Using the term "item song' is demeaning to the actress starring in it.
It reduces her to an object. A sex object whose only purpose is to provide viewing pleasure to the men watching her.
On the other hand, it's just calling spade a spade. Actresses do get objectified in item songs. They do get reduced to an "item".
Again people can watch whatever they want, but don't say it doesn't have an effect on women facing sexual objectification in real life.
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