Aishwarya vs Kareena with their in-laws - Page 4

Simple. Sharmila Tagore and Saif’s dad’s side have always been very progressive. Bacchans have always been regressive. They made Aishwarya marry a tree for crying out loud. There’s a stark difference between having liberal in laws versus conservative ones.

Originally posted by: Supari_khala

Simple. Sharmila Tagore and Saif’s dad’s side have always been very progressive. Bacchans have always been regressive. They made Aishwarya marry a tree for crying out loud. There’s a stark difference between having liberal in laws versus conservative ones.

Oh she is soo pretty 😍 💕 if only I was born a banana tree ... that had above ground roots so I can follow her ..ask her if she wants a bananana ???

Sharmila said in an interview that Kareena does not interfere and gives them the space I think this was when Saif's father died. Kareena gave them their space and bonded with them separately. Plus Saif was very immature when he was married the first time, not a great husband or a hands on father, he grew up (sold his oats) and now is in a space to be with family and is able to balance all his relationships. Kareena even mentioned in an interview that she was not a mother figure to her and Saif's kids. She is like an older friend who you can chat with, that is a very mature take on relationships with being there when needed and not interfering in their space.

Just because they don't pose like Him Saath Saath hain, I don't know why people think that Ash is unhappy. She was very ambitious yes, but ever since her daughter was born, Ash's priorities changed and that is common. Ash was always very close to her parents and so is Abhishek. Abhishek may not be a very successful actor, but is a decent and loyal guy.

Ash also did Ae Dil after Aaradhya so I don't see where the Bachchans have stopped her. It is she who is not doing and that is her choice. Plus Ash has never been a great actress and her performances have largely based because of better directors. You can only do so much work with beauty and that does fade away and only talent and hard work stays. Ash is not ready to put in that work because her priorities changed and that is okay her life her choice.

I think Kareena genuinely loves Saif and has a blissful marriage. The way she bonds with the elder children is very beautiful to watch! It would not have been uncommom for jealousy to creep in.

Compare that to Ash's arranged marriage into a family which has been deeply immersed into superstition and tradition. Not to mention Bacchan's shady history and controversy. Ash only looked at the clout otherwise she could have done way way better!

Ash was made to marry a tree which any self respecting woman would have objected to unless you have the eyes on the prize ( which is clout and power and name) here!

I love Kareena’s bonding with Saif’s sisters as well

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➡️ Firstly, it’s all about how secure is a person. Kareena is more successful than Saif. She is still doing the mainstream leading role whereas Saif is largely part of multi starters and I don’t know when his last hit was. But, still Saif stands by and let’s Bebo shine. That shows his and his family’s maturity level.

In the Bachchan household it seems like they are only bothered about Abhishek’s career and resent Ash being more popular. He has done good work but not able to attain the stardom that his wife still enjoys even if she is away from it all. Ash is a legend. That could be a bone of contention. Even though Ash has given up any interest in having a career. Leave career she hardly gets spotted at any event or party except Ambani. Abhi goes everywhere alone. There are videos where paps have asked for solo of Ash and the interaction between Abhi and Ash at that time is quite telling.

➡️ Kareena’s in laws and sister in laws plus stepchildren don’t live with her. They all visit and go back to their own individual homes. So there is no reason as such for infighting. Anyway, there is a saying that Distance makes heart fonder.

Ash and Abhi still live with the Bachchans according to Abhishek s new interview . Add to that Shwetha has seemingly separated with her husband and she along with her kids have moved home. Staying at the same place will cause friction in most scenarios. In whatever interviews she’s done , Shwetha doesn’t come across as an easy going person.

I do not see why so many Ash topics there here.

More than SRK Hrithik Ranveer its Ash dominating in topics

Ash has given up faster than other actress on bollywood as long back as 2012-13 only she had lost interest i feel

Ash started working at 20-21 and worked till almost 40 years non stop(20 years profession as model and actress)

She studied also unlike most uneducated 7th pass or max 10th pass of her times shes studied bachelor degree till 20 years or so

So after 2012 she started concentrating on her personal life her kid and hubby and home which most women do after 40 years in india or asia

Career takes back seat for most women after 40 years in india or asia as opportunity reduces so why should she not reduce work (in laws may be a reason but not only reason)

Do you think anyone will offer Ash heroine opp Ranveer or Tiger or Varun in last 10 years not really

So shes working with other actors whenever possible

Karrena is diff case shes nepo kid Karan Johar, Yash chopra etc are all known to her family she will get offers sitting at home even at 40s unlike Ash who even bansali is not ready to offer Mastani role 10 years back

Also Saif is still getting plenty of second hero roles hes not flop like Abhishekh

Saif is also Nawab a royal family he will not go insecure like Abhishekh or Bachachans about Kareena being more popular than him. Indeed in royals usually princess r Queens have more popularity than emperors/princes from BC only. Thats why all are interested in Akbar Jodha than only Akbar achievements or Salim anarkalai than emperor Jehangir. Although you can say Akbar and Jehangir did more impt job than have love affairs with wives or lovers in reality yet ppl are only interested in their love affairs and wives than their emperor jobs. Even Ashoka love affairs with kaurawaki or Devi was more high lighted than kalinga war or his change of heart. Same for chandragupat his wives hogged more lime lights in seriall/movies than his achievements. Same for Saif his affair with Kareena takes center stage over his work always. Hes prepared for that from childhood. His mom sharmila hogged lime light over his dad pataudi.

If kareena had a dominating mom in law like jaya who wants her to stand back and stay silent not eat till in laws and hubby finish not do work to take away hubby lime light etc she would have had very big cat fights with her mom in law. Saif has never been a good son he never takes care of Sharmila or sisters ever they are educated independent working from day one in life unlike Shwetha. Sharmila stays with elder daughter not son like it happens in india. If she stayed i doubt kareena would first allow her to stay full time with Saif unlike Ash. Even if Saba came like Shwetha and stayed with Saif in mumbai apartment Kareena claws would be out she would make Sharmila/Saba/Saif life hell than unlike Ash whose keeping quiet publicly atleast.

Unless a person is in same situation we cannot say one person is better than other. I doubt Kareena would be as nice as Ash if her in laws/sister in law landed at Saif home or even in apartment complex to stay permanent like Ash in laws. Ash is better person going by she remains stoic in public no matter what fights behind closed doors. Kareena would have spoken publicly going by her nature and created public dramas going by her past beh. I doubt she would allow saba/sharmila in saif house, i doubt saif himself would allow them or they would have shifted from delhi to mumbai by now to be near saif in old age being single sister. Ash/Abhishekh are much better they support Shwetha/Navya and her son to be in mumbai and stay with them in same compound they are good humans that means

No family is perfect.. I think it was in RK Kareena chat, Kareena really said not nice things about saif... Like he wasn't even there when she was giving birth and she does all the things on her own.. ... One can never know how bad it is unless you live with them... I just know that none can be perfect...

Aren't abhi Ash and Sr. Bacchans living separately since years?

They have 2 bungalows amirite?

I really think Sharmila would be an ideal person- actress and family wise.

Lived her life and let's people BE.