BHBK is a mockery of '''''..
The Institution of Marriage - A marriage is being sacrificed for the whim of an obstinate child. Can this be possible even in imagination? Aryan is a small child, around 6 or so, but he is holding Krish-Rajni marriage to ransom with his stupid demands. And what are the adults doing? Instead of trying to make him understand, if necessary even with a few white lies, they are giving in to his demands like baa-lambs! What kind of a husband is Krish when he decides to hand over his wife to another man to satisfy a child's whim? Worse, what kind of a wife is Rajni that she agrees with her husband's decision without too much of a protest''not once does she offer to forget Aryan and ask to remain with Krish! Krish's decision is considered the ultimate sacrifice of love''.bu****it!! And Rajni has fallen lower than any female lead I have seen with her acceptance! The family - what are they thinking of, have they lost their minds to encourage and appreciate their son's decision?? š² š
Parenting : The issue came to a head with Aryan overhearing Faiba shooting off her mouth about Rajni being his mother, but was it beyond the capacity of those present to distract him and make him think he heard wrong? V parivaar may say they don't lie, but almost every one of them tells small lies to make the others happy''..then why this silence on everyone's part at this crucial moment? What kind of a father is Yash''.he hides the fact of the mother's death from his son with all kinds of lies'..why not a suitable lie at this point to convince his son? What kind of a grandma is Yash's mother ' children who lose their mothers bond with the grandma if she starts taking care'..from what I see, Yash's mother is always dressed to the nines but never seems to take care of her grandson at all! Initially Yash protested and told Rajni to keep away'''then what happened to him that he keeps running to V parivaar calling Rajni whenever Aryan throws a tantrum? Losing your mother is a traumatic event for any child, but it was Yash and his mother's duty to handle Aryan and bring him out of it''.instead they have been most irresponsible, and now it is made to look like everyone is making a big sacrifice for Aryan and that is how parents should behave!
Innocence of childhood ' Aryan is a 6-year-old kid who is made to spout dialogues which are too mature for him. He comes out as a brat, a spoiled kid whose every whim needs to be satisfied or else!!! Agreed he does not understand Rajni's present position as Krish's wife, but to show the child demanding Rajni in exchange for his toys, for the child to remember Rajni and go into trauma when that kind of thing never happened when his real mother disappeared from his life''.all this is too much to swallow! And by showing everyone bowing to the child's demand, the CV's are giving out the message to kids on how to behave when they want something''..after all this show is aired at 8 pm and I am sure kids watch too! Yuck!! š”
Being Human - Everyone is mahaan, mahaan, mahaan! Everyone is ready to sacrifice for the others. No one has any wants, needs, aspirations, desires! To me the different mahaantas shown here mean different things. Rajni's mahaanta is pure selfishness ' she does not practice what she preaches. She is in love with her idea of being a mother to Aryan and nothing else. She is the worst heroine I have seen of any television show! Krish's mahaanta is superhuman'..to me it is just foolishness! No man will do what Krish is doing, as willingly as Krish! No family will sing gungaan of their bahu after all that has happened! What makes me feel murderous is the family's praise of Rajni even after knowing that she has lied to them and their encouragement of her relationship with Aryan! Krish made the biggest mistake of life when he brought Aryan to his house to meet Rajni, but no one even seems to consider it! His parents or Baa could have told him how foolish it is, but no, they praise him for it. How much sillier can it get? Mahaanta - crap!! Faiba is the only real character on the show, but even her image is spoiled with her constant nagging and vitriolic tongue! She could have been the one to knock sense into the Vaishnavs, but she is a caricature of a woman frustrated with life, so no one pays any heed to her but shut her up!
Medicine and Law: The way the surrogacy track was handled is the worst ever! Can a doctor just impregnate a teenage girl with a man's sperm without any prior tests or checkups? Okay, accept the doc was unscrupulous, but what guarantee did he have that the woman would not abort the child? How would the doc compel the girl to carry the baby to term? And what about Yash and Archana? They are obviously educated and have gone thru a lot of things before deciding on surrogacy. Would they go to any clinic without proper references and would they accept any woman as the surrogate mother of their child? Would you just give your sperm and sit back for the doc to get back to you? Would they not ask to meet the woman selected to carry the baby for them? How nonsensical''.the show should be sued for this content! āÆļø
Finally, for all the reasons above, this show is a mockery of the intelligence of the audience!! š”
The CV's changed the storyline because of low TRPs but it was not necessary to fall so low to justify the title ' even with the surrogacy track, there were lots of ways to bring the matter to BHBK, but they have chosen a suicidal path! š¤¢
It has been fun benlog, but I cannot take any more crap'''I am leaving the show! š š I may visit the forum now and then, but will not be active anymore! I have had enough and don't want what is left of my brains to rot! Will visit the fun threads now and then, but it is goodbye to the show! Hopefully, we will meet on some other forum on I-F soon! š
Gaurav, I shall always remain your fan, but even that fact will not make me watch this show...I am waiting for your next one! ā¤ļø