ailusri1983]This show is full of historical athyachars and balathkars. Point taken. Where is the need for any of us to either be defensive about it or argue vehemently with each other? Let us keep things pleasant for each other on the forum without trying to either convince the other or trying to impose our views and preferences on the others. This is to both KVK and Ashwaki lovers and KVK and Ashwaki haters. I think all of us can peacefully coexist in our respective spaces. It is a show at the end of the day. Let us all remember that. We come here to discuss, to appreciate, to vent our frustrations if we have any, and make some good friends if we can. Let's not end up making virtual enemies for the sake of a TV show.
You can't fester a healthy environment with comments like "haters stay away".
True some people go overboard. But Capricorn was very respectful in the other thread. The way her opinions were rebuffed and mocked was very offensive.
You guys have all the fun you want. But do remember this is a forum and not everyone having a different opinion is a "hater".
I was never disrespectful to anyone in any of my posts. I remember comparing the romance in PRC and CAS in some of my posts and I am not sorry for it nor do I retract from whatever I said there. It was just said in passing and not in detail.
Even in the other post I and Capricorn had a fruitful and constructive discussion where we put forth our respective view points. I never rebuffed or mocked any of her views. I have not used the hater and lover terms till now. I was forced to use them here just to show how in our intolerance we are forgetting the fact that everyone is entitled to their views and preferences and are creating a very unhealthy atmosphere in the forum.
I personally do not support anybody who calls a person with views different from my own as a hater. Nor do I support posts which say, " Haters stay away." But just like that calling people who love a particular pair or character as "Substandard" or "Cheap" should also be avoided if possible. We should all of us learn to draw the line between either our admiration or frustration for what happens on the show and turning personal with a person with a different viewpoint or perspective.
I wasn't referring to you brother(or sister, excuse my confusion). I actually like your posts.
I was referring to someone else who has been one of the reasons for discord in this otherwise friendly forum. I liked the discussion that you and Capricorn were having until she interrupted with her presumptuous ramblings.
It is sister. I joined this forum very recently. I've not been following the show very regularly from the beginning. Was watching it on and off. Started watching it regularly when the Taxila track ads started airing. Just started watching and visiting this forum regularly. If these pitched battles keep on continuing, I am out of here. I come here to have fun and not get a big headache with all the pitched battles being fought here.