Originally posted by: Phosphorus
What’s surprising is Fawad being bi acc to MEB’s post 😳 I mean yeah Kjo was crazy about him and all that but I thought he was another gay for pay for Kjo
I have heard that about Fawad too. But my male gaydar is trash.
Originally posted by: IAmLuvBolly
I have actually read it before on this forum that Sonam might be lesbian or bi. But there was no detail of a club and getting handsy so it probably wasn’t your post. Point being, it’s been discussed by others as well that she likes both girls and boys. But until Anand she’s kept her dating life very private and frankly it’s no one’s business so good for her.
Yeah, I have been impressed at the kind of news Sonam is in the limelight for. For a star child, she has kept her dating life private and good for her. In the grand scheme of things it's probably better to make the news for WTF nepotism moments than sex and dating scandals.
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I am always torn about speculating about celebrity sexual orientation. Everyone has a right to own their own narrative about their sexuality. South Asia isn't especially friendly to LGBTQ communities, so I can see why some people are closeted.
But I also empathize with the need for representation, to be seen not just through characters but real people with influence on society. And there is a long history of intentional hints being dropped so that only those who know know.
My theory is - as long as it is speculation in a positive, non-judgmental manner, it is fine. But once if it becomes a claim of truth, especially a threatening or outing (like Rebel Wilson) or it becomes a judgment where someone is seen less than for a closeted identity then it's a problem. I also think forcing people to out themselves with accusations of queer-baiting (Kit Connor/Becky Albertalli) is also problematic.
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That being said this is the funniest meme I have seen in the past few years.
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