited by prachin10 - 13 years ago

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Snowey

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Posted: 13 years ago

Rafi awesome post.

Thats the problem, Swayam will never impose himself on Sharon and even though most the questions you put forth makes sense he will never ask her the same, nor in the near future.

But what he asked today was sure important too. Sharon needs to open up and convey what she really feels. We get a side of her when she is "checking out" Swayam with a blush and smile playing on her face and reminiscing the beautiful memories they share and the other side when asked her reason for visit she deliberately crushes his an our hopes by saying its for WORK.

I fail to understand her, i am confused.

SwaRon instead of making new memories together and stuck in their beautiful past..for how long..No one seems to have the answer to it.

Sharon's happiness is all that matters to Swayam and i am waiting for the day when i can see Sharon sharing the same feelings for Swayam. She is still in her denial mode..and god knows for how long?

Also however cute and nice it was to see SwaRon talking and not blaming anything on each other..it still remained a open ended scene.

Edited by Sudha-SK - 13 years ago

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Sowmya

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Posted: 13 years ago

First When Swayam and Sharon decided for Trail relationship I was happy , I thought atleast they will be in realtionship. Off late it looks like all these trail relationship thing is lollypop given by cv's to shut our mouth. The way they are behaving, their one arm length distance, less communication, cryptic dialogues, sharon's weird behaviour(sometime back it was swayam's weird behaviour) and open ended scenes are boring me to the core. And as Palki stated, balance in swaron, I dont see any balance in swaron.

Agree with the below line completely

Swayam will continue to give Sharon her space and Sharon will continue to remain in this confused/semi-denial limbo of hers and there will come a time when the space will be too vast for the either of them to transcend.

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--Rumeli--

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Posted: 13 years ago

I really dont know what shud i say abt 2days SS scene it was sweet if i say i dont try to link it to the scenes dey had in the past!dis whole thing of sharon coming to swayam's home was a bit crucial one cz what I felt was necessary on both of their part to clear out the small titsy bitsy fights dey had so far!!space is indeed necessary bt at this situation applying rightfullness on ur partner is alot crucial!dis tym Swayam needs to make her understand!otherwise the trail phase wud be a never ending mess!

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Sakina

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Posted: 13 years ago

Rafz...Present mein HAI KYA ki woh present ke baare mein baat karenge?

The past had intensity.It had passion.It had depth.It had beauty of an infinite nature.It had an inexplicable bond that we were all drawn to.It had an amazing,crackling chemistry.

What do we have NOW?

Two people,who,even though are in a relationship...have ONLY misunderstandings,and stone-cold chemistry.

THIS is what the creatives left us for.

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Sudha-SK
We get a side of her when she is "checking out" Swayam with a blush and smile playing on her face and reminiscing the beautiful memories they share and the other side when asked her reason for visit she deliberately crushes his an our hopes by saying its for WORK.

So Sharon is just with him ... cuz hez cute ?!

I dont get her . If looking at him was out of affection ... why not reciprocate to him ?

Why not love the poor guy in return ?

Sharon ko dekhke lagta hai woh is commmitment ke chakkaron mein phansna hi nahin chahti .. Swayam se jaan churane ke liye .. or I dunno .. naya koi experience ke liye she is in this trial relationshio ... not because she ACTUALLY likes him ! Cuz if you DID like someone as much as Sharon often CLAIMS to like Swayam .. you cannot deny them that affection when you clearly know its what theyve been looking forward to for so long !

Koi pyaar vyaar kuch nahin hai, sirf TP as in timepass ho raha hai yahan toh !

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doc42

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Posted: 13 years ago

I seriously haven't been speaking much about them lately now as i don't think the creatives of the hsow have left anything to say. As you rightly pointed it out, SwaRon have just the past memories and may be all SwaRon fans even have those past memories to cherish. There's always a way to deal with things, we know Swayam is polite and all but he can explain and ask her things in a nice way.atleast Swayam deserves it now.

Edited by doc42 - 13 years ago

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Winds.of.Winter

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Posted: 13 years ago

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My mixed feelings actually got a direction after reading this post...yeah it was quite nice or rather OK to see SwaRon like that.but at the same time its pretty depressing to see how they never even look at each other the way they did before....that longing,that pain of not seeing each other...alas! gone r those days.🤢 yet today i loved the way sharon enjoyed watching swayam.but itna hi enjoy kar rahi ho to itna gussa keu?woh bhi without a reason??😔 n agar gussa ho then break away frm the "TRIAL" relationship n khud ko aur hum log ko chain se jeene do...😕

for me swayam shouldnt even be askin questions.he should be taking some damn actions.😡n if swayam plans sumthng his majnu way sharon cant help but fall for it.☺️ swayam kya bola tha?"i ll make u fall in love with me". as lame as it was (cz she IS in love with him) we all LOVED IT. n anticipated so much.kya mila?thenga...👎🏼

sharon might be a complicated grl not a psycho😕 aise beejh mein latakna koi nahi pasand karna.every person like things sorted in their life.so sharon's attitude for me is confusing n sumtimes she just pisses me off.😡u like swayam???then why dnt u love him the way u shud?the way he deserves?n if u dnt like him just leave him so that he doesnt live on the hope ki kab yeh trial relationshp asli relationship mein convert hoga...😡 god!! she is now a character made to torture swayam.poor guy

as for swayam... no comments.bhai humaare liye hi sahi thodi self respect dikha do...which guy can stand this BS for so long??every freakin time she talks,she insults.swayam should leave her n let her realize her mistake.😡

D3 n SwaRon gets more confusing with every word i write.but at the end i miss my SwaRon.BADLY..

P.S: aap post to accha likhte hi ho but my reason for loving it is alwz one thng.the humour quotient."pados k ram-pyaare" lol... 🤣🤣🤣

Edited by D3fan_forever - 13 years ago